This is the part nobody likes to talk about, because it's the hardest, "boring" aspect of it all. You really have to be on your shyt. This past winter I backed away from everyone. Mostly only talked to my close male friends. Female friends weren't even a part of the picture. Laid low, hit the gym, read books, basically tried to step it up in all areas of my life for a couple months. The only social media I used was TheColi and YouTube. Resurfaced again and was getting a little positive reactions from some women in my life. Let it get to my head a little though and stopped being as disciplined. Now, I am back on it and harder than before. Deleted my social media apps off my phone. Starting tomorrow I'm back in the gym, early mornings. The goal is 5 days of working out all of April. Changing my diet up to bulk up. And most importantly, looking for a new job. My last job was some basic shyt at about $31K salary. This time I'm looking for something $55-$60K. It's going to be "boring," because it seems like a lot of hard work, but the thing with hard work is with consistency the results come faster than you think.