Well - I'm officially single lol (update on 1st post)

[Solano707]

nikka can you explain that shyt more clearly?

Why would another broad hit me up? Cause she knows that my ex was fukking around on her man.... So ol girl was trying to give me the 101 on what was happening. So i kept asking my girl what's up, why you need it - shyt like that. Then she finally told me. And the rest is history.

 

[MadameMoreaux]

I'm still lost.

 

[DemureNatural]

I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your marriage.

 

[aqualung]

While I was deployed, she cheated on me with some other guy I think January of last year. i came back in May - tried to make things work, but in the end neither of us were happy. I tried to save our marriage because, shyt 15 years is long as fukk.

I'm just glad things worked out the way they did.

Stay married and raise your kids together in a nuclear family AND fukk OTHER PEOPLE. It is called an open relationship. (You could approach this level of sophistication now if you two had focused on school instead of reproducing at age 16 years.)

Do not ruin your kids' lives by splitting now and wrecking their nuclear family. Just agree to fukk other ppl without telling the kids about your altered sex lives. -_-

 

[aqualung]

Yet. You gonna learn. The hardway.

When his income is split between 2 households because he moved out
AND his 16yo daughter is knocked up like mom was at her age
AND his younger kid needs braces
AND the car won't start
AND the wife claims all 4 kids on her tax return,
then these two will realize that expensive legal divorce <<<<<< cheaper open marriage.

 

[FocusedDaily]

Like I said earlier. Salute to him for doing what he felt he had too.

My setup is similar, been with her since we were crazy young, got 4 kids now.
I just couldn't ever live without seeing them everyday. It's part of who I am. I just work extra hard to keep my situation running well. I'm not built for that weekend dad, young girl chasing life.

I mean I still got my hairline too breh, but morning kisses from my 6 year old, and hooping after work with my 12 year old >>> . All my homies w kids that have been relegated to weekend dad 1/3 check missing status low key hate it after they get past their hoe phase of being free again.

My one guy actually went back after 2 years, had a second wedding and everything. Thought he wanted to be "free" and ran through any and everything, but it got old soon enough. Half his check and all his kids were there, so he took his ass back too lol.. They just had a 5th kid last year, anything is possible fam.

 

[iceberg_is_on_fire]

Like I said earlier. Salute to him for doing what he felt he had too.

My setup is similar, been with her since we were crazy young, got 4 kids now.
I just couldn't ever live without seeing them everyday. It's part of who I am. I just work extra hard to keep my situation running well. I'm not built for that weekend dad, young girl chasing life.

I mean I still got my hairline too breh, but morning kisses from my 6 year old, and hooping after work with my 12 year old >>> . All my homies w kids that have been relegated to weekend dad 1/3 check missing status low key hate it after they get past their hoe phase of being free again.

My one guy actually went back after 2 years, had a second wedding and everything. Thought he wanted to be "free" and ran through any and everything, but it got old soon enough. Half his check and all his kids were there, so he took his ass back too lol.. They just had a 5th kid last year, anything is possible fam.

Like I said earlier. Salute to him for doing what he felt he had too.

My setup is similar, been with her since we were crazy young, got 4 kids now.
I just couldn't ever live without seeing them everyday. It's part of who I am. I just work extra hard to keep my situation running well. I'm not built for that weekend dad, young girl chasing life.

I mean I still got my hairline too breh, but morning kisses from my 6 year old, and hooping after work with my 12 year old >>> . All my homies w kids that have been relegated to weekend dad 1/3 check missing status low key hate it after they get past their hoe phase of being free again.

My one guy actually went back after 2 years, had a second wedding and everything. Thought he wanted to be "free" and ran through any and everything, but it got old soon enough. Half his check and all his kids were there, so he took his ass back too lol.. They just had a 5th kid last year, anything is possible fam.

Are you bouncing when the kids leave the nest?

 

[FocusedDaily]

Are you bouncing when the kids leave the nest?

Nah, I don't see it. I'm still pretty happy. We fight sometimes like any couple but we're pretty good at resolving that type of stuff. We've also had pretty decent size blowups through the years, I just never considered walking away and we worked through it, it always passes eventually and life goes back to normal.

I'm just doing the work and praying it pays off. If it did come to something like cheating or an outside kid tho, It'd be hard to figure a way through something like that. I don't even like thinking about it honestly.

 

[iceberg_is_on_fire]

Nah, I don't see it. I'm still pretty happy. We fight sometimes like any couple but we're pretty good at resolving that type of stuff. We've also had pretty decent size blowups through the years, I just never considered walking away and we worked through it, it always passes eventually and life goes back to normal.

I'm just doing the work and praying it pays off. If it did come to something like cheating or an outside kid tho, It'd be hard to figure a way through something like that. I don't even like thinking about it honestly.

It sounds like you just go through normal marriage stuff. My ex-wife came home preggo with another man's baby. You simply don't get around something like that. We were just co-existing for a while then that happened.

 

[PicoRoscoe]

Get married brehs!

TBH, the wife and I had a good run. We tried to work things out, but it wasn't the same. We are still good friends though, which I am very grateful. Plus, she aint putting me on child support i'm still helping her through school so she can get on her own two feet. We've been together for 15 years , but i don't feel like wasted those years - it was all very good.

She even said she would screen the hoes for me on POF and Tiner Bottom line - I'm glad, shyt nikka - GRATEFUL that it ain't messy.

@Theraflu and @61corpse - what say you?

She still throwing them cheeks on a nikka doe

I know when I start knocking hoes down I have to get strapped up

Now that you single wassup?

 

[newarkhiphop]

wait until she gets herself a new dude


and he already thought about killing her

 

[Solano707]

Now that you single wassup?

We were in Kuwait together... Not sure how I remember that though

 

[Mike Ock]

newly single OP and ex wife got a 16yr old, but only been together for 15yrs?

Something ain't right here.

 

[Solano707]

newly single OP and ex wife got a 16yr old, but only been together for 15yrs?

Something ain't right here.

she turns 16 this month... the 28th actually

 

[PicoRoscoe]

We were in Kuwait together... Not sure how I remember that though

and you coulda been in this pwussy