Weeping mom arrested for abandoning kids spent donation money on making a rap album

[kevm3]

We should care, and men should care that a brother would accept that money. That's a bad look for black men. If one black man does it, it reflects poorly on all black men. If any black man excuses it, it makes it look like that kind of behavior is acceptable to black men. It shouldn't be.

Yes, bum nikkas do bum shyt. We need to start policing our own so that our sons and brothers and nephews learn being a bum nikka is NOT okay, it's not something to shrug off, it's not strictly the girl's fault for listening to him. Men need to put their children first as well. Those were his blood children he stole a future from, over a rap album. Yet, it wouldn't have mattered if they were merely his girlfriend's children. When you get into a relationship, you take responsibility for the children in that relationship whether they are your blood seed or not. Some will argue that, but the arguments are moot in this case as these were his blood children.

There's a problem with a fatherless community where it's fatherless because the men run from being fathers, and would rather live that matriarchal life without adult responsibilities. It's like when black men talk about how a woman can not raise a boy into a man. That's great, so be the man to raise that boy into a man. You can't do that with the attitude you display above.

If black men want to be taken seriously as men by black women and by non-blacks of either gender, black men have to take being a man seriously. Your attitude is not indicative of taking manhood seriously.

You can not be a man, when you take money from women who can't afford it. You can not be a man, when you take money from children. That's why we need to care.

She's the one that let that bum get her pregnant and she's rewarding him with cash. Men shaming bum negroes won't do a doggone thing if they're being rewarded with sex and free money. he's a loser that needs to take care of his kids, but the majority of the blame is in her lap. The money was given to HER. She had choice over it. She didn't have to fund this dude's album.

What's so pathetic about the situation si that she was given a once in a life time ticket to get her herself and her kids out of poverty , but instead of utilizing it properly, she's using it to fund a rap album and to buy luxury items. Her kids could have had a significant portion if not all of their college paid for due to that 40k compounding , but now, that looks to have evaporated. Pathetic situation all around.

 

[mamba]

We should care, and men should care that a brother would accept that money. That's a bad look for black men. If one black man does it, it reflects poorly on all black men. If any black man excuses it, it makes it look like that kind of behavior is acceptable to black men. It shouldn't be.

Yes, bum nikkas do bum shyt. We need to start policing our own so that our sons and brothers and nephews learn being a bum nikka is NOT okay, it's not something to shrug off, it's not strictly the girl's fault for listening to him. Men need to put their children first as well. Those were his blood children he stole a future from, over a rap album. Yet, it wouldn't have mattered if they were merely his girlfriend's children. When you get into a relationship, you take responsibility for the children in that relationship whether they are your blood seed or not. Some will argue that, but the arguments are moot in this case as these were his blood children.

There's a problem with a fatherless community where it's fatherless because the men run from being fathers, and would rather live that matriarchal life without adult responsibilities. It's like when black men talk about how a woman can not raise a boy into a man. That's great, so be the man to raise that boy into a man. You can't do that with the attitude you display above.

If black men want to be taken seriously as men by black women and by non-blacks of either gender, black men have to take being a man seriously. Your attitude is not indicative of taking manhood seriously.

You can not be a man, when you take money from women who can't afford it. You can not be a man, when you take money from children. That's why we need to care.

Black men have already called him every synonym related to bum in the book. We know he's scum.

That's beyond the point. When are Black women going to take accountability and stop enabling bums, stop getting impregnated by bums and bringing the children of bums into this world?

You all keep reproducing with bums, helping to keep their bum genes alive in the Black community.

 

[b. woods]

A motherfukker can tell you all day long what you should or should not
do. It's like a child when a parent tell him or her not to touch the eye
on the stove that's on. No matter how many times the child has heard
this, guess what they go and do?

I say experience is still the best teacher. But this is an old gal, if she didn't
get this shyt when it was crucial, then what the fukk do yall expect now?

Yall can call it apologists, defense mechanism or any other kinda fancy
word you wanna use. You think she's gonna see this thread? You think
she gonna see the errors in her past, present and future way?Hell no!
So yall can climb down off the soapbox, because noone in this thread was
excusing her behavior.

"A hard head makes a soft ass"

 

[Chris.B]

Black men have already called him every synonym related to bum in the book. We know he's scum.

That's beyond the point. When are Black women going to take accountability and stop enabling bums, stop getting impregnated by bums and bringing the children of bums into this world?

You all keep reproducing with bums, helping to keep their bum genes alive in the Black community.

It's never the black woman's fault

 

[mamba]

It's never the black woman's fault

Never, breh. Our community will only start to get better when everyone accepts responsibility instead of just shifting blame.

