What behavior frustrates you the most while you're out dating?

[Scustin Bieburr]

Gotta be the first option for me. If you want a man to be someone you talk to and who supports you emotionally and psychologically while you smash another man on the side, then just say that from the jump. Otherwise you just finna cheat

The shallow people are dumb as hell too. Yeah I make decent money, move on. I aint trying to hear about how you tired of broke people when you're broke ya damn self

 

[The Guru]

It's always "show, don't tell"
If people talk themselves up, especially their morals, i tend to put my guard up more rather than less.

 

[Wildin]

Gotta be the first option for me. If you want a man to be someone you talk to and who supports you emotionally and psychologically while you smash another man on the side, then just say that from the jump. Otherwise you just finna cheat

The shallow people are dumb as hell too. Yeah I make decent money, move on. I aint trying to hear about how you tired of broke people when you're broke ya damn self

I ain't never heard of an open relationship.

When I was "dating" it was always the woman who wanted the ideal guy "college" "9-5" "going somewhere..." I was that guy for a minute and I always said I was (which every guy should say they are or aspire to be, maybe....) But a lot of the times when the saw the grind, saw that I was out there, saw me making moves, saw me on the news it was and "I'm not ready for all this......" A lot of them either wanted to be in a better place themselves before they started a relationship or just realized that wasn't what they wanted.

I always made good money for myself, had my own spot, own car, was doing the college thing and job + interning and for real networking (not online) and a lot of people think they want that then they get it and it's: whoa:

I've been with the same one for like a decade though so I'm pretty much out the game.

 

[Lord_nikon]

 

[Leao2005]

I respect on girl who said she was ready for a relationship

yes a lot of the times this code language for not ready with one with you


However, she gave me a heads up to stop wasting my time with her and move out

I can always take a scenario like that rather than a straight up ghost

 

[Treblemaka]

Women that want to move straight to gf status.

I didn't know you last month, ma'am can we get to know each other first, damn




Edit:

Dealing with women that are broken from dealing with fukboys and finessers. Stop playing injured. Get your ass of the field, get some therapy, and come back.

And some of yall brehs gotta quit trying to finesse a woman out the draws using "game" and tactics and shxt. Be yourself and be straight up, you'd be suprised how often a woman will get with your agenda when she knows what it is up front.

 

[Redwood]

Definitely playing games and flaking.

 

[King]

Being ghosted.

Before we smash

Also anyone who claims that they don’t play games, is playing games

Them even saying that shyt is a game to make you let your guard down. That’s day one shyt

 

[Kinguno]

It ain’t up there but women who pretend they talking to other people and when they show you it’s a dm of a guy saying Hey

To me I felt like the system of dating and courting was fake so I’m always upfront like I usually start off by telling a woman a task I want her to do once we talk early from there I gauge how well she listen off in good faith then from there I break contact for a couple of days because I need time to decompress but what I’ve come to learn which sounds dumb but no matter where I’ve lived the amount of lies these women have been told so just off that you literally can’t have good faith with any woman because of the lies when you being truthful when things you can’t even fathom been a lie to them.


l do my own dirt of course like all men do but women do so much more before the age 21. Like women with more kids are more relaxing and chill than a woman with one kid. Like if it isn’t flowing then move on the longer y’all talk without action the less you going to get. Even now I fukk a couple but this one I’ve been trying to fukk had a baby five months ago but never leaves him but always hits me

Chris Rock told us about New p*ssy but Possible p*ssy got more power

 

[MoveForward]

Chicks don’t ever let me just date. I tell them that I’m casual with it but I’m open to something more in the future. After a few dates I get the, “So, where are we going with this?”

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

The playing games thing for sure.

 

[skokiaan]

Someone talking that zodiac trash

Cant hold a decent conversation without appearing like a try hard

Everything wrong that happened in they life was someone fault

Over 28 and still trying boost self esteem with trashy quotes/memes on social media

Need to be reminded to pay they way..laugh it off and act like they were gonna do it anyway

They start telling u they dreams after the first fukk..lie about wanting to join the gym then raid the fridge soon after

Dumb bytches grind my gears

 

[Bumblebreh]

Being ghosted.

Before we smash

Also anyone who claims that they don’t play games, is playing games

Them even saying that shyt is a game to make you let your guard down. That’s day one shyt

The pretending to be busy one is the worst. Bu-but-but if she acts busy,he will want her even more, and I am like no. Insecurity and game playing is a big turn off.

 

[Artificial Intelligence]

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[VertigoKnight]

Ghosting or flaking

I see those kinda chicks a mile away these days so they don't even make it to date status.

I'll respect a woman who can at least say, it's not working for her and telling you so instead of ghosting.