As a black dude who listens to Punk, Metal and other shyte in between, I've rubbed shoulders with chicks like this but I've never went out of my way try and pull any or appear like as if I'm interested past casual conversation for two main reasons. First off their taste in music doesn't resonate with me (I'm not a fan of emo, screamo, Djent, Pop punk etc..) and while that's fine and all since alot of chicks I deal with don't even listen to rock like that, I find that chicks looking like that normally gravitate towards dudes who listen to what they like instead of having to deal with a dude that listens to another brand (Wolf, Mastodon, High on Fire, The Bad Brains, QOTSA, RHCP Etc..) that they aren't too keen on; especially if he dresses to match her with all them accessories....somethin' I ain't doin' for shyt.
Along with liking the dudes that dress like them, alot of 'em fall into that social outcast category and feel like as if their outward appearance should reflect the music they listen to and they get really into it when they realize it's cheap to cultivate the look, trendy with a certain sect of people within their age bracket and they find acceptance within that sect...which is normally away from other blacks, mainly the dudes who just want to smash and chuck them to the bushes if they ain't already throwing rocks at 'em for being different. So they start dating them emo white dudes with the questionable piercings or the skinny ones with long hair who wish they were Scandinavian and start labeling all black dudes as 'not being shyt' and end up with a slanted view of ALL Black dudes and just stick usually to them mid-tier white dudes who for the most part just getting it in until they find something better. Any person lookin' for love exclusively with a race that ain't theirs almost always has some deep rooted shyt goin' on from late childhood to early adult hood that I ain't in the market to try and fix.
It was alright to be hitting chicks looking like that in my early to mid 20's but fresh on 30 (Appearance says otherwise

, but still

.), not looking outlandish like that shyt and having to argue about groups like early Staind and Korn and how their music was actually based off of talent despite being emotionally charged compared to alot of the vapid Djent/crabcore shyt that's trending at the hot topic with mid 20 chicks ain't how I want to spend my Saturday nights, sex on the platter or not.
