What is it like having a "stable" :lupe:

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Op: I usually only want to deal with one person anyway. If I like someone that's who I want. If it is casual I could have "fillers", but honestly a lot a guys are just as sensitive as females sometimes. If they find out they aren't the only one you just talk to, get in their feelings. I think dealing with with multiple people it depends on how stupid they are or what is everyone is ok with.

If you establish a certain amount of communication in the beginning you can string someone along for a long time. Sad.

This shyt is what I'm getting at. I kinda want to feel bad for people but then they're just too stupid to read the writing on the wall. Idk if it's ego or what but :camby: with me being a filler. My thing is that I don't do that shyt so I can justify it not happening to me but assuming that this thread isn't :duck: , then it's clear that I need to adjust to the norm.

shyt got me stressed now, gonna take my girl iPhone and give her that prepaid Motorola flip phone. :to:
 
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Heavy is the head that wears the crown. Having a stable isn't the thing to do, in fact, those who spend their time trying to have one never do. As much as we men like to think we're in control, the women choose at the end of the day. We just guide their choices in our favor. If you dont understand that, you weren't meant to.
 

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Havin a stable is off the fukkin chain :blessed: but at the same time the shyt can be mad stressful :sadcam:

Mentally and physically satisfying multiple chicks at the same time can be exhausting
 

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Heavy is the head that wears the crown. Having a stable isn't the thing to do, in fact, those who spend their time trying to have one never do. As much as we men like to think we're in control, the women choose at the end of the day. We just guide their choices in our favor. If you dont understand that, you weren't meant to.

No disrespect fam. But that post is total bullshyt
 

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Heavy is the head that wears the crown. Having