What Do People In Interracial Relationships Do When Racial Tensions Hit?

[Mowgli]

Okay cool, but when say mixed kids with their mothers, you mean black mothers or non black mothers?

Black mom with non black mixed kids you largely see in cac areas

Black father with mixed kids you largely don't see in public.

Non black mom with half black child you see, alone no matter where they are

When we see these asian women in public with their half black kid they be tryin to bond with us n shyt but I don't see no ring on her finger So im like probably scheming on my dikk you feel me

 

[TMNT4000]

Black mom with non black mixed kids you largely see in cac areas

Black father with mixed kids you largely don't see in public.

Non black mom with half black child you see, alone no matter where they are

When we see these asian women in public with their half black kid they be tryin to bond with us n shyt but I don't see no ring on her finger So im like probably scheming on my dikk you feel me

Damn you make it sound black men getting half of the city pregnant.

 

[Mowgli]

Damn you make it sound black men getting half of the city pregnant.

....... come on. I'm saying that it's happening but there are particular circumstances under which I see it in which means it's not everywhere it's not a whole lot but it's not uncommon.

 

[Mowgli]

Anytime I see a cac male with a black child it looks like hes trafficking a human being.

Sometimes I take their plates down and leave anonymous tips just in case

 

[Back4The1stTime]

I ain't really one to criticize nowadays...or judge...people can do what they want...but I think it's funny when BW in IR relationships feel the need to say something regarding black issues...or even worse...have the nerve to complain about white people/white racism while they say "sorry I only date white guys". I find it hard to take them seriously.

Also, I think black men who idolize white women and other non-black women but dump on BW in a millisecond are some punks...it's one thing to like a woman...cause you like her...it's another to like her and denounce your own...sounds like they hate themselves and not being white...and not being able to date and flex like white guys do...some trill tralk.

I agree, there are just some black men and black women people in IR that are a lost cause but feel like they know everything going on in the black community and want to become the national spokes person for their white friends whenever the "why do black people" conversation comes up. As far as I am concerned, those black men and black women can stay over their on the white side. Let the black people like me that are PROUD to be black be.

 

[Back4The1stTime]

Mostly likely they don't talk about it at all, hell the black person will probably try their best to avoid the conversation.

But what's more ignoring is that one of your black friends dates/marry IR and they want you to change your tone or be more balanced when discussing race because they have a white partner now.

FOH with that bullshyt.

They have to take on the mindset of their white partner in order to keep the peace in their home. Lets just call a spade a spade

 

[*L*E*G*A*C*Y*]

Wait, is anyone in this thread even in an interracial relationship?

I've had my intimate relationships with white women...but boyfriend and girlfriend? no. we just liked to ff*ck every now and then.

Never been in a full blown interracial relationship myself, but as a nerdy, square dude who likes to skateboard and enjoys soap operas, I will see my interests lined up
with a whole host of people from different backgrounds from what the board would advocate for. Can't let arbitrary racial justice cut me off from romance.

I feel this. When I was living in Pittsburgh...I was yep...the same way. I consider myself a nerdy square dude that likes to skateboard and likes anime and fashion and music and shyt like that, I have a wide variety of friends of associates from all ends of the spectrum. I just consider myself pro-black by nature and pro-black rights as a black man and an African living in a white dominated society. So I have no choice but to be hip to reality. White women were just more drawn to me, while sistas on that hood mentality tip called me an "oreo" and 'white boy".

Part of my struggles as a black man on that "different" tip...was to prove to others that yes...you can be black and still enjoy things like anime, and skateboarding, and punk rock, and techno, and industrial rock, and not to have to let that define you as a black person or make others think that undermines your blackness in some way.

When I moved to New York City...I met more black women that were about the same things...so I was like...hey, why not give them a chance? At the end of the day, no matter how much me and a non-black woman may have things in common...we don't live in the same sphere in reality so we could never relate 100%. Plus I'm 30...I've been there and done that...most of the white women that used to mess around with black men and others are now married to white guys and living in the burbs. I see how that story ends...they get married, have kids, and forget about those days of messing with black culture and black people...blackness is not a trend that goes out of style. I live that 24/7/365. Plus from being in certain situations I realize the difficulty in maintaining those type of relationships with women...

