What are some cold hard truths about life?

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Me being completely honest with someone doesn't guarantee they will do the same with me.

Sometimes I overshare and indulge my secrets to try and get people to open up to me. Most times I just end up making myself vulnerable without getting the trade off.
 

Hawala Man

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It's not what you know or what educational credentials you have it's WHO you know. Your friend, associate or coworker won't help you but a stranger who you don't know at all will.

Men are not loved unconditionally if you get married and become bitter the blame is on you knowing the legal consequences and risk/reward outcomes.

If you keep your mouth shut and listen more people will reveal their motives and intentions saving you lots of time.

Those who have money don't talk about it they make silent plays. The broke/insecure are the loudest and want attention or validation from people who don't even pay attention to them.
 

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While I do think connections and who you know is important, people won't trust nor refer you to someone if they know you don't got the knowledge nor the skills to earn their vouch.

Remember, their name is on the line as well and they're not going to risk it for someone who they don't think can rise up.

In order to get to that point, you need to make the effort everyday to get better at that skill.

A lot of people want the shortcuts and the cheat code, but don't fool yourselves. If you do it the right way and legit learn, it'll take care of itself and you'll save so much time and hassle.

There is a luck factor involved, but do the best you can until then.

In other words, do not cut corners.
 
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Just being good looking, smart & with a huge dikk that works can open doors ugly dudes can only dream about :yeshrug:
 
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