What Have You Stopped Tolerating As You Age?
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This but i have to put out a disclaimer
Someone told me it's not just me and that it's a Sagittarius thing but I perceive anything someone is voicing a concern about as them "complaining" and that will typically annoy me. So i have to be conscious about it and remind myself that the person isnt necessarily complaining even tho i perceive it as such
Bullshyt and believe me, there's a lot of folks that are on it even those that try to front like they're not.
My thing is just be real and own up to your shyt. Be yourself. If you're on some nonsense or screwing up, just say it. Admit it but do something about it. You'll get a lot more respect than fronting. Would much rather hear someone being real with themselves, life, the world around them than doing a lot of smoke, mirrors and see through shyt because eventually the truth will surface. If youre broke, admit it. If you are depressed or have a problem, say it. If you have something to say that you need to say, let it out. All that fronting becomes nothing. Folks will forget all the times you were faking and will always remember that one time you were real or honest about something.
I would rather see someone owning up to their mistakes and flaws and working on bettering themselves, being humble, tolerate because they know they themselves arent perfect and can understand , being honest about their lives, their issues vs looking down on other people, acting superior and all this insecurity shyt, being in denial, lying and bullshyt. It's lame. It's big on social media and it's big in society. That's why folks can't move forward in life or are stuck. Not even attempting to get their shyt together. Folks worrying about attention and impressing people when folks aren't even acknowledging them. Trying to go to Pluto but can't handle life on earth. Lol.
My thing is just be real and own up to your shyt. Be yourself. If you're on some nonsense or screwing up, just say it. Admit it but do something about it. You'll get a lot more respect than fronting. Would much rather hear someone being real with themselves, life, the world around them than doing a lot of smoke, mirrors and see through shyt because eventually the truth will surface. If youre broke, admit it. If you are depressed or have a problem, say it. If you have something to say that you need to say, let it out. All that fronting becomes nothing. Folks will forget all the times you were faking and will always remember that one time you were real or honest about something.
I would rather see someone owning up to their mistakes and flaws and working on bettering themselves, being humble, tolerate because they know they themselves arent perfect and can understand , being honest about their lives, their issues vs looking down on other people, acting superior and all this insecurity shyt, being in denial, lying and bullshyt. It's lame. It's big on social media and it's big in society. That's why folks can't move forward in life or are stuck. Not even attempting to get their shyt together. Folks worrying about attention and impressing people when folks aren't even acknowledging them. Trying to go to Pluto but can't handle life on earth. Lol.
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DatLBCGuy562
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Some very good answers here. Gave me some perspective and food for thought. I love this webinar man. Feel like I would be lost without it at times 
I know...should have seen Blue Ivy at the grammys...clearly the parenting is lacking....
I know a dude that always does this, complains about work, random people, family and everything on the face of the earth.
Never does anything to change his situation, or move outta his dads crib, his moms kicked him out cuz he didn’t like her new man and kept starting fist fights wit him.
Even when you complain about something bothering you, he uses it as an opertunity to pull a ‘atleast you gettin hours’ or ‘atleast u get to do that’..
only reason I speak to him is cuz he’s generally a good dude, but that side of him is annoying and fukked up..
Blunt after blunt. Give me 2 or 3 pulls and I’m Gucci.
This 100%. I actually have mellowed out as I've gotten older. Most of that is due to working more, getting a better job and having more resources to do the things I love. But in terms of people yeah, I don't tolerate it. In fact, I had a homey who be a friend for almost 10 years I had to just say "fukk it we ain't cool" to. Dude was bringing SO much negativity to my space...no one is above my peace of mind...no one. I've also refused to be a hateful person myself.
As I get older the more I realized all people are full of shyt to some extend and walking around believing their own myths. Myself included. So I do everything I can to NOT be full of shyt and spend some time deconstructing my own myths and holding myself accountable. Strangely, stuff like that REALLY helps when you are in a leadership position.
Life is a lot less contentious when you look at what YOU could have changed about a situation first.
kids calling adults by their first name 
DaRealness
I think very deeply
Most have already been listed here, but I would say passive aggressive behaviour and subtle disrespect. I don't mind banter, but some people take that "playing" shyt too far and when they do it often it's just some insidious negative shyt they're really hiding behind. I've been around long enough to know the signs and can feel the energy no matter how they try and disguise it.
Chicks trying to run game in any way.
Chicks looking for that "nice guy" shoulder to cry on. FOH.
Disloyalty.
People not caring about your grievances but wanna cry in your ear the minute they get problems. fukk that, if you don't care about my problems, don't talk to me about yours.
Other people's beefs. If I have nothing to do with it or you ain't riding for me 100%, then take that shyt to someone else. I'm not fighting anyone's battles if they wouldn't do the same. I've already learned my lesson where that's concerned.
People having an opinion on how I should I live my life, especially those who are never there for you.
Chicks trying to run game in any way.
Chicks looking for that "nice guy" shoulder to cry on. FOH.
Disloyalty.
People not caring about your grievances but wanna cry in your ear the minute they get problems. fukk that, if you don't care about my problems, don't talk to me about yours.
Other people's beefs. If I have nothing to do with it or you ain't riding for me 100%, then take that shyt to someone else. I'm not fighting anyone's battles if they wouldn't do the same. I've already learned my lesson where that's concerned.
People having an opinion on how I should I live my life, especially those who are never there for you.
BlackAchilles
Veteran
People saying one thing and doing another/flip flopping
Flakiness
People making excuses
People seeking validation from others
Intellectual dishonesty in arguments
Flakiness
People making excuses
People seeking validation from others
Intellectual dishonesty in arguments
kids calling adults by their first name
... sometimes the kids more mature than the adults tho...cold world...
1.. Grown ass healthy men standing outside of gas stations and restaurants asking for money...saw this guy had to be 20 something asking me for change...i told him to hold on. Came out the restaurant with a application
2. These women i meet who claim or act they have it all but after getting to know them these women be in high debt, really broke and can't communicate anything outside of the latest trends
3...black folks trying run game instead of providing game into making the neighborhood better..
4.. People in the neighborhood who don't cut their grass or do any yard work and got shyt piled up everywhere
2. These women i meet who claim or act they have it all but after getting to know them these women be in high debt, really broke and can't communicate anything outside of the latest trends
3...black folks trying run game instead of providing game into making the neighborhood better..
4.. People in the neighborhood who don't cut their grass or do any yard work and got shyt piled up everywhere
Bumblebreh
Collecting honey and money
Vulgar Music
- To be fair even music that I like that would be considered vulgar, I' ve always (even as a teenager) minded others when playing it. Like i wont play certain music in the presence of women, my elders, etc. Basically if it aint something that I, in my adult age, would jam to and sing the lyrics with my grandma present, I get real conscious about it around people. Even if I'm not the one playing it. It annoys the fukk out of me when I'm in a public place and some clown shows up with his car blasting loud music and you can clearly make out all the explicit lyrics
Some mofos have no decorum
like drill music