What are the drawbacks of pawging?

[philmonroe]

Internet Addiction and Depression
By John M. Grohol, Psy.D.
Founder & Editor-in-Chief
Last updated: 8 Jul 2018

A new study came out today that suggests that people who use the Internet a lot share something in common — depression. What the study does not find is whether depression causes people to turn to the Internet for their social interactions, or whether excessive use of the Internet “makes” people more depressed:

Psychologists from Leeds University found what they said was “striking” evidence that some avid net users develop compulsive internet habits in which they replace real-life social interaction with online chat rooms and social networking sites.

“This study reinforces the public speculation that over-engaging in websites that serve to replace normal social function might be linked to psychological disorders like depression and addiction,” the study’s lead author, Catriona Morrison, wrote in the journal Psychopathology.

“This type of addictive surfing can have a serious impact on mental health.”

Indeed. When a depressed person turns to the Internet to socialize, I’m not at all surprised that they use it for social interaction in chat rooms and on social networking websites. What else would you expect? People who are depressed don’t want to socialize, but the Internet makes it so much easier to do it. It may make a depressed individual feel more “connected” and help them make it through every day with their depression.

But what the researchers found and didn’t really comment on is just as interesting. If we know that approximately 5% of the population suffers from depression at any given time, most people who are depressed are not mis-using or over-using the Internet. Far less sexier headline, but information one can just as readily conclude from the researchers’ findings.

Limitations of the current study include the usual problems we see in studies like this. First, it was not a randomized, controlled sample — a significant problem with so many “Internet addiction” studies. Instead the researchers posted a questionnaire online and received responses from 1,319 Britons aged between 16 and 51. (It’s not clear how many people saw an announcement for the study and decided not to participate — another sampling problem.) Of those 1,319 people, 18 — yes, that’s eighteen — met the criteria for “Internet addiction” using the Internet Addiction Test. The test itself has only had a single validation study, despite calls for more research to be conducted to verify its validity (“The IAT’s reliability and validity need to be further tested using a larger sample. Once a valid and reliable measure has been devised, more can then be researched about the nature of Internet addiction.”). Despite the fact that this test is still not very robust, researchers continue to use it as though it were a valid and robust psychological measure.

Is this a “darker side” of the Internet, as the news release claims? Well, gee, I guess. But that’s making an assumption about which way the relationship goes — one that data can’t tell us anything about. So when researchers start making subjective comments like that, it raises the suspicion that the scientist isn’t exactly being objective.

It may be that the Internet has an empowering side — one that allows people suffering from clinical depression to reach out and find human social contact. That’s just as valid interpretation of data, but not one the researchers suggested, nor emphasized in their comments about the study. Is the glass half empty, or half full?

So given the study was a correlation survey and could not show any type of causal relationship, how did the mainstream media do with getting the story right? Surprisingly well.

Internet Addiction and Depression

Internet Addiction and Depression
By John M. Grohol, Psy.D.
Founder & Editor-in-Chief
Last updated: 8 Jul 2018

A new study came out today that suggests that people who use the Internet a lot share something in common — depression. What the study does not find is whether depression causes people to turn to the Internet for their social interactions, or whether excessive use of the Internet “makes” people more depressed:

Psychologists from Leeds University found what they said was “striking” evidence that some avid net users develop compulsive internet habits in which they replace real-life social interaction with online chat rooms and social networking sites.

“This study reinforces the public speculation that over-engaging in websites that serve to replace normal social function might be linked to psychological disorders like depression and addiction,” the study’s lead author, Catriona Morrison, wrote in the journal Psychopathology.

“This type of addictive surfing can have a serious impact on mental health.”

Indeed. When a depressed person turns to the Internet to socialize, I’m not at all surprised that they use it for social interaction in chat rooms and on social networking websites. What else would you expect? People who are depressed don’t want to socialize, but the Internet makes it so much easier to do it. It may make a depressed individual feel more “connected” and help them make it through every day with their depression.