All I'm just saying is brothas shouldn't feel like they should discount their own because they have some sort of resentment or bitterness about not being a member of the dominant society or are colorstruck or whatever. I'll give anyone a chance...but ultimately, it's human nature to want to be with your own...you can't discount that, I certainly can't...or deny it...or get sad when reality hits your face.

 

[TMNT4000]

....... come on. I'm saying that it's happening but there are particular circumstances under which I see it in which means it's not everywhere it's not a whole lot but it's not uncommon.

Do you see the black people who date out are below average in looks or decent or above?

 

[*L*E*G*A*C*Y*]

What are youfor? IT's the truth!

No matter how much y'all brehs wanna argue with it...they do not ride for us. And even if they do...you realize that society gives them the upper hand due to racial privilege and that can create a dynamic where they see you as lower than them...and that can fukk with a breh.

And I've messed/f*cked with many laid back liberal/hippie/hipsterish white girls/women in my life.

If you got a white woman as a wife...chances are you're going to clash with atleast ONE relative/in-law that is not about black people or black culture in anyway shape or form. The worlds they are coming from are completely different. I don't know what it's like to live out things like "white privilege"...or to be a white man and to be surrounded by tons of women that are also white everywhere I go and have white skin and the majority of this country's population/ads/government/workforce reflecting my skin color/race and to hit on women that look like me without taboo socially/economically/politically...at all..I only know of the black experience in America. It's different...it's like y'all don't even want to acknowledge that white people live in a different frame of reference then us cause it'll have you all... overthinking and shyt. And living in a world or resentment and self-loathing.

Like how do y'all nikkas watch white porn and shyt like that?

If you have any sort of basic understanding of race and American/World history...you would realize how/why these type of relationships don't work (not to negate those that do).

How do you go to places with your white GF and she's looking at other white guys where you're one of the few non-white brehs in the joint?
How do you watch TV/Movies together with white couples everywhere and black peopel next to nowhere to be found?

I'm just saying...it's one thing if you can talk about race realistically and she learns something about the relationship between whites and blacks and other races...but it's another to pretend like the reality of white society doesn't apply to her or you in the same vein.

 

[Tae]

I can't wait till it's humans vs. aliens or something like that, at least race will be a thing of the past, lmao...

Why should race be a thing of the past?
Differences are what makes the world great.
People who want race to die are just people who want to brush racism off like it doesn't exists.

 

[OatmealCreamPie]

Do you see the black people who date out are below average in looks or decent or above?

Dude, wtf. You trying to get pointers on how to date nonblack or sumthin? lol. You got the right one though because the best person to ask all those stupid azz questions would be a fellow c00n.

 

[Mowgli]

Do you see the black people who date out are below average in looks or decent or above?

Hard to say because i dont know what women find attractive but generally I can say the disposition is that of an oreo, a military man or a homosexual for men and a oreo or hippy for black women. Both are typically dark skinned.

If it's a cac male he usually looks like a faq or dweeb.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

Why should race be a thing of the past?
Differences are what makes the world great.
People who want race to die are just people who want to brush racism off like it doesn't exists.

You don't have to subscribe to race classification systems to appreciate differences between people. So, dismissing race has little to do with not acknowledging differences. What makes you think that focusing on race is the only way of appreciating the differences between groups of people?

 

[TMNT4000]

Dude, wtf. You trying to get pointers on how to date nonblack or sumthin? lol. You got the right one though because the best person to ask all those stupid azz questions would be a fellow c00n.

I don't want date outside my race.

Hard to say because i dont know what women find attractive but generally I can say the disposition is that of an oreo, a military man or a homosexual for men and a oreo or hippy for black women. Both are typically dark skinned.

If it's a cac male he usually looks like a faq or dweeb.

I meant to say black women who date out, in terms of looks.

 

[Bawon Samedi]

To be honest I fukk with any woman. Thats just me.

Especially if shes into me. Nobody should give a sh*t about what type of women another man puts his dikk into.