What if She Was Only Girlfriend Material?

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Can a person make a good girlfriend or boyfriend but not make a good wife or husband? Could you stay with someone you love but dont see potential with? Discuss
 

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Can a person make a good girlfriend or boyfriend but not make a good wife or husband? Could you stay with someone you love but dont see potential with? Discuss

Absolutely not, I'm not interested in wasting time with anyone I don't see potential with.
stringing people along that you casually like can end very badly as that person may see a future with you.

This is why it's important to get a very clear understanding of other people's intentions early on instead of relying solely on their actions to base assumptions on.
 

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Yeah she can be fun to be around and have sex with... doesn't mean you would want to have kids and be with her for life
Depends on where you are at life... If you're ready for that next step then you're just wasting both y'all time
 

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My standards for girlfriend and wife are completely different. I can be a boyfriend to a girl that's on IG being an attention seeking thot but I would never consider her to be marriage material :manny:.

Are you planning on marrying a woman that didn't start off as your girlfriend?

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Yeah she can be fun to be around and have sex with... doesn't mean you would want to have kids and be with her for life
Depends on where you are at life... If you're ready for that next step then you're just wasting both y'all time

Sex sometimes ends in pregnancy, what happens if you impregnate a woman you're not interested in having kids with?

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"Ladies, how many times has a guy wanted to sleep with you, but you ain't wanna sleep with him? Zillions. You can't count it, right? Just because you're fukkable doesn't mean he's fukkable. Same thing with guys. Just because I'm lovable, doesn't mean you're lovable too. You're just likable to me."

:umad:

So extrapolate that to dating and marriage.
Some girls are dateable. But not wifeable.

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That mindset is asking for trouble, op. If it ain't serious just keep it a friends with benefits type thing.
 

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Hmmm...

If she possessed a marriage deal-breaker...that would prevent me from being in a long-term relationship with her in the first place.
 

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Can a person make a good girlfriend or boyfriend but not make a good wife or husband? Could you stay with someone you love but dont see potential with? Discuss

Yes. A person can treat you well but they may not have the same financial goals, life goals, opinion on raising child etc. IMO a good girlfriend/boyfriend brings no drama and you enjoy spending time together. A good spouse has those things plus you share life goals that you would like to build upon together.

People don't seem to understand that there are levels to dating. A fukk buddy should have lower expectations than a girlfriend. A girlfriend has lower expectations than a wife etc. That's why I think it's weird when people say they just met someone and they expect that person to only see them. :deadmanny: shyt is silly. Expecting boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/husband behavior from a stranger. You gotta respect the process. You don't walk into a relationship. You build it.
 

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Do you strictly date women you intend on marrying? :usure:......

I don't date any women that I wouldn't marry or that I wouldn't want to be the mother of my child.

I don't have time to be out here convincing a woman to get an abortion because of my recklessness.
 
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