But what the researchers found and didn’t really comment on is just as interesting. If we know that approximately 5% of the population suffers from depression at any given time, most people who are depressed are not mis-using or over-using the Internet. Far less sexier headline, but information one can just as readily conclude from the researchers’ findings.

Limitations of the current study include the usual problems we see in studies like this. First, it was not a randomized, controlled sample — a significant problem with so many “Internet addiction” studies. Instead the researchers posted a questionnaire online and received responses from 1,319 Britons aged between 16 and 51. (It’s not clear how many people saw an announcement for the study and decided not to participate — another sampling problem.) Of those 1,319 people, 18 — yes, that’s eighteen — met the criteria for “Internet addiction” using the Internet Addiction Test. The test itself has only had a single validation study, despite calls for more research to be conducted to verify its validity (“The IAT’s reliability and validity need to be further tested using a larger sample. Once a valid and reliable measure has been devised, more can then be researched about the nature of Internet addiction.”). Despite the fact that this test is still not very robust, researchers continue to use it as though it were a valid and robust psychological measure.

Is this a “darker side” of the Internet, as the news release claims? Well, gee, I guess. But that’s making an assumption about which way the relationship goes — one that data can’t tell us anything about. So when researchers start making subjective comments like that, it raises the suspicion that the scientist isn’t exactly being objective.

It may be that the Internet has an empowering side — one that allows people suffering from clinical depression to reach out and find human social contact. That’s just as valid interpretation of data, but not one the researchers suggested, nor emphasized in their comments about the study. Is the glass half empty, or half full?

So given the study was a correlation survey and could not show any type of causal relationship, how did the mainstream media do with getting the story right? Surprisingly well.

Internet Addiction and Depression

 

[intra vires]

Internet Addiction and Depression
By John M. Grohol, Psy.D.
Founder & Editor-in-Chief
Last updated: 8 Jul 2018

A new study came out today that suggests that people who use the Internet a lot share something in common — depression. What the study does not find is whether depression causes people to turn to the Internet for their social interactions, or whether excessive use of the Internet “makes” people more depressed:

Psychologists from Leeds University found what they said was “striking” evidence that some avid net users develop compulsive internet habits in which they replace real-life social interaction with online chat rooms and social networking sites.

“This study reinforces the public speculation that over-engaging in websites that serve to replace normal social function might be linked to psychological disorders like depression and addiction,” the study’s lead author, Catriona Morrison, wrote in the journal Psychopathology.

“This type of addictive surfing can have a serious impact on mental health.”

Indeed. When a depressed person turns to the Internet to socialize, I’m not at all surprised that they use it for social interaction in chat rooms and on social networking websites. What else would you expect? People who are depressed don’t want to socialize, but the Internet makes it so much easier to do it. It may make a depressed individual feel more “connected” and help them make it through every day with their depression.

But what the researchers found and didn’t really comment on is just as interesting. If we know that approximately 5% of the population suffers from depression at any given time, most people who are depressed are not mis-using or over-using the Internet. Far less sexier headline, but information one can just as readily conclude from the researchers’ findings.

Limitations of the current study include the usual problems we see in studies like this. First, it was not a randomized, controlled sample — a significant problem with so many “Internet addiction” studies. Instead the researchers posted a questionnaire online and received responses from 1,319 Britons aged between 16 and 51. (It’s not clear how many people saw an announcement for the study and decided not to participate — another sampling problem.) Of those 1,319 people, 18 — yes, that’s eighteen — met the criteria for “Internet addiction” using the Internet Addiction Test. The test itself has only had a single validation study, despite calls for more research to be conducted to verify its validity (“The IAT’s reliability and validity need to be further tested using a larger sample. Once a valid and reliable measure has been devised, more can then be researched about the nature of Internet addiction.”). Despite the fact that this test is still not very robust, researchers continue to use it as though it were a valid and robust psychological measure.

Is this a “darker side” of the Internet, as the news release claims? Well, gee, I guess. But that’s making an assumption about which way the relationship goes — one that data can’t tell us anything about. So when researchers start making subjective comments like that, it raises the suspicion that the scientist isn’t exactly being objective.