 

[MCMLXXIX]

real talk tho, I felt bad for ol girl in the beginning, especially for her innocent kids
but reading that she spent the money on designer clothes (micheal kors ) and her baby daddy rap album


people really thought giving a hoodrat 100k was going to motivate her to make good decisions

I say lock her ass up and take her kids away and give them to a family who will take care of them
since we know that she gives ZERO fukks about them and it's CLEAR that her nikka's rap career and designer clothes is MORE important than her own kids

In agreement.

Why didn't someone set this money up in a trust fund for the kids? I understand now you can set up fund raising efforts on a website, but this is what you get when you do not do things the correct way.

A trust could have been set up for the kids, then a small amount of money given to the family to help with expenses. Once the money is given to the family, that's it. They can do anything they want to do with it. One of those lawyers should have tried to set her up financial planner to help her out, if she said no, then move on. You cannot just give someone money and expect them to handle it properly.

Hell, people win millions and are broke years later.

So if folks didn't see this coming, then hey....their fault. Wash your hands and move on. Let her deal with the issues with no support now.

People put to much into folks today. I'll help you out here and their, but if you are not actively helping your situation get better then I'm done.

 

[Diddly Drogba]

We should care, and men should care that a brother would accept that money. That's a bad look for black men. If one black man does it, it reflects poorly on all black men. If any black man excuses it, it makes it look like that kind of behavior is acceptable to black men. It shouldn't be.

Yes, bum nikkas do bum shyt. We need to start policing our own so that our sons and brothers and nephews learn being a bum nikka is NOT okay, it's not something to shrug off, it's not strictly the girl's fault for listening to him. Men need to put their children first as well. Those were his blood children he stole a future from, over a rap album. Yet, it wouldn't have mattered if they were merely his girlfriend's children. When you get into a relationship, you take responsibility for the children in that relationship whether they are your blood seed or not. Some will argue that, but the arguments are moot in this case as these were his blood children.

There's a problem with a fatherless community where it's fatherless because the men run from being fathers, and would rather live that matriarchal life without adult responsibilities. It's like when black men talk about how a woman can not raise a boy into a man. That's great, so be the man to raise that boy into a man. You can't do that with the attitude you display above.

If black men want to be taken seriously as men by black women and by non-blacks of either gender, black men have to take being a man seriously. Your attitude is not indicative of taking manhood seriously.

You can not be a man, when you take money from women who can't afford it. You can not be a man, when you take money from children. That's why we need to care.

funny because I heard a chick being mad at some woman on rhoa for letting her husband have a say in his stepchilds life. she said she would never let a man come in her life and tell her how to raise HER child, and she is not the only woman that thinks like that

 

[mamba]

funny because I heard a chick being mad at some woman on rhoa for letting her husband have a say in his stepchilds life. she said she would never let a man come in her life and tell her how to raise HER child, and she is not the only woman that thinks like that

Most single mothers think like that. Which is why an eligible childless man is an idiot for even entertaining the idea of dealing with a single mother.

They made their beds. Let them rock.

 

[rahji]

You can set conditions on a trust like age when the money will be received... why couldn't they have just created a trust in the kid's name, outline the conditions of getting the money and let it be?

http://estate.findlaw.com/trusts/trusts-an-overview.html



There's a difference between doing something to feel good about yourself and doing something the right way to know you're making a difference. Real rap.

 

[Sunalmighty]

She'd probably get aggressive with him for not minding his own business, or being too judgmental, or some other defensive that prevents her from admitting she fukked up and she needs to listen to some common sense.

Exactly. Damn your response was perfect, that's just how she is. That negress is unbelievably aggressive and disrespectful.

 

[AITheAnswerAI]

Exactly. Damn your response was perfect, that's just how she is. That negress is unbelievably aggressive and disrespectful.

 

[feelosofer]

This woman clearly needed guidelines on how the money should have been distributed. But there is no way much money should have gone to any one person, and definitely not a single mother, who had clearly shown a history of making poor decisions. This woman should not be defended in any way though, this makes all the other hardworking single mothers doing the best they can get a bad rap and it paints African Americans as a people that are so damaged that we would rather pursue cursory pleasures with no cognizance of the long term effects (even though its somewhat true).

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

You can set conditions on a trust like age when the money will be received... why couldn't they have just created a trust in the kid's name, outline the conditions of getting the money and let it be?

http://estate.findlaw.com/trusts/trusts-an-overview.html



There's a difference between doing something to feel good about yourself and doing something the right way to know you're making a difference. Real rap.

what makes you think this dumbass lady would have raised those kids to do anything better with it than her??


at least with the school, they would be fukked up senior year and ALWAYS have the option to go to community college or tech school or some shyt