What the hell does your last part mean?*ctrl-F's "condom"*
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She outchea meeting dudes and lettin em vaminos perro crudo the first nite???????????
welp it happend brehs....
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Cabbage Patch
The Media scene in V is for Vendetta is the clue
I'm glad you lost your virginity, because you're glad you lost your virginity. You're over the hump, and like most people you discovered it wasn't that big of a deal.
I'm worried that she treated you the same way a prostitute treats johns, though. At least you didn't have to pay for the privilege of being treated like a chore. I'm worried that you treated her like a checklist ("she wouldn't let me nut where I wanted" is the wrong attitude, and maybe that vibe is what turned her off; though I don't understand why she continued if she was not happy with the way you approached things and approached her) @sang_bleu is right, though. Get tested. Yes, you used a condom, but it's good to get into the habit.
On a positive note, you used a condom.
I worry a little that this experience is going to negatively color your perceptions of sex and of women, but maybe you'll be able to meet women who are as excited about you as you are about them in the future now that you're over the 'got to get rid of my virginity' hump.
Now that you are over that hump, time to fine tune your game so that - even if it is all about you - the women you have sex with never get the impression that it's all about you. Good luck, homie. You're young, there's a lot of experiences out there for you now, make them positive!
I'm worried that she treated you the same way a prostitute treats johns, though. At least you didn't have to pay for the privilege of being treated like a chore. I'm worried that you treated her like a checklist ("she wouldn't let me nut where I wanted" is the wrong attitude, and maybe that vibe is what turned her off; though I don't understand why she continued if she was not happy with the way you approached things and approached her) @sang_bleu is right, though. Get tested. Yes, you used a condom, but it's good to get into the habit.
On a positive note, you used a condom.
I worry a little that this experience is going to negatively color your perceptions of sex and of women, but maybe you'll be able to meet women who are as excited about you as you are about them in the future now that you're over the 'got to get rid of my virginity' hump.
Now that you are over that hump, time to fine tune your game so that - even if it is all about you - the women you have sex with never get the impression that it's all about you. Good luck, homie. You're young, there's a lot of experiences out there for you now, make them positive!
KinksandCoils
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Op how old are you?
Truth Hurts
Banned
regardless
young one. May this open more opportunity to commit much more sexual debauchery to the female gender
young one. May this open more opportunity to commit much more sexual debauchery to the female genderShe's not morbidly Obese but she's not thin either just a chubby chickis the bytch fit or nah?
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Cabbage Patch
The Media scene in V is for Vendetta is the clue
You did the right thing by not taking pictures or video without her permission.
If you never told her you were a virgin, she may or may not have known you were; however, women usually treat virginity like something sacred. If she knew you were a virgin or suspected it, she would not have treated you the way she did. Most women would have been on that extreme teach a nikka mode. She wasn't like that at all. She seemed put off.
She tells you to lock the door - but then gets on the phone
and you knew that was off. Now having sex while one party is on the phone is a classic time for great sex, like a two-and-a-halfsome; but instead of inviting you into that, she uses the phone to ignore you. Not a good sign.You also went straight to satisfying yourself, instead of taking care of her. Again, talk to some older heads about how to up your game so that next time - if there is a next time - you both have an enjoyable time, and she talks you to her friends instead of what I fear is going to happen now.
Again, good luck, dude. You're young, and this is a learning moment.
You bring up some good points breh. She finds alot of the basic love/sex cliche shyt (dirty talk,kissing, being affectionate, etc.) Overrated she's not really a girly girl in that sense which was I felt she was the shyt she was saying last night.
When you say you fear do you mean= she's going to tell her friends she had some bad dikk?You did the right thing by not taking pictures or video without her permission.
If you never told her you were a virgin, she may or may not have known you were; however, women usually treat virginity like something sacred. If she knew you were a virgin or suspected it, she would not have treated you the way she did. Most women would have been on that extreme teach a nikka mode. She wasn't like that at all. She seemed put off.
She tells you to lock the door - but then gets on the phone
You also went straight to satisfying yourself, instead of taking care of her. Again, talk to some older heads about how to up your game so that next time - if there is a next time - you both have an enjoyable time, and she talks you to her friends instead of what I fear is going to happen now.
Again, good luck, dude. You're young, and this is a learning moment.
Cabbage Patch
The Media scene in V is for Vendetta is the clue
He thought she let a nikka nut inside her on the first meeting, like a hoe waiting to entrap a nikka into paying child support when she already knows she's a couple weeks pregnant by somebody else.
But he was looking for 'condom' instead of 'rubber', so it's all good.Cabbage Patch
The Media scene in V is for Vendetta is the clue
Yes. That would be the most positive outcome.
If this is a college campus, the negative outcome would be that she claims you date-raped her because she wasn't into it, therefore you were supposed to read her mind while she wrapped her legs around you and pushed up. Yes, youngin, to some birds 'daterape' just really means 'bad sex'. You know how some women pretend to be lesbian for the social perks? Some women pretend to be rape victims for the same.
But that's a 400 level course.So, I'm gonna assume the most positive outcome, that the vibe wasn't right, and you were intent on losing your virginity, and that's why she's not going to have a great memory of your first time together ............ but that just means the next time, if there is one with her, will be better, because you will have gotten over rookie mistakes now that the virginity is out of the way.
I don't know if she's the type of broad to be overly apologetic and want to 'get it right' if she found out for sure you were a virgin, or if she were the type of broad to be evil about it (they exist). Hopefully, she's the first type which means your next time together will be much better.
Ask other old heads for advice on how to proceed with her, or with other chicks from now on, though.