It may be that the Internet has an empowering side — one that allows people suffering from clinical depression to reach out and find human social contact. That’s just as valid interpretation of data, but not one the researchers suggested, nor emphasized in their comments about the study. Is the glass half empty, or half full?

So given the study was a correlation survey and could not show any type of causal relationship, how did the mainstream media do with getting the story right? Surprisingly well.

Internet Addiction and Depression

Anger management: 10 tips to tame your temper
Keeping your temper in check can be challenging. Use simple anger management tips — from taking a timeout to using "I" statements — to stay in control.

By Mayo Clinic Staff

Do you fume when someone cuts you off in traffic? Does your blood pressure rocket when your child refuses to cooperate? Anger is a normal and even healthy emotion — but it's important to deal with it in a positive way. Uncontrolled anger can take a toll on both your health and your relationships.

Ready to get your anger under control? Start by considering these 10 anger management tips.

1. Think before you speak

In the heat of the moment, it's easy to say something you'll later regret. Take a few moments to collect your thoughts before saying anything — and allow others involved in the situation to do the same.

2. Once you're calm, express your anger

As soon as you're thinking clearly, express your frustration in an assertive but nonconfrontational way. State your concerns and needs clearly and directly, without hurting others or trying to control them.

3. Get some exercise

Physical activity can help reduce stress that can cause you to become angry. If you feel your anger escalating, go for a brisk walk or run, or spend some time doing other enjoyable physical activities.

4. Take a timeout

Timeouts aren't just for kids. Give yourself short breaks during times of the day that tend to be stressful. A few moments of quiet time might help you feel better prepared to handle what's ahead without getting irritated or angry.

5. Identify possible solutions

Instead of focusing on what made you mad, work on resolving the issue at hand. Does your child's messy room drive you crazy? Close the door. Is your partner late for dinner every night? Schedule meals later in the evening — or agree to eat on your own a few times a week. Remind yourself that anger won't fix anything and might only make it worse.

6. Stick with 'I' statements

To avoid criticizing or placing blame — which might only increase tension — use "I" statements to describe the problem. Be respectful and specific. For example, say, "I'm upset that you left the table without offering to help with the dishes" instead of "You never do any housework."

7. Don't hold a grudge

Forgiveness is a powerful tool. If you allow anger and other negative feelings to crowd out positive feelings, you might find yourself swallowed up by your own bitterness or sense of injustice. But if you can forgive someone who angered you, you might both learn from the situation and strengthen your relationship.

8. Use humor to release tension

Lightening up can help diffuse tension. Use humor to help you face what's making you angry and, possibly, any unrealistic expectations you have for how things should go. Avoid sarcasm, though — it can hurt feelings and make things worse.

9. Practice relaxation skills

When your temper flares, put relaxation skills to work. Practice deep-breathing exercises, imagine a relaxing scene, or repeat a calming word or phrase, such as "Take it easy." You might also listen to music, write in a journal or do a few yoga poses — whatever it takes to encourage relaxation.

10. Know when to seek help

Learning to control anger is a challenge for everyone at times. Seek help for anger issues if your anger seems out of control, causes you to do things you regret or hurts those around you.

Anger management: 10 tips to tame your temper

 

[blues_funk_reggae]

 

[AllHolosEve]

Don't listen to half this bullshyt. I have a white baby momma & I'm not #pawgset. My kids identify as Black, raised by my family. My BM dad disowned her for getting pregnant with a Black baby.

Dealing with the family is the only drawback but a lot of people don't have to deal with it. Most my BM female relatives fukk with Black dudes only. When we get together it's mostly Black dudes but this is MN. Only like 2 white uncle's come through & they cool as fukk.

 

[philmonroe]

Anger management: 10 tips to tame your temper
Keeping your temper in check can be challenging. Use simple anger management tips — from taking a timeout to using "I" statements — to stay in control.

By Mayo Clinic Staff

Do you fume when someone cuts you off in traffic? Does your blood pressure rocket when your child refuses to cooperate? Anger is a normal and even healthy emotion — but it's important to deal with it in a positive way. Uncontrolled anger can take a toll on both your health and your relationships.

