What effect will being a bachelor have on my daughter?

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Are there rules to this shyt? My daughters mom is a bytch and I'm out here not looking for love no time soon :childplease:

A chick I messed with back in the day who is in love w/ me said she wanted to send my daughter some hair things/presents for Christmas (shes barely a yr old). I was like :leon: and invited her to stay w/ me sometime and meet my lil girl in person... and catch up :youngsabo:

Now its got me thinking what effect will different women that catch feelings for me have on my lil girl? I mean, "Hi Miss Erica" "Miss Lexi got me a new ___" "Mommy, Miss Alexis and Miss Erica were fighting over daddy" :sadbron: :krs:

Are there rules to this shyt? I only got her on the weekends so I'm guessing no letting the ladies sleepover and waking up in my tshirt those days, right? :patrice:
 

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What do you think happens to children when they see random women/men walking in and out of their lives as they grow up?

Don't let random people act like parents to your children unless they actually plan on being parents. I have experience with that kind of thing and I can tell you that it doesn't make me feel good when some person who's clearly half-assing a relationship tries to get close to me. They think that because they're on good terms with my parents that they can just walk in on my life too.

Your daughter will not know what love is if you let this happen to her. After a while she'll end up like these broken hoes you see everywhere, chasing after bum-ass dudes and then wondering why "nikkas ain't shyt".

Your daughter is still young so this might not even apply to her, but you'd better make sure that the woman you're messing with has every intention of being there for your daughter if she plans on staying with you. Otherwise, :ufdup:

If this woman is just your fukk buddy I hope you damn well don't plan on letting her send your daughter anything or :ufdup:
 

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Good shyt. Gotta nip this shyt in the bud. Even tho her mom has a good job, her family has FAIL in their DNA :snoop:
 

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Are there rules to this shyt? My daughters mom is a bytch and I'm out here not looking for love no time soon :childplease:

A chick I messed with back in the day who is in love w/ me said she wanted to send my daughter some hair things/presents for Christmas (shes barely a yr old). I was like :leon: and invited her to stay w/ me sometime and meet my lil girl in person... and catch up :youngsabo:

Now its got me thinking what effect will different women that catch feelings for me have on my lil girl? I mean, "Hi Miss Erica" "Miss Lexi got me a new ___" "Mommy, Miss Alexis and Miss Erica were fighting over daddy" :sadbron: :krs:

Are there rules to this shyt? I only got her on the weekends so I'm guessing no letting the ladies sleepover and waking up in my tshirt those days, right? :patrice:
Think of the number of men you'd want around your daughter and that's how many women should be around her.
 

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Okay, i'll keep the chicks away when lil mama is around :whew:

What if I got a chick waiting in the car. Never introduce? :usure:
 

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Are there rules to this shyt? My daughters mom is a bytch and I'm out here not looking for love no time soon :childplease:

A chick I messed with back in the day who is in love w/ me said she wanted to send my daughter some hair things/presents for Christmas (shes barely a yr old). I was like :leon: and invited her to stay w/ me sometime and meet my lil girl in person... and catch up :youngsabo:

Now its got me thinking what effect will different women that catch feelings for me have on my lil girl? I mean, "Hi Miss Erica" "Miss Lexi got me a new ___" "Mommy, Miss Alexis and Miss Erica were fighting over daddy" :sadbron: :krs:

Are there rules to this shyt? I only got her on the weekends so I'm guessing no letting the ladies sleepover and waking up in my tshirt those days, right? :patrice:
don't just let any new chick around your kid breh.... don't bring them around her unless you're gonna be serious.
 

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Okay, i'll keep the chicks away when lil mama is around :whew:

What if I got a chick waiting in the car. Never introduce? :usure:
how about you just find one chick to settle with and live with. :ld: you don't even have to get married if you don't want to ...but at least show her a stable relationship and how a healthy couple lives and interacts. your ACTIONS will teach her more about what to expect from men in relationships than anything you "say" ever could.
 
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