What,If most of ur experiences have been negative with AA women,why do u have to pretend otherwise?

[DrX]

I know alotta ppl ain't gonna like this one, but I stand for truth, how I see it. I never came here to make friends. Just share thoughts.

I Made a comment in the African women appreciation thread about how I would rather have an Caribbean women because of their culture and femininity. And I got hate, but what point is it OK for a person that have bad experiences to start to grow bitter towards a group? Ive had negative experiences with AA women but on here everyone is sheltered and live in their comfortable middle class lifestyles.

Aa women are beautiful but damaged and have been indoctrinated like BM. They're fukked up and all these liberal ideologies got them fukked in the head, their confused. Not their fault totally but I don't wanna deal with their head problems anymore. I get tired of the attitude, I don't even acknowledge their presence . For what? They always got a built in defense mechanism for BM. I rather have a different type of bw that haven't been corrupted by this society. That have a strong cultural background. A strong household. With no damn weave, pounds or make up and perfume...with their ass and t*ts hanging out

Do y'all even deal with black people? Because all the ppl I know that do would be considered c00ns because they know that a lot of our people are fukked in the head. Alotta of our behavior is only normal to us because it's become cultural. This culture is sick and destructive. Twerking, abortions, laziness, drugs, fighting, no emotional control, no critical thinking skills run rampant in the 'black community '(there is no BC btw )

But on here bp that don't even have to deal with nikkas , they just go to work and hang with there circle, u have no right to comment. Because if u had to deal with nikkas your whole opinion would Change. Y'all deal with educated professional bp. Y'all don't deal with nikkas

got these black conscious nikkas talking about "kings" and "queens" where they at? whats our kingdom at? lol....I see something different, I see delusion....nikkas living in fukking shanty towns, man made ghettos...getting the street sign tatted on their skin....lol....you're repping your captivity and don't even know it my friend ....its all good tho...idgaf anymore...

There's def a difference between nikkas and bp like Chris Rock said. Trust me on that...but with bp we don't shame our damaged ppl like other groups we embrace them and coddle them, tell them that their behavior is OK. It's never their fault, mean while they destroy the 'community'. Sane blacks need to stop coddling nikkas...if u don't want too, don't complain when u have to finally deal with one and they fukk u over...all that fake pro blackness will disappear very fast....nikkas hate any black person trying to escape the barrel but im suppose to go out and protest?

alot of these cats are the same dudes that screw face u when u give a head nod or try to be civil towards them, oh but im suppose to repost their pic on social media and turn them into a martyr right? my cousin got shot at and almost killed the other day and hes a working man, but he wouldn't get no black lives matter protest. My cousin and her husband stay getting fukked over by their black tenants...even tho they treat them good...but their all c00ns if they vent right? hahaha...the coli is a funny place, but soon everybody will be forced to live in reality, and at will be a beautiful day

 

[Gold]

I'm gonna assume you mean coddling.

I think you're confusing class with race.
You even state that you don't see these problems with educated/rich black people, so its clearly not a race thing.

Having said that... I think you're right... but not how you phrased it.

I think that most people who have to deal with the same issues that you are discussing will have a negative take.
But the people who don't, wont have a negative take.

That educated sister who's 2 years away from making partner at a law-firm.... she's just as much of AA woman as the girl twerking on the corner.

So if some of us deal with the former moreso than the latter... then we aren't pretending. We just don't live the same life you do.

 

[bassedk02]

As a man, no one cares about your problems and baggage especially dealing with women. like what you like and do you, you don't owe anyone an explanation on the flip side no one wants to hear it either

 

[Diondon]

Because it's impossible for you to have talked to or dated all however much million black women there are in America

 

[Imhotep2]

Be with whoever the fukk you want

just don't diss African American women while you are doing so.

But the Main thing that people are opposed to is when those nikkas who have had negative experiences with African American women then paint ALL AA women with a broad brush and group them with the ratchets and hoodrats in their neighborhood that you speak of.

There's a large segment of African American women, actually the MAJORITY of them, who don't twerk, dont have abortions, are not lazy, do not use drugs, no weave etc. yet are constantly grouped with these ratchets not only by white America but now by dudes like yourself who have lived their entire lives in that poor neighborhood and think the women who live there represent all AA females.

 

[TELL ME YA CHEESIN FAM?]

You fake problack/militant nikkas be c00ning the most

Gtfoh

 

[315]

Be with whoever the fukk , just don't diss African American women while you are doing so.

