What is it like having a "stable" :lupe:

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skeetsinternal said:
:manny: I aint stick around to find out if them chics kept they word about going to the chopshop.
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Wait, friend, didnt you have a story about impregnating your girlfriend and having a child? Am i in the twilight zone right now, friend?
 
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61 Corpses said:
Yes he did friend :patrice:
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Mr. Somebody remembers everything. He had a whole story about settling down because his girlfriend was pregnant and changing his ways. This man has a child friend so his life is either a fraud or hes celebrating dead beat fathers day. Either way.

Its so demonic, friends. :sitdown:
 
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Fonsworth said:
Everybody's making it seem like I'm taking a L for trynna be with my one chick...now they got me thinking in hindsight about little shyt I've noticed her doing so :comeon:...shyt even the females in here who want the exclusive thing have said that they've done the stable routine. Then one dude broke it down to numbers and I already have a couple chicks that are extra friendly even though I haven't approached them like that.

Man :snoop:
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Playa, let me tell you like this.....women have teams. I know dudes don't like to hear that......but women have teams. Let me show you how this goes:

- Woman A has her boyfriend/soon-to-be-boyfriend/dude-she-wants-to-be-her-boyfriend: this is the dude she tells all her peoples about. This is the dude she treats well. This is the dude she loves. This is the dude she has sex with. This is the dude she buys things for. This is the dude she cooks for. This is the dude she introduces to her family. This is the dude who makes her cry and treats her like sh#t. This is the dude she comes to her side dudes for "crying on the shoulder" when she finds out he has other chicks. This is the dude women write RnB songs and ABC specials are made about.....the dudes who really mattered and crushed souls and self-esteems.

The boyfriend is the dude that the woman is proud to be associated with. She wants the world to know this is her dude. This why he has the power to crush her like he usually does. What's funny is the woman's main dude usually considers her an option while she considers him a priority.

This leads into the reason she has lesser dudes in her phone, which leads to..........

- Woman A has a side dude(s): now, before you start thinking the worst, slow down. When I say side dude, I don't necessarily mean a dude she's having sex with....unless you wifed a slut. Side dude meaning a dude who is of lesser caliber than the boyfriend. Side dude is usually a broker, less successful version of the main dude. The side dude usually plays the role of waiting on her call for his presence to be warranted.

He plays the "cry on the shoulder" a## dude when the boyfriend dogs the chick out. He usually simps on the chick in one way or another....sends her "good morning" texts and takes her on some form of dates under the guise of "hanging out." Deep down, he wants to be her main dude if he could more times than not, but he can't overcome her boyfriend.....unless the boyfriend dumps her or he seriously takes a fall(jail) or disappears(marries his real main chick....not her).

Basically, a side dude is a default dude. Funny thing is, dudes are so fugasi nowadays and hip hop has glamorized being a side dude so much that dudes actually think being a subordinate dude is some type of win. It's sad really......thanks HIP HOP and single mother homes!

Food for thought.

Peace
 
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Fonsworth said:
Please elaborate :leostare:
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I'm agreeing with what you said. You said women are naive or feigning like they are in monogamous relationships (some are naive anyway), whereas dudes are out here with summer league 3 person+ basketball squads ..... the equation is off, in that there are two sides that don't equal out...... ... :yeshrug:
 
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newworldafro said:
I'm agreeing with what you said. You said women are naive or feigning like they are in monogamous relationship (some are in anyway), whereas dudes are out here with summer league 3 person+ basketball squads ..... the equation is off, in that there are two that don't equal out...... ... :yeshrug:
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mcdivit85 said:
Playa, let me tell you like this.....women have teams. I know dudes don't like to hear that......but women have teams. Let me show you how this goes:

- Woman A has her boyfriend/soon-to-be-boyfriend/dude-she-wants-to-be-her-boyfriend: this is the dude she tells all her peoples about. This is the dude she treats well. This is the dude she loves. This is the dude she has sex with. This is the dude she buys things for. This is the dude she cooks for. This is the dude she introduces to her family. This is the dude who makes her cry and treats her like sh#t. This is the dude she comes to her side dudes for "crying on the shoulder" when she finds out he has other chicks. This is the dude women write RnB songs and ABC specials are made about.....the dudes who really mattered and crushed souls and self-esteems.

The boyfriend is the dude that the woman is proud to be associated with. She wants the world to know this is her dude. This why he has the power to crush her like he usually does. What's funny is the woman's main dude usually considers her an option while she considers him a priority.

This leads into the reason she has lesser dudes in her phone, which leads to..........

- Woman A has a side dude(s): now, before you start thinking the worst, slow down. When I say side dude, I don't necessarily mean a dude she's having sex with....unless you wifed a slut. Side dude meaning a dude who is of lesser caliber than the boyfriend. Side dude is usually a broker, less successful version of the main dude. The side dude usually plays the role of waiting on her call for his presence to be warranted.

He plays the "cry on the shoulder" a## dude when the boyfriend dogs the chick out. He usually simps on the chick in one way or another....sends her "good morning" texts and takes her on some form of dates under the guise of "hanging out." Deep down, he wants to be her main dude if he could more times than not, but he can't overcome her boyfriend.....unless the boyfriend dumps her or he seriously takes a fall(jail) or disappears(marries his real main chick....not her).

Basically, a side dude is a default dude. Funny thing is, dudes are so fugasi nowadays and hip hop has glamorized being a side dude so much that dudes actually think being a subordinate dude is some type of win. It's sad really......thanks HIP HOP and single mother homes!

Food for thought.

Peace
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Well if my girl isn't fukking anyone else then let that boy simp on her :obama:
 
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Props to those who can successfully pull this off. I did try the juggling thing all throughout my 20s. Too messy and like a full time job. Living in a city like NYC you would think it would be easy to do such a think like juggle multiples at a time however when you stick to certain social circles and events shyt gets awkward real quick. Then your options start to dwindle as time progresses because your crew already smashed some of the chicks that you try to add to the roster.

I can imagine it being a lot easier now with things like whats app and tinder to find chicks in different cities. Ive had my fair share of public spectacles and blowouts to know that if I had the chance to do it again, id just be single and honestly state my intentions from the jump instead of playing the game.
 
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