Ready to get your anger under control? Start by considering these 10 anger management tips.

1. Think before you speak

In the heat of the moment, it's easy to say something you'll later regret. Take a few moments to collect your thoughts before saying anything — and allow others involved in the situation to do the same.

2. Once you're calm, express your anger

As soon as you're thinking clearly, express your frustration in an assertive but nonconfrontational way. State your concerns and needs clearly and directly, without hurting others or trying to control them.

3. Get some exercise

Physical activity can help reduce stress that can cause you to become angry. If you feel your anger escalating, go for a brisk walk or run, or spend some time doing other enjoyable physical activities.

4. Take a timeout

Timeouts aren't just for kids. Give yourself short breaks during times of the day that tend to be stressful. A few moments of quiet time might help you feel better prepared to handle what's ahead without getting irritated or angry.

5. Identify possible solutions

Instead of focusing on what made you mad, work on resolving the issue at hand. Does your child's messy room drive you crazy? Close the door. Is your partner late for dinner every night? Schedule meals later in the evening — or agree to eat on your own a few times a week. Remind yourself that anger won't fix anything and might only make it worse.

6. Stick with 'I' statements

To avoid criticizing or placing blame — which might only increase tension — use "I" statements to describe the problem. Be respectful and specific. For example, say, "I'm upset that you left the table without offering to help with the dishes" instead of "You never do any housework."

7. Don't hold a grudge

Forgiveness is a powerful tool. If you allow anger and other negative feelings to crowd out positive feelings, you might find yourself swallowed up by your own bitterness or sense of injustice. But if you can forgive someone who angered you, you might both learn from the situation and strengthen your relationship.

8. Use humor to release tension

Lightening up can help diffuse tension. Use humor to help you face what's making you angry and, possibly, any unrealistic expectations you have for how things should go. Avoid sarcasm, though — it can hurt feelings and make things worse.

9. Practice relaxation skills

When your temper flares, put relaxation skills to work. Practice deep-breathing exercises, imagine a relaxing scene, or repeat a calming word or phrase, such as "Take it easy." You might also listen to music, write in a journal or do a few yoga poses — whatever it takes to encourage relaxation.

10. Know when to seek help

Learning to control anger is a challenge for everyone at times. Seek help for anger issues if your anger seems out of control, causes you to do things you regret or hurts those around you.

Anger management: 10 tips to tame your temper

Anger management: 10 tips to tame your temper
Keeping your temper in check can be challenging. Use simple anger management tips — from taking a timeout to using "I" statements — to stay in control.

By Mayo Clinic Staff

Do you fume when someone cuts you off in traffic? Does your blood pressure rocket when your child refuses to cooperate? Anger is a normal and even healthy emotion — but it's important to deal with it in a positive way. Uncontrolled anger can take a toll on both your health and your relationships.

Ready to get your anger under control? Start by considering these 10 anger management tips.

1. Think before you speak

In the heat of the moment, it's easy to say something you'll later regret. Take a few moments to collect your thoughts before saying anything — and allow others involved in the situation to do the same.

2. Once you're calm, express your anger

As soon as you're thinking clearly, express your frustration in an assertive but nonconfrontational way. State your concerns and needs clearly and directly, without hurting others or trying to control them.

3. Get some exercise

Physical activity can help reduce stress that can cause you to become angry. If you feel your anger escalating, go for a brisk walk or run, or spend some time doing other enjoyable physical activities.

4. Take a timeout

Timeouts aren't just for kids. Give yourself short breaks during times of the day that tend to be stressful. A few moments of quiet time might help you feel better prepared to handle what's ahead without getting irritated or angry.

5. Identify possible solutions

Instead of focusing on what made you mad, work on resolving the issue at hand. Does your child's messy room drive you crazy? Close the door. Is your partner late for dinner every night? Schedule meals later in the evening — or agree to eat on your own a few times a week. Remind yourself that anger won't fix anything and might only make it worse.

6. Stick with 'I' statements

To avoid criticizing or placing blame — which might only increase tension — use "I" statements to describe the problem. Be respectful and specific. For example, say, "I'm upset that you left the table without offering to help with the dishes" instead of "You never do any housework."

7. Don't hold a grudge

Forgiveness is a powerful tool. If you allow anger and other negative feelings to crowd out positive feelings, you might find yourself swallowed up by your own bitterness or sense of injustice. But if you can forgive someone who angered you, you might both learn from the situation and strengthen your relationship.

8. Use humor to release tension

Lightening up can help diffuse tension. Use humor to help you face what's making you angry and, possibly, any unrealistic expectations you have for how things should go. Avoid sarcasm, though — it can hurt feelings and make things worse.

9. Practice relaxation skills

When your temper flares, put relaxation skills to work. Practice deep-breathing exercises, imagine a relaxing scene, or repeat a calming word or phrase, such as "Take it easy." You might also listen to music, write in a journal or do a few yoga poses — whatever it takes to encourage relaxation.

10. Know when to seek help

Learning to control anger is a challenge for everyone at times. Seek help for anger issues if your anger seems out of control, causes you to do things you regret or hurts those around you.

Anger management: 10 tips to tame your temper

 

[3rdWorld]

You'll decide for yourself whats worse..non Black kids or possible prison.

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

They don't age well. I've only met a few white women that actually looked younger than their age--by the time they get to their late thirties they start aging like shyt. They tend to pass their feelings of superiority onto their daughters, so their daughters think they are superior to bw--but when they get treated like bw, it confuses them. They tend to have identity issues too. They're pretty ignorant, even the liberal ones. Most brehs I know that date them on a serious level, know what I'm talking about, a lot of these WW say and do ignorant things, but they'll usually be open to learning once you explain things to them. Other than that, do you breh. WW tend to be attractive, easy going, fun-loving, easier to please, and eager to please you when they're young(teens and twenties). That's if you're able to get a becky that's above average. I've seen a lot of brehs with average/basic looking WW. If you get one that's above average, you'll probably have fun and enjoy it while she's still attractive--it's really the aging process that will kill your attraction later on.

Most bw 35 look better than alot of white woman 25.

Ageing foes not do them well.

And they pushovers in many ways they tend to be overly submissive

 

[Payday23]

What a silly question

I swear

 

[iBrowse]

That stench.... ask aubrey graham

:6c00n:

With that said here are some (not all) of my drawbacks for why I don't PAWG:

• Age like spoiled milk
• Some of the biggest whores out
  • Which also means diseases
• Racism via her friends
• Racism via her family
• Smells like wet dog

 

[Rancor]

You gonna share that p*ssy with her dog

 

[CarmelBarbie]

In they defense most women don't age well. But yes white women can have a particularly bad falloff with a extremely short shelf life.

But if a bytch waste her prime years on my ass I can't leave because she getting kinda old in the face

If she start getting fat though

Nah got to disagree, your a younger breh. I'm 32. Everyday I get mistaken for being in my mid twenties. You saw the recent Kyla Pratt thread right? She is 33 and looks the same as she did when she was a teenager. I mean we can list so many examples of BW that have aged incredibly, but once you start comparing them to WW apples to apples, you'll find that the average ww does not age the same. Like I said, they tend to look their best in their teenage years and in their twenties. But once they get in their thirties the aging process starts to hit them hard. And their late thirties? It usually is a wrap at that point. Especially if she's a white girl that spent most of her twenties and teenage years in the sun. Ever seen those white people that are older but have permanent reddish or orange looking skin? It's from years in the sun, which they love(because they like tanning) but it hits them hard. Those that don't have very much melanin actually tend to suffer this fate. I would say that by far WW age the worst out of every race. Even now, the few white girls at my job, look their age(in their twenties) they don't look young for their age, they look their age. Give them ten years--and when you see them again, it's going to be wtf...

Like I said I've rarely met older ww(those in their late thirties and forties) that look young or that look their age. In comparison I've met many bw that look young through their thirties and forties, or that at least look their age.

On the other hand WW are not really alone with the terrible aging process. I would say next to them, latinas don't age very well either. They tend to get fat and boxy after having a kid or two. I rarely met an older latina that looked young too. And Indian women don't age well either--like latinas they get fat after a kid or two, and tend to look pretty terrible once they're older. Asian women on the other hand, tend to look fine, until they get around their fifties--then they start looking like straight up grandmas. So yes if your saying these sort of women age terribly--I'd agree. But, bw? Nah, and I'm not even being biased when I say that, but on average apples to apples, BW kill these other races with aging.
WW have the shortest shelf life out of everyone. That is why I say, yes they tend to be attractive and look good when their in their teenage and twenties(and for some even their early to mid thirties) but time doesn't treat them well. As long as your okay with that, then you'll be okay. Honestly I feel like brehs that don't like BW or that prefer WW need to just pawg and kim. If they're okay with the drawbacks then that's on them.

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

Nah got to disagree, your a younger breh. I'm 32. Everyday I get mistaken for being in my mid twenties. You saw the recent Kyla Pratt thread right? She is 33 and looks the same as she did when she was a teenager. I mean we can list so many examples of BW that have aged incredibly, but once you start comparing them to WW apples to apples, you'll find that the average ww does not age the same. Like I said, they tend to look their best in their teenage years and in their twenties. But once they get in their thirties the aging process starts to hit them hard. And their late thirties? It usually is a wrap at that point. Especially if she's a white girl that spent most of her twenties and teenage years in the sun. Ever seen those white people that are older but have permanent reddish or orange looking skin? It's from years in the sun, which they love(because they like tanning) but it hits them hard. Those that don't have very much melanin actually tend to suffer this fate. I would say that by far WW age the worst out of every race. Even now, the few white girls at my job, look their age(in their twenties) they don't look young for their age, they look their age. Give them ten years--and when you see them again, it's going to be wtf...

Like I said I've rarely met older ww(those in their late thirties and forties) that look young or that look their age. In comparison I've met many bw that look young through their thirties and forties, or that at least look their age.

On the other hand WW are not really alone with the terrible aging process. I would say next to them, latinas don't age very well either. They tend to get fat and boxy after having a kid or two. I rarely met an older latina that looked young too. And Indian women don't age well either--like latinas they get fat after a kid or two, and tend to look pretty terrible once they're older. Asian women on the other hand, tend to look fine, until they get around their fifties--then they start looking like straight up grandmas. So yes if your saying these sort of women age terribly--I'd agree. But, bw? Nah, and I'm not even being biased when I say that, but on average apples to apples, BW kill these other races with aging.
WW have the shortest shelf life out of everyone. That is why I say, yes they tend to be attractive and look good when their in their teenage and twenties(and for some even their early to mid thirties) but time doesn't treat them well. As long as your okay with that, then you'll be okay. Honestly I feel like brehs that don't like BW or that prefer WW need to just pawg and kim. If they're okay with the drawbacks then that's on them.

This very true

 

[SNG]

Father time not being nice to your pawg as you age.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Don't listen to half this bullshyt. I have a white baby momma & I'm not #pawgset. My kids identify as Black, raised by my family. My BM dad disowned her for getting pregnant with a Black baby.

Dealing with the family is the only drawback but a lot of people don't have to deal with it. Most my BM female relatives fukk with Black dudes only. When we get together it's mostly Black dudes but this is MN. Only like 2 white uncle's come through & they cool as fukk.

@ the bolded It sounds like a bunch of bucks getting together. I've been in that type of situation before, and it's a strange sight to see, no offense.

How can you say your kids are black and aren't half white, when they have a white mother? A white woman can't birth a black baby, but she can birth a mixed child.

 

[Will Ross]

Nah you're wrong, black women age the best

Black women arguably have the most athletic bodies on average

That combined with the extra melanin, usually makes for the best aging

Stop the lies plenty of sista fall off just like white Women. This mind set makes black Women lazy as fukk