But the Main thing that people are opposed to is when those nikkas who have had negative experiences with African American women then paint ALL AA women with a broad brush and group them with the ratchets and hoodrats in their neighborhood that you speak of.

There's a large segment of African American women, actually the MAJORITY of them, who don't twerk, dont have abortions, are not lazy, do not use drugs, no weave etc. yet are constantly grouped with these ratchets not only by white America but now by dudes like yourself who have lived their entire lives in that poor neighborhood and think the women who live there represent all AA females.

I bet a lot of these negus don't have much experience with non AA sistas either. Just regurgitating shyt they heard other nikkas say

 

[Blackout]

We are already hated and bashed simply for being black in america thanks to racist whites and their ass kissers and white media so we dont need to add to it ourselves.

 

[GilSho]

You fake problack/militant nikkas be c00ning the most

Gtfoh

When has OP ever pretended to be Pro Black or militant?

 

[Retired Account]

All AA women arent the same. All Caribbean women arent the same. All African women arent the same.

 

[TL15]

Aa women are beautiful but damaged and have been indoctrinated like BM. They're fukked up and all these liberal ideologies got them fukked in the head, their confused. Not their fault totally but I don't wanna deal with their head problems anymore. I get tired of the attitude, I don't even acknowledge their presence . For what? They always got a built in defense mechanism for BM. I rather have a different type of bw that haven't been corrupted by this society. That have a strong cultural background. A strong household. With no damn weave, pounds or make up and perfume...with their ass and t*ts hanging out

I think this paragraph is powerful. (not in a good way )

You mention that they have been indoctrinated like BM...and to a point I agree...and if you are a BM in this country well IF you feel they are indoctrinated as a "whole" then so are you. You want someone who "hasn't been corrupted by this society" but have you thought that maybe the attitude they show you is because you (too) are "corrupted by this society"? I mean you come from the same household (America) but you feel you are above your sister?

You mention the weave, make up, and perfume, and ass and t*ts hanging out....but where are these the ONLY BW available? I'm not here to diss you, just gain insight. You always talk about how you are going to work independently and you seem to be counter "system" (which is 100% fine and I your drive for financial independence against all odds) but did you go to a traditional college? I know I did. I didn't even go to an HBCU and there were TONS of black women who didn't fit this stereotype. There were beautiful light skinned girls, dark skinned girls, nerds, athletes, natural hair, curly hair, dread hair, straight hair, down to earth, opinionated, smart, optimistic, funny, etc. etc. etc. black women at my school and I was at a small D2 school in Missouri. From what I remember, and I could be wrong, you mention you work retail or something and maybe your personal exposure to bw is somewhat limited.

What you like is what you like though and your experiences are 100% valid if you have had bad ones. I don't typically say that "all" of any type of person is any specific way, but if you have a sample size that allows you to make a judgment that works in your day to day life then that's ok. But no need to say that all BW are one way or that they all need pounds of makeup or that they are all broken or whatever because there are a lot of GREAT sisters doing GREAT things just like there are a lot of brehs doing great things.

 

[DrX]

As a man, no one cares about your problems and baggage especially dealing with women. like what you like and do you, you don't owe anyone an explanation on the flip side no one wants to hear it either

thats bullshyt, im sure if i made a "damn the white man" thread ill be getting your dap...but im not a cartoon character just on some faux pro black shyt....most BP on SM posting memes are funny, they're comfortable and happy trying to be down lol....ive really dealt with real racism..., yall def of racism is a cac not holding the door open for u...im not afraid to process reality in its full form

 

[DrX]

All AA women arent the same. All Caribbean women arent the same. All African women arent the same.

yeah yeah yeah blah blah blah....u know what i mean

 

[SunGod]

I wonder how much time you've actually spent with Caribbean women before you came to this conclusion.

 

[DrX]

I'm gonna assume you mean coddling.

I think you're confusing class with race.
You even state that you don't see these problems with educated/rich black people, so its clearly not a race thing.

Having said that... I think you're right... but not how you phrased it.

I think that most people who have to deal with the same issues that you are discussing will have a negative take.
But the people who don't, wont have a negative take.

That educated sister who's 2 years away from making partner at a law-firm.... she's just as much of AA woman as the girl twerking on the corner.

So if some of us deal with the former moreso than the latter... then we aren't pretending. We just don't live the same life you do.

fine, but thats my point, yall have no right to get offended when somebody criticize nikkas...and middle class blacks like to patronize nikkas out of some form of black guilt ...because they feel guilty for "making it"

so they pat mental ill ppl on the back and tell them "its the world fault"