What are your thoughts on chicks wanting you to compete with other nikkas

[MidniteJay]

Exactly

Like with that bill shyt.. my ex pulled that shyt on me and I was like “go back to that nikka then”

I was dating another chick and on the second date she asked me to buy her a purse. I looked at her like and she said other dudes buy her expensive shyt all the time. I literally busted out laughing in her face and told her I’m not the dude for her. Never spoke to hr again...

shyt like that. 1 chick i was trying to hook up with playing games with other nikkas then called me at 2am to come and get her because some dude she hanging out with spazzin and trying to beat her ass. I literally hung up my phone and fell asleep like a baby.

I’m not here to compete for some hoes affection like it’s the 1700’s or some shyt.

Wouldn't have even picked up. Those kind of hours are reserved for family emergencies only.

 

[Ashley Banks]

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Wouldn't have even picked up. Those kind of hours are reserved for family emergencies only.

Thought it was a booty call, it was some dumb shyt. Straight up clicked and went back to sleep. And i had work in the morning

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

u right, but not me.

I be on some "damn u right, that nikka got his shyt together "

except when you bring up @Ronald McDonald and @Burger King

 

[Serious]

To be honest we all compete with each other. You see an attractive black woman and we immediately go into competition mode. I see an attractive black woman with a brother and I immediately think I know I can be better than that nikka ( that’s competition).


The only time I’m not competing for a black woman is if she’s flirting with a cac or I found out she use to be with a cac. She’s not worth competing for so I bounce.

When are @paperbag and @Bedwench going expose their pm's to dead this myth?

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

To be honest we all compete with each other. You see an attractive black woman and we immediately go into competition mode. I see an attractive black woman with a brother and I immediately think I know I can be better than that nikka ( that’s competition).


The only time I’m not competing for a black woman is if she’s flirting with a cac or I found out she use to be with a cac. She’s not worth competing for so I bounce.

 

[patscorpio]

chick is dismissed asap in that situation

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

I'm not competing for shyt...I only want women who have high interest in me...chicks that don't even wanna deal with another man.

 

[Gold]

I make them compete with other chicks

 

[Solano707]

To me that whole double agent shyt is automatic grounds for termination.


Especially close to Valentines these birds are kicking that shyt into overdrive. Talking about who and what they turned down and putting the ball in your court. Chicks that aint wifey tryna give you ultimatums.

Ive always encouraged bytches to get everything they can out the other nikkas they entertain and dont ever pillow talk to me throwing dirt on a another dudes name because you’ll probably do the same shyt to me

women who do this shyt are attention seeking sluts... don't got time for any of that

 

[Deuterion]

Men automatically compete with each other. We don't need to encourage ya'll. All you gotta do is say something nice about another guy and ya'll get all emotional and start comparing your own shyt. It's actually kinda funny.

Sounds like you date some weak ass dudes. For example, if you and I were together and a dude had a nice suit on and you pointed it out I wouldn’t get upset and if I agreed with your assessment I would even compliment the dude. But if you started randomly bringing up other dudes that you have been out with you’d either get benched ASAP or I’d change your status in my life to “a means to bust a nut”. I’d do minimal shyt like take you out to eat or I’d take you to a concert if the woman I asked first couldn’t go but it’d all be in the spirit of keeping the sex available...not to forge something long lasting.

Women (in general) talk about all these weak nikkas out here but y’all don’t realize that y’all don’t always have control. When y’all play these games with an experienced and confident man he’ll start playing you and you’ll be totally oblivious. Two years go by and you looking for some equity in the situation and you ask “so what are we?”...”where is this going?” and dude hits you with “I appreciate our friendship” then you go running to your girls talking about how “nikkas ain’t ready for commitment”. No, you was playing stupid ass games in the beginning, dude realized you wasn’t wifey material, he reclassed you and rode you until the wheels fell off.

Look in the mirror and stop playing childish games with grown men. By time we in our 30’s we seen all the shyt y’all pull and got answers for it.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Sounds like you date some weak ass dudes. For example, if you and I were together and a dude had a nice suit on and you pointed it out I wouldn’t get upset and if I agreed with your assessment I would even compliment the dude. But if you started randomly bringing up other dudes that you have been out with you’d either get benched ASAP or I’d change your status in my life to “a means to bust a nut”. I’d do minimal shyt like take you out to eat or I’d take you to a concert if the woman I asked first couldn’t go but it’d all be in the spirit of keeping the sex available...not to forge something long lasting.

Women (in general) talk about all these weak nikkas out here but y’all don’t realize that y’all don’t always have control. When y’all play these games with an experienced and confident man he’ll start playing you and you’ll be totally oblivious. Two years go by and you looking for some equity in the situation and you ask “so what are we?”...”where is this going?” and dude hits you with “I appreciate our friendship” then you go running to your girls talking about how “nikkas ain’t ready for commitment”. No, you was playing stupid ass games in the beginning, dude realized you wasn’t wifey material, he reclassed you and rode you until the wheels fell off.

Look in the mirror and stop playing childish games with grown men. By time we in our 30’s we seen all the shyt y’all pull and got answers for it.

Why would you assume I am talking about men I date? Because that is not who I was referring to. I am talking about men in general. You can't even tell a dude a story without him telling you how he did something similar or better. Men are always trying to compete and out do each other. It's something I see regularly.

To your point, yes if a woman is involved it's 10x worse.

And I have no idea why you made this post about you and I and me being an option for you sexually. Comes off mad weird, personal, slight aggressive and presumptuous. It's a general conversation please keep it that way. I don't know you in any regard.

 

[FLATOP]

Everyday I thank god im not dealing with the kind of women yall folks post about

 

[Voice of Reason]

I had a chic I was fukking with tell me that she missed being courted and how her ex used to surprise her by taking her places. I went off on her over that shyt. In hindsight I should've just left her at that moment but you live and you learn

Even though it’s still disrespectful to bring up her ex it’s totally different than her bringing up another dude that’s currently on the roster.

 

[Deuterion]

Why would you assume I am talking about men I date? Because that is not who I was referring to. I am talking about men in general. You can't even tell a dude a story without him telling you how he did something similar or better. Men are always trying to compete and out do each other. It's something I see regularly.

To your point, yes if a woman is involved it's 10x worse.

And I have no idea why you made this post about you and I and me being an option for you sexually. Comes off mad weird, personal, slight aggressive and presumptuous. It's a general conversation please keep it that way. I don't know you in any regard.

Lol at your arrogance...

I referenced you and I not because you are someone of interest to me but because you highlighted a tactic you use to make men compete and I showed you how it would fare against a man like me. You also asked “why would I assume you’re talking about a man you’re dating?” BECAUSE THE WHOLE THREAD IS ABOUT PEOPLE WE’RE DATING, HOT SHOT! But you couldn’t stop there with the “illogicality”...you had the nerve to characterize my post as some kind of affront to your femininity and space...I bet you looked like Capt. Picard when you were typing:



I get it though...it’s the nikkas in your DM’s on Coli, Twitter, FB, IG, and Snapchat that make you feel so important. But in your quest to establish your self-importance you have managed to exhibit a perfect example of the on-going retardation of the American woman...which influenced this thread BTW. So have a seat and miss me with your feminist bullshyt assuming that somebody wants you...that’s the problem with American society...you probably work some menial job at an office talking that fly shyt...bytch please.

Don’t even respond...just neg me and keep it pushing..l don’t even wanna read your gassed up nonsense.