What does The Coli think about dating your boy's sister?

[flea]

one of my best friends started dating my sister back in the days. I was so fukking tight, i wanted to kill him. We stopped talking over that. A year later she broke up with him and we eventually started being cool again. Long story short, i would much rather my sister date a nikka im cool with and who i know is a good nikka then some random fukkboy in the street that could be treating my sister like shyt. He's still one of my best friends to this day.

 

[Cat piss martini]

Dont do it unless youre gonna creep and
massage that cervix on the low or do right by her.
it be a fukked up way to end a friendship with the
two of them making you read them nikes..

 

[Beedad]

Have you considered speaking to her brothers before you pursue her?

You can't live your life based in fear of what the next individual will do. If they cannot respect the fact that you spoke with them out of common courtesy first, that's on them.

If you feel the need to sneak around with their sister; that's grounds to get your ass beat.

This happened to me back in college.
My roommate/homie's family used to come visit from time to time. His older sister would always make herself comfortable and spend her time talking to me about how I should take care of her brother. She was a banger and had the dorm going nuts when she came thru. She used to call the suite looking for her brother and started asking me about our classes. Several convos later, we both agreed that we wanted to kick it. By this time, me and dude were best friends and I felt like I could talk to him man to man. I went to her brother and asked him if it would bother him if we got involved. He was like, "as long as it's respectful, I don't mind". That was all that was needed.

A year later we stopped messing around and it ended well. Several years later, me and dude are still cool. His sister is now married with 2 kids.

 

[posterchild336]

She's cute as hell, funny, not a dumbass - works two jobs, school, etc. That body...
She's my boy's sister - not a best friend or anything, but still...
He's the type of dude that goes from zero to over nothing, too. On top of that, she has another brother who's pretty much the older version of the dude. So what do you brehs think? Should I or just dead that shyt before it starts?

my boys sister was in love with me and he respected me more as a dude because I told her its off limits

I know I may get negative comments but oh well, I felt it was too close to home to lose a true friend...too much fish in the sea to put a friendship at risk...

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

it depends on the friendship y'all have really... personally i wouldnt have a problem with a friend dating my sister assuming he a good dude but if he a known player/hoodrat/convict its status.

 

[kevm3]

naw man leave it alone. If something goes sour between you and the sister, that's going to create an awkward situation between you and your friend. It's going to be tough to make a clean break with her because your friend will be angry at you if he sees her down.

 

[JoelB]

Breh don't make your decision (or indecision) out of fear. You are a grown ass man. Talk to the girl and see where her head is at...If both of you come to the conclusion that something real is there, then move forward honestly & respectfully. This is YOUR happiness we talkin bout.

If you're still in that young mans state of mind where you just wanna see what that p*ssy/and mouth do ...then just leave it alone.

 

[Mantle Drunk]

I'm also in a similar situation my friends sister is throwing out those signals and is really cool but I won't do it theres to many chicks out there why even possibly put a strain on your friendship.

Yeah my buddys sister wanted the D but I tried to refuse last night me and her were the only ones left drinking i tried to go to sleep but she refused and hopped on the coach with me. She was telling me how we needeed to fukk before her brother woke up for work I tried to say no for the longest but I eventually broke did I take and L?

Yeah well to update I went to a bar she works at with a bunch of my friends including her brother. We were about to leave but before we did a few people went outside to smoke Cigs so I followed them to get fresh air. She stormed outside like Mantle Drunk how dare you not say goodbye with so much venom. I was like he was like why is she going at him and him only. So I was like my bad here's a hug goodbye and she stormed off I brushed it off to him saying she must of got mad at me for making fun of her which he bought but I think unfortunatly I'm gonna have to tell him.

 

[Carter G. Hoodson]

Don't do it, trust me...no friends relatives