What helped you build confidence

[sfgiants]

That shyt about how old people’s biggest regret is things they didn’t do not things they did
shyt applies to everything and seeing yourself being flabby and looking back at a life of fear. That shyt is trash. So I stopped caring as much and doing more

 

[Taadow]

I was gonna type a lot of stuff, but one word can summarize:

Understanding

 

[Daniel.]

Discomfort.

Acknowledging discomfort.
Leaning in to discomfort.
Accepting discomfort.
Understanding my discomfort.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

That shyt about how old people’s biggest regret is things they didn’t do not things they did
shyt applies to everything and seeing yourself being flabby and looking back at a life of fear. That shyt is trash. So I stopped caring as much and doing more

Damn.

I'm there right now.

I just turned 30 and I'm thinking about all the stuff I should've done in my 20's

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

My looks & strength

 

[The BasedFather]

Spiritually.

Learning who I am and learning to love myself.

 

[Malik1time]

personally.....tattoos, a car, working out in the gym
sounds odd but getting tattoos gave me a boat load of confidence
the women love it

 

[010101]

being capable is the source of true confidence*

 

[Adeptus Astartes]

Being competent and unafraid of failure. Also, knowing that most people are faking it and are terrified of being exposed.

I just turned 30 and I'm thinking about all the stuff I should've done in my 20's

Should'a Would'a and Could'a are a waste of time.

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

watching alpha male strategies

 

[ScottyG]

Playing ball


When I was younger I wasnt very confident and was constantly afraid of making mistakes

But as I kept at it and went from struggling playing other Young folks to busting grown men ass and talking shyt.

Some times you just need to perfect a craft and dedicate your time to something that you can see the results of and compare your results to other folks.

 

[levitate]

I still lack confidence in many areas...

 

[Sex Luthor]

Embarrassment. It's like i held back bc I was scared of the outcome. I always expect the worse. Made me miss a lot of things in life that could've been good for me bc I was scared to be embarrassed.

Get that dose of embarrassment and I realized that last for a short time. After a while you understand it and it becomes funny. I had to realize that that memory stays with me the longest. Most people forget instantly.

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

Looking back at what I've accomplished in life, and knowing that I have a dope support system (family & friends) that are rooting for me.

 

[Saint1]

Rap music.

MCs bragging about everything talking about fukking dimes. I knew it was all bullshyt but they were succeeding.

Started thinking I had an ego and talked like it. Worse that can that can happen is I'm in the same place I already was. Lies become habits habits become reality.

I lied about being the man and now I am.