What do u consider a backhanded compliment

[richaveli83]

"Oh you making that big money now."
"Your well spoken."

"Any girl would be lucky to have you as their man."

 

[Luke Cage]

Do you find it backhanded only when white people say it?

White people are the only ones who say it.

 

[King Poetic]

a bunch of teachers

You really good at math where u from

I already knew when I say the hood the reaction

 

[Hazel Brown]

"Oh you making that big money now."
"Your well spoken."

"Any girl would be lucky to have you as their man."

Excuse my ignorance but how is the last one backhanded?

 

[TEH]

Low key people who can’t take compliments have low self esteem.

Most of these compliments are really just compliments …unless you know a snake is saying it …

 

[richaveli83]

Excuse my ignorance but how is the last one backhanded?

It's a nice way of putting you in the friend zone.

 

[Hazel Brown]

It's a nice way of putting you in the friend zone.

What if you already have a girl and she’s saying that?