WHAT EXACTLY MAKES A PERSON GAY...?

[nineteeneightysix]

If you're attracted to men but don't act on it, you're gay. There are gay dudes with wives, children, etc.
Hell, virgins who are attracted to girls are still straight, right?
As for the other situation, I think it's just relative. I'm sure there are dudes who Fukk other dudes to show power and dominance but not necessarily because they're attracted to them. Like you said, there are dudes who are simply hypersexual and might just be looking for pleasure in any hole they can find, etc,
Some dudes might be slightly attracted to dudes but, typically, more attracted to women until they're put in a situation where they're without women. Human sexuality and brain chemistry is an absurdly complicated thing. Anyone who tells you it's one or the other hasn't studied any kind of neuroscience.

This is what I have come to realize...It is NOT as simple as most people make it seem to be...

I heard that Cam'ron line and it reminded of Ralphie of The Sopranos, and started thinking, "where do we draw the line?"

Is a dude who enjoys anal stimulation gay? Is it okay for dude to let his wife/woman fcuk him in the ass with a strap-on dildo...?

Are lesbians who enjoy strap-on dildo sex with other females, 100% lesbian...? If a woman who claims to be lesbian inserts something in her vagina for sexual stimulation, is she truly lesbian..?

It is all one BIG grey area...

 

[Malikthegod]

If you a man and you enjoy penis than you are a homosexual.

 

[nineteeneightysix]

Then I don't plan on ever finding out. fukk! That! I'm cool with staying the way I am; hopelessly in love with women of all sizes/shape/colors.

And that is true for most of us straight dudes, we don't know, and we NEVER want to find out...Period.

We are not born that way...Most people are born in the middle, and can go either way...But as we grow our society makes the decision for us, those of us who are more hetero than homo, don't ever feel the need to question the norm...

But I predict that in the next few years more and more people will be jumping from one side of the fence to the other repeatedly at will...

It is fascinating seeing how human society has changed right in front of my eyes...

 

[mortuus est]

If you're attracted to men but don't act on it, you're gay. There are gay dudes with wives, children, etc.

Hell, virgins who are attracted to girls are still straight, right?

As for the other situation, I think it's just relative. I'm sure there are dudes who Fukk other dudes to show power and dominance but not necessarily because they're attracted to them. Like you said, there are dudes who are simply hypersexual and might just be looking for pleasure in any hole they can find, etc,

Some dudes might be slightly attracted to dudes but, typically, more attracted to women until they're put in a situation where they're without women. Human sexuality and brain chemistry is an absurdly complicated thing. Anyone who tells you it's one or the other hasn't studied any kind of neuroscience.

sooo im hypersexual

 

[Mr. Somebody]

This thread is motivated by Cam'ron rhyming "I like to get my asss ate" and Joe Pantaliono's character of Ralphie in The Sopranos...

If a man enjoys anal stimulation, does that automatically make them a homosexual...Or is homosexuality strictly about whether or not the stimulation is being provided by a male or female...?

For example, if a man enjoys it when his wife puts on a strap-on and fcuks him in the anus, does it make him gay...?

What a man does with his wife is his business

Being physically attracted to a man and engaging in sexual behavior with men friend?, is homosexual, friend.

 

[Midrash]

If you are sexually and/or romantically attracted to men.

 

[ThaRealness]

no im not. im attracted to girls. anywhere from 14-21. as long as they hit puberty.

*broken record sound effect*

 

[Typical Simp]

When they don't pander to women all the time.

 

[yo moms]

*broken record sound effect*

 

[Markeith]

The mental manipulation homos play to make themselves look normal

Op youre a fakkit and the last line in the op is indicative of your true intentions

bytch.

 

[swimmingpools]

Its not one thing. Its both nature and nurture. I think you are born having an attraction to your preference, but your environment influences whether you act on it or not. I also dont think most of us are 100% straight or 100% gay either but thats another thread. To answer your question, my opinion is that I dont think a man is gay if he likes anilingus or a strap-on used on him by a woman. I dont get down with that, but I dont think its gay unless it involves another man.