we need to talk about how black people abuse their kids

[youreWelcomeBk]

I’m not against ass whoopings with a belt but this was extreme. Yolking him up like that and just swinging wildly with no care where you hit him , how hard or the number of times on top of talking to him like that was all wrong and abusive. I’m not against spanking kids but like op said this was some pinned up hate for the situation she in and the nikka she made him with. When I was growing up a phone call home was enough to ruin a nikka day. And the next day you came back to school you was quiet as shyt lmao. You beat kids like this you just toughening them up for the the streets and probably jail smh.

 

[DatNkkaCutty]

Some lil nggas only recognize the belt...

I know...because I was one. I understood that as I got older. Some of the demons I've come across in the street...might've been better off...if someone cared enough about them, to draw a line in the sand when they were younger or get their butt. Let them know when enough...is enough. Instead...they were allowed to run rampant...never grasped boundaries...and instead went to jail for lyin or doin fukk shyt. Some ppl even get killed for lyin or doin fukk shyt. Thought they could push the line forever. Never instilled consequence...

It's a fine line between abuse and discipline...but I'm certainly a proponent of discipline. Some kids half-ass won't listen to their parents. They damn sure aint takin orders from someone outside the home. Some children listen the first time. Others like to test you. Better me gettin that butt now for lyin or acting out...then the consequences that could await you as an adult...

There's a lot of abused children in jail. I'd bet they're outnumbered by timeout babies...and children that had no discipline in their lives tho...

 

[The Exchanges]

 

[KinksandCoils]

Calling him a nikka was wrong and that face comment was wrong. I’ve worked with kids and a lot of them are truly bad as shyt and having a talk with them don’t work. If he don’t want another beaten like that then he won’t act up. If he acts up clearly he ain’t phased by this so called slavery beaten y’all talkin about.... now if she do this just off of anything then it’s different but she probably pissed she had to leave work.

 

[Gil Scott-Heroin]

Brings back memories.

 

[Cereal_Bowl_Assassin]

Brings back memories.

It all makes sense now