What are some lessons you had to learn the hard way?

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That Economics (especially Capitalism) rules everything in this world

And if you don't learn how it works, and the history of it, you will always fail in life

yup. And it hurts when you realize it later in the game. Literally the only shyt that matters is money and violence.

you can do a lot with just one but you’ll rule the world with both.
 

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Accept yourself for who you are and who you are NOT.

Trust your instincts. If something is off, its off. Dont ignore it.

Always observe, pay attention, be ready for anything, think ahead, and etc

Never take your job home with you.

Dont let anybody rent space in your head.

Never be afraid to find out what your issue is or to ask for help when you need it.

Dont take everything too seriously. Its okay to laugh and smile a little.

Save your money. Dont spend so much.

Its okay to masturbate.


Learn patience. Its a virtue.

Stretch your body and your muscles
 

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Focus on your financial situation first and everything else will be easier to be figured out from there, with the ONLY exception being not neglecting your physical health.

I wasted so much time and money chasing after chicks I was dating or searching for “purpose” or trying to have “fun”, when looking back on it if I had spent that time just focusing on stacking as much as I could all of the other stuff would have came MUCH easier.
 

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Karma ain’t real :hubie:

Who you know triumphs what you know :aicmon:

Hard work doesn’t always pay off

Life is lucky as hell. Whether it’s looks, money, home situation, or health you need luck.
 

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ALWAYS trust your own intuition when dealing with people generally. If you get weird or bad fukked up vibes, it's for a reason.

fukk giving the "benefit of the doubt".

Don't let anyone talk you into anything, because at the end of the day YOU will have to deal with the consequences and they'd be long gone.

Don't tell people anything you have going on to make yourself look 'lit'. Keep that shyt to yourself. Jealousy is a beast.

People don't have to know everything.

Quality over quantity anyday.
 

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-Don't mess with coworkers
-Unless you're trying to move to manager, don't get stuck in retail. Find out your strengths and find a job that you will reap benefits!
- Dressing flashy makes you a target. Dressing like a bum keeps you safe.
- Respect is the highest form of love.
- Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Familiarity breeds contempt.
- Don't explain yourself. Keep it brief.
- Xenoestrogen is the cause of low Testosterone. Stay away from puting your foods in plastics.
- Magnesium removes anxiety
- Isolation costs you social skills.
- The fastest way to gaining muscle and not staying skinny is protein fat diet, consistency and volume training (weights)
-Charisma and sex appeal is the cheat code to an abundance attracting women.
 

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You can make enemies just by being happy. It’s one of the most baffling parts of life. You don’t have to start anything with anybody. You don’t have to do anything to anybody. Just having joy will attract the most miserable little buttmites.

NOPE is life. Literally. People could have much better lives if they learn the art of setting firm, but respectful boundaries.

Discretion is a super power. Not everybody needs to know everything. Especially in relationships. Keep your business between you and your partner.

Some people just want to argue. It’s an exchange of energy. They want to draw people down to their level because they are frustrated with themselves. Starve them.
 

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Another one i forgot to add.

The sooner you start something whether its schoolwork, a hard project for your job, cleaning up a huge mess, practicing to become a better whatever, youll be glad you did especially when you progress, what you learn along the way and etc. You truly GAIN something.

You can never know anybody to well including yourself. Theres things that i never realized about myself where i would literally look down on other people not knowing them and me are going through the same shyt

The whole world is not out to get you because not everybody knows you or is thinking about you but watch your back even from yourself because sometimes we sabotage our own selves without realizing it.

Be careful what you speak into the universe.

Watch what you say about yourself and other people

Theres a difference between feedback/constructive criticism and being overcritical.

Learn to not take criticism/feedback personally.

Learn to respect other peoples views that are different than yours

Let go of grudges and stop holding stuff over people heads.
 
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