I went to Starbucks the other day and behind the register was this tall, slim transgender. I could sense her nervousness. She was probably waiting for me to judge her. But I didn't and I don't.
I used to work with a gay dude that was pretty cool. He used to act and had been the star of a movie. He was handsome and had plenty of potential. In September he was discovered by his nephew hanging in his closet. I was sad to learn that. That man struggled with who he was to the point that he took his own life.
I know a few gay women personally. They are good people. I'd never make them feel less than for who they are, whether it's a choice, biology or a combination of both. It's not my job to make life hell for anyone.