It's just the philosophy I live by. If people would stop dating like the other person owes you something they may get more. People are a lot more lovable when they're not beating their "expectations" down someone's throat.
What if She Was Only Girlfriend Material?
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It's just the philosophy I live by. If people would stop dating like the other person owes you something they may get more. People are a lot more lovable when they're not beating their "expectations" down someone's throat.
All I have to say is, get pass the honeymoon stage and then you'll know if she/he is for you...
First 3-8 months in a situation, Your chick can dayum near run over your dog or wash fukk up your favorite shirt by washing it in the washer with the colors and you'll forgive her and say it's alright..
Can anyone list the duties/actions for a girlfriend?
Can anyone list the duties/actions for a wife?
Would like to see the women respond to the questions but brehs can post their answers
First 3-8 months in a situation, Your chick can dayum near run over your dog or wash fukk up your favorite shirt by washing it in the washer with the colors and you'll forgive her and say it's alright..
Can anyone list the duties/actions for a girlfriend?
Can anyone list the duties/actions for a wife?
Would like to see the women respond to the questions but brehs can post their answers
You’re kinda right. People can hide shyt for years.
Story time. An ex of mine's uncle is a wealthy lawyer.
he dared his current wife for a while, she did all these great things for him, feigned interest in his interests and was generally good all around. So they got married and had kids and what did she do? Cut him off from his friends and make him stop doing the things he likes. She also cheated on him and because he doesn't believe in divorce she got away with it. True Story. He probably didn't vet her well enough or question her enough in the early stages.
No one is asking you too but expecting someone you are just getting to know to be a life long partner comes of as desperate.
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Yes. A person can treat you well but they may not have the same financial goals, life goals, opinion on raising child etc. IMO a good girlfriend/boyfriend brings no drama and you enjoy spending time together. A good spouse has those things plus you share life goals that you would like to build upon together.
People don't seem to understand that there are levels to dating. A fukk buddy should have lower expectations than a girlfriend. A girlfriend has lower expectations than a wife etc. That's why I think it's weird when people say they just met someone and they expect that person to only see them.shyt is silly. Expecting boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/husband behavior from a stranger. You gotta respect the process. You don't walk into a relationship. You build it.
Dayum I had to re-read that one twice...
You got a lot of opinion for a virgin
You’re kinda right. People can hide shyt for years.
Story time. An ex of mine's uncle is a wealthy lawyer.
He probably didn't vet her well enough or question her enough in the early stages.
How does a woman do this?
I honestly don't know apparently it also happened to Brett Grimes.
You’re kinda right. People can hide shyt for years.
Story time. An ex of mine's uncle is a wealthy lawyer.
He probably didn't vet her well enough or question her enough in the early stages.
And that is my point. People can be fake as shyt. Marriage is a serious commitment and shouldn't be taken lightly. People should be picking life long partners as if your life depends on it BECAUSE IT DOES! I just can't comprehend telling a perfect stranger they are in the running for something like that or that that is what I am expecting from them. shyt is so desperate to me.
I don’t expect anyone I’m getting to know to be a life long partner, I think you’re mischaracterizing what I’m saying here which is: when I meet a person, I make an assessment of them and decide whether or not I’m interested in getting to know that person further. This does not mean I’m expecting anything from them.
If I meet a woman and determine that she’s not someone I’m interested in getting to know any further, that doesn’t mean I’m disappointed, she’s just someone I’m not interested in.
You got a lot of opinion for a virgin
You have a lot of opinion for a dimly lit bulb.
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Ashtray B!tch
Waste of my time to be honest
Not gonna invest in some purposely temporary shyt
Not gonna invest in some purposely temporary shyt
I graduated from college while barely studying try again
I graduated from college while barely studying try again
I'd imagine you're not the first person to skate by doing the bare minimum.