Well - I'm officially single lol (update on 1st post)

[Nephilim_BC]

so you're helping her through school to get on her feet, wtf was she doing with her life for 15 years?

stay at home mommy

 

[No Sleep]

While I was deployed, she cheated on me with some other guy I think January of last year. i came back in May - tried to make things work, but in the end neither of us were happy. I tried to save our marriage because, shyt 15 years is long as fukk.

 

[shutterguy]

Either you're still in denial and it hasn't hit you yet, or you're a straight up psychopath. Either way i envy your lack of feelings about the situation. Also good on you for being mature about the school situation.

15 years? I would be throwing a bytch fit right now.

You haven't even shed a tear yet dude? @Blaxican707 Your calm is really unsettling.

 

[Boogie]

When nikkas make threads like this it screams insecurity. Idc how cool yall are, 15 years ain't bo joke.

If yall so buddy buddy now why couldn't the relationship work?

 

[CACarot]

Not trying to rain on OP parade, but on paper your situation looks like it can get ugly quick. Military family, 4 children, not asking for child support but you still have to go 12 years till your youngest is 18 and out the clear. Women get vindictive and you would be surprised how many emotions you feel when you notice she is getting dikked down by somebody else coming in the house and teaching your kids life lessons. Right now both of you still have a together mindset even with the divorce occurring but when you start looking out for self and getting selfish that's when sh1t gets real. If she gets bitter or feels like you not doing enough , child support threats pop up and custody battles . Wish you the best even though its sunny outside the forecast predicts a 90% chance of rain.

 

[Ezigbo Nwanyi]

As soon as you find a new woman the wrath will ensue..quote me

 

[ORDER_66]

As soon as you find a new woman the wrath will ensue..quote me

thats why she's screening his future bytches... trying to throw dirt on ya game...

 

[Pegasus Jackson]

Oh my. You're going to be that nikka in the club in last year's fashions, nursing a $8 Henny and coke and trying to holla at 22 year olds when you got teenagers at home.

Plus you're also subsidizing this broad who cheated on you and you think you "won" ?

 

[Ezigbo Nwanyi]

thats why she's screening his future bytches... trying to throw dirt on ya game...

Not only that women don't care about hoes you fukking with but let you get serious and next thing you know a sheriff knocking on your door delivering a court order. I'm a woman and we are selfish and territorial the thought of another chick getting money and wined and dined will cause a chick who was cool at you taking bust downs to Applebees to completely demonic.

 

[Ineedmoney504]

Op u think she was fukking some other nikka while was gone?

 

[ORDER_66]

Op u think she was fukking some other nikka while was gone?

SHE WAS!!!!

 

[ORDER_66]

Not only that women don't care about hoes you fukking with but let you get serious and next thing you know a sheriff knocking on your door delivering a court order. I'm a woman and we are selfish and territorial the thought of another chick getting money and wined and dined will cause a chick who was cool at you taking bust downs to Applebees to completely demonic.

that is what makes no sense to me..... its always that ONE chick females be jealous of.... also she didnt want to try either her getting jealous of a new chick is bullshyt...

 

[Solano707]

Op u think she was fukking some other nikka while was gone?

I think so. But, charge it to the game Honestly, being pissed off and butt fukking hurt takes to much out of you, gotta dust yourself off and KIM.

 

[Ineedmoney504]

SHE WAS!!!!

Thats what im trying to see, cause if so then fukk being friends

 

[AITheAnswerAI]

You want the mother of your kids to be underemployed? Geesh. You guys are terrible.

He's the one that said that shyt, why to you ascribe it to everyone else?

That being said that comment about beating her to death sounds suspect as hell. nikka might go postal on her ass