The Radiant One
Superstar
Yeah I was told this by my lawyer it’s why men owe 50k in child support one day
And if you think you have a good relationship with your baby mom do you have a girlfriend that’s when they act up
What are you brehs paying for child support?
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Yeah I was told this by my lawyer it’s why men owe 50k in child support one day
And if you think you have a good relationship with your baby mom do you have a girlfriend that’s when they act up
bourgeoisie tall freak
Superstar
just want to add a note about the example i used since this is a teaching moment. my friend did a legitimation case, which isn't the same as a contended child support case. nobody in the case was demanding child support so the court didn't make a case out of it and the plan they came up with on their own is on record. so there is no "if she gets mad, she can claim you never paid" in this case where it could be the case if you are just paying her off record on some "lets avoid courts and handshake' shyt. he has the amount on record with the court and keeps receipts lol
#BOTHSIDES
Superstar
Same $0$0
have a kid with a woman/man you later cant stand! Why do so many do it?
*ahem..former divorcee here! I have reasons and my 3 kids are grown and were somewhat expensive because i treated them more than the average and working class families.
*ahem..former divorcee here! I have reasons and my 3 kids are grown and were somewhat expensive because i treated them more than the average and working class families.
Bigen King
All Star
$600 plus child care and other expenses. Job pays for Healthcare and dental.
Only way to win is to make more money and stay out of family court.
Only way to win is to make more money and stay out of family court.
The Radiant One
Superstar
Just ammunition for you childless brehs if your family starts barking about kids
Laidbackman
All Star
You mean it's gone up from 1/3 to 60% ?
bc he actually gave a damn about his pockets and seeing his children. A lot of men think "why bother"?my best friend is a single dad to twin toddlers.
he did the court shyt (legitimation/custody/support plan), he has split custody and no ordered child support. but he pays the mom like 1500 off gp which covers all the living expenses and then he just pays for the random stuff.
idk how people be mad at child support for their own kids. and as you can see by the example i made... you can't blame the court system. my folk survived that shyt completely unscathed
Ezekiel 25:17
Veteran
$1700.....Breh that's a whole new house. 
A S Class Mercedes
A S Class Mercedes
Ezekiel 25:17
Veteran
my best friend is a single dad to twin toddlers.
he did the court shyt (legitimation/custody/support plan), he has split custody and no ordered child support. but he pays the mom like 1500 off gp which covers all the living expenses and then he just pays for the random stuff.
idk how people be mad at child support for their own kids. and as you can see by the example i made... you can't blame the court system. my folk survived that shyt completely unscathed
That's not the problem.
Why are people having kids if they can't stay together in the first damn place.
Fuking $1700/month. All the investments you missing out on.
Oh well, not my problem, I don't got kids.
It angers me as a man to see regular guys having to pay $1,000...$1,500 a month in child support.
Because you wouldn't spend that shyt on them even if you had them 100% of the time.
Ain't nobody out here spending $1500 a month on rent. Plus a car payment. Plus food. Plus insurance. Plus all the other shyt...AND another $1,000 on a kid.
This shyt is punitive to hurt men.
And I cannot be convinced otherwise.
Because you wouldn't spend that shyt on them even if you had them 100% of the time.
Ain't nobody out here spending $1500 a month on rent. Plus a car payment. Plus food. Plus insurance. Plus all the other shyt...AND another $1,000 on a kid.
This shyt is punitive to hurt men.
And I cannot be convinced otherwise.
Ezekiel 25:17
Veteran
