Were you ever the 2nd choice?

[ADK]

Lets say a chick had a boyfriend and things got bumpy between the two. She knew you wanted her but she stayed loyal to her boyfriend. Now that they're broken up she hops to you you cool with that or are you brushing that to the side.


to set the mood.

 

[Aceofspades404]

that's not 2nd choice. Now if she knew you wanted her when she was single and decided to go with the other guy and hops to you when they break up, then you are 2nd choice.
The former
the latter

 

[saint25225]

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[Couth]

The only people who really have there pick of the litter are RICH men, FAMOUS people and ATTRACTIVE YOUNG women. 95% of Broke and middle class men would leave there current wives / girlfriends if they became rich or famous(for reference check Dwayne wade, Kevin hart,Kevin federline). Unattractive females probably have it the hardest, since women get judge harshly on there physical appearance. But unattractive men with money or fame can still get a

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So to answer your question YES, most people are the second choice.​

Not true, at all.

Men are all about logic. So a man will always upgrade to the woman who is better for him LOGICALLY.

Woman on the other hand? All about emotions. You fukk her right? She'll fall in love. And if shes in love? NOTHING will get between her and her man. How do you think pimps pimp bro? You don't think girls realize what they are doing is dumb and they could find a better dude? They realize, they don't care cuz of the emotions involved. Girls aren't that hard to break. Only thing you have to have to be a womens number one is a strong mind and an able body.

@ op i don't really care to be honest. Even if I was her second choice, i'll become her first choice after i hangout with her for a bit.

 

[1thouwow]

I can't be the second choice in regards to an actual relationship we're trying to build on. It's a pride thing. Now if she want some D on the side