umm YOLO...i'm just saying it doesn't always lead to a negative result.
i dont think he was saying hes worried she would leave...i think hes saying that having a 3some leaves your relationship open to all kind of problems....mainly trust...
sure the visual of it is appealing to think about...but the reality of bull shyt you might have to endure for it...to isnt worth it
...if the answer is just "I said please" then I can't learn from this mans mistakes...if y'all wuz engagement status u should be goin super hard to get her back,if I ever get to that point that's what id do for a woman I wuz going to marry her....not sayin I wouldn't cheat cuz I can't promise that
just sayin if I got caught id fight hard to get her back.
*,I cheat on my woman from time to time...this is my baby mama and a woman I care about a lot ima even say love maybe....but I still mess up,u got a gf who lives four hours away why is this even a question...u don't have a kid by her and its a long distance relationship...u don't really owe her shyt and she don't owe u shyt at this point....all these nikkas and u sayin "she might be wifey
"...a lot of might be wifeys and hubbys have ended as a big fat waste of time....homie who said he wuz engaged,his fiance thought he wuz husband material but instead after 6 yrs he said it ended....are we all just assuming she WON'T fuk up
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Sorry bout that man,but what have u done to get her back like for real?
But threadstarter *looks over shoulder
Do u bruh,depending on how serious y'all are though I take it back,u do owe her sumthin if its serious....u owe it to her that she doesn't find out,meaning you need to be very careful about the type of chicks u dealin with,don't get nobody pregnant,don't get a std,don't have a relationship and keep it to strictly fukking,don't cheat with a neighbor on sum dumb shyt..
It also help if u can get into a fight and walk out on her from time to time,making her thinks its her fault and feel guilty...that way if u do get caught slippin u can just say y'all wuznt together when it happened and she probaly won't remember if u really wuz or not
And of course there's the nicest way to do it which is break up with her....personally I like havin a girlfriend and bein in a relationship....I just wanna be single sumtimes too...good luck bro
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if I found out they wuz lookin at me sideways cuz I cheat on MY girl....unless she a family member of yours I don't see the connection
Sorry bout that man,but what have u done to get her back like for real?
I also felt like I lost my life. I really never been that down and out EVER. So yeah I begged. then that little voice in my head said nikka have some pride. also I realized beggin isnt the right way. so I did the unthinkable. first thing I did was delete all the h0es in my phone. I did this right infront of her. inside I was cuz im thinkin what if she dont take me back (and she still didnt take me back so I guess its checkmate ) second thing I did was decide to change my #...had this # since highschool. told her I would change it so that I can just start fresh and these females cant contact me. third thing I did was. give her my passwords to prove to her that I have nothing to hide. fifth, bought her a diamond promise ring. promissing to be the man she need me to be and all that lovey stuff. sixth, I took her on a getaway, just me and her, minus the arguing, minus the drama, just good fun times. she became a born again after she caught me cheating and said she wasnt havin sex again till marriage I told her I didnt care, and ill still be with her. I also started going to church with her. I started asking her what her answer was, she says im rushing her so I really have no choice but to fall back. I talk to her every now and then, and its just not the same. her birthday was in october. I took her out still we had a good time but she still hasnt gotten back to me. 
I tried hard man. Not gonna lie, initially I was on some begging sh!t. Call me a simp all yall want, but this was 6 years. and the mental picture of her doin all those things she did in the bedroom to another man was
At this point breh, Ill be honest, I dont know what else to do. Ive promised. I had mutual friends talk to her for me when she stopped answering my calls. She said she will think about it...well that was back in june
all in all, if that aint trying hard to get a woman back then I dunno what is breh
i live by this