Not sex appeal but his “swag” overall....
1. His energy. Some men, not ALL but more than a few are very angry, bitter, hurt about something. They spend more time on the Coli and not venture out to release that anger like learning how to play chess, exercise.
2. His hygiene. I love a man that invests well into himself. Sure men have different skin types. But it is common sense to floss and brush your teeth and tongue every night. Switch out your tooth brush every other week (use two) a month. Axe spray is played out asf. Me, personally I love the cologne oils men wear sold by the black Muslims. Cologne has too much alcohol and you can smell it but an oil will have the ladies go crazy, trust me. Don’t buy cheap laundry soap, invest invest. Wash your bed linen every week
3. Read!!! Not blogs but read a book. Any book of your interests
4. Develop a new hobby That your not skilled in
5. Smile more
6. Meditate
I know men that are shorter than me, bigger than me, darker than me and get more play than me. It’s all because they apply most of what I listed and the ladies fight over them. I’m talking about cats 5foot. No Kevin Hart money. Normal brothas that got their shyt together. I’ve seen women go crazy over men that look like Gerald Levert on campus and again, they smell good, smile, have their own life and they’re not bitter asf about women generally because they get women