Weirdo street interview breh lit a match and watched them burn

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Damn you goin in! And you got good points. I wouldn’t advise my sister to play house especially with a guy who has never mentioned marriage
I’m not trying to be funny, but do you see the problem here? Multiple brehs laughing and agreeing that breh needs to toss her for pushing marriage, keep playing house, but then telling us that it’s our fault we aren’t married etc. We have a culture issue going on here.

She cooking, cleaning and her black man is telling the world that he doesn’t need to give her a ring to make it “official”, while the clip I posted above shows a man happy to marry his lady because he values the same stuff the Black girl is doing without a real commitment.


I mean………. :francis:
 

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I agree its a question women should ask, but the manosphere hate this question. I don't understand why he would ask it. It doesn't align with his audience. You even posted a vid where he questioned a cac that dropped 30k to wife some chick when it could've been done for free, like the breh in the first vid.
Because the white boy’s community doesn’t allow their daughters to sit in a house cooking, cleaning and popping out kids for “free”. It’s shameful in other cultures.

Y’all talk about “baby mothers” in our community but THIS IS WHERE THEY COME FROM. BREHS PLAYING MIND GAMES WITH A GIRL WHO JUST WANTS TO BE WITH YOU. She wants to cook and clean and keep a home and make him happy while he’s telling her she doesn’t need to be wife :wow:

So the white boy buys the ring and gives you the title but the man he interviewed who looks like us is yelling, telling his girl being “official” isn’t a real thing to him.


LMAO

In the words of KS “You can’t make this stuff up!” and “what the French toast?!”


Y’all can crack all the jokes you want but that is exactly how our community looks to those on the outside looking in, and we got two black men putting it on display in that IG clip 🤷🏾‍♀️
 

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Because the white boy’s community doesn’t allow their daughters to sit in a house cooking, cleaning and popping out kids for “free”. It’s shameful in other cultures.

Y’all talk about “baby mothers” in our community but THIS IS WHERE THEY COME FROM. BREHS PLAYING MIND GAMES WITH A GIRL WHO JUST WANTS TO BE WITH YOU. She wants to cook and clean and keep a home and make him happy while he’s telling her she doesn’t need to be wife :wow:

So the white boy buys the ring and gives you the title but the man he interviewed who looks like us is yelling, telling his girl being “official” isn’t a real thing to him.


LMAO

In the words of KS “You can’t make this stuff up!” and “what the French toast?!”


Y’all can crack all the jokes you want but that is exactly how our community looks to those on the outside looking in, and we got two black men putting it on display in that IG clip 🤷🏾‍♀️
You speaking facts. It’s good to hear it from you cuz me as a man, they’d say “oh you a simp” or “the blk man gotta deal with XYZ” or “It’s just a contract”

I mean honestly, how often do you hear our men speak about establishing a family and household even outside of the coli?

When I was in college, the arabs, etc were decisive in saying that they wanted a wife and got married a few years later.

It’s cultural like many of the issues that exist in our community unfortunately.
 

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In comparison :francis:

And it’s not about the cost of the ring, it’s about how he talks about his lady and their union, why he values her and why she deserved a legitimate union. Breh wants his girl up top to play house instead of finding someone who feels like this:


He noted how she treats him and how she treats his family. Not WAP, or "I am the table" simp talk, all things many men have noted are important but instead are told to ignore for whatever reason. Hell, when I mention those, people get mad at me. We note that their community would not let her play house, true. Their community would also not endorse any talk that puts single mothers on a pedestal, would not endorse "a man can't do nothing for me" talk, or absolves them of their poor choices. Many communities, some of them black, would not as well. Just saying. :manny:
 

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Because the white boy’s community doesn’t allow their daughters to sit in a house cooking, cleaning and popping out kids for “free”. It’s shameful in other cultures.

Y’all talk about “baby mothers” in our community but THIS IS WHERE THEY COME FROM. BREHS PLAYING MIND GAMES WITH A GIRL WHO JUST WANTS TO BE WITH YOU. She wants to cook and clean and keep a home and make him happy while he’s telling her she doesn’t need to be wife :wow:

So the white boy buys the ring and gives you the title but the man he interviewed who looks like us is yelling, telling his girl being “official” isn’t a real thing to him.


LMAO

In the words of KS “You can’t make this stuff up!” and “what the French toast?!”


Y’all can crack all the jokes you want but that is exactly how our community looks to those on the outside looking in, and we got two black men putting it on display in that IG clip 🤷🏾‍♀️
Repped sistren!
 

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Mmhmm


Hopefully she realizes what WE all realize and packs her shyt.
If she had a better option she'd have been left.

Obviously dude is providing value in some manner for her to stick around this long.

Women that know better and have their own shyt wouldn't find themselves in these kinds of predicaments :yeshrug:
 

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In comparison :francis:

And it’s not about the cost of the ring, it’s about how he talks about his lady and their union, why he values her and why she deserved a legitimate union. Breh wants his girl up top to play house instead of finding someone who feels like this:


this was more embarrassing tbh

35k can get you an a nice full size sedan with all the trimmings
 

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Because the white boy’s community doesn’t allow their daughters to sit in a house cooking, cleaning and popping out kids for “free”. It’s shameful in other cultures.

Y’all talk about “baby mothers” in our community but THIS IS WHERE THEY COME FROM. BREHS PLAYING MIND GAMES WITH A GIRL WHO JUST WANTS TO BE WITH YOU. She wants to cook and clean and keep a home and make him happy while he’s telling her she doesn’t need to be wife :wow:

So the white boy buys the ring and gives you the title but the man he interviewed who looks like us is yelling, telling his girl being “official” isn’t a real thing to him.


LMAO

In the words of KS “You can’t make this stuff up!” and “what the French toast?!”


Y’all can crack all the jokes you want but that is exactly how our community looks to those on the outside looking in, and we got two black men putting it on display in that IG clip 🤷🏾‍♀️
They also don't allow them to sit in a house and grow a flat top :flabbynsick:
 

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I’m not trying to be funny, but do you see the problem here? Multiple brehs laughing and agreeing that breh needs to toss her for pushing marriage, keep playing house, but then telling us that it’s our fault we aren’t married etc. We have a culture issue going on here.

She cooking, cleaning and her black man is telling the world that he doesn’t need to give her a ring to make it “official”, while the clip I posted above shows a man happy to marry his lady because he values the same stuff the Black girl is doing without a real commitment.


I mean………. :francis:
What makes marriage a real commitment? The facts that it is a bit of inconvenience to get out of?
 
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What makes marriage a real commitment? The facts that it is a bit of inconvenience to get out of?
its worth mentioning that the ritual of a wedding and marriage as we know it were created when women were considered property

so much of whats implied about marriage is the father of the woman (her true "owner") giving her to another man usually in exchange for something

much of that dynamic is dated now and biblically a man becomes your husband if you lay with him. So many of these women have many husbands and many of these men have many wives technically well before they do the ceremony

so before God its probably all hogwash.
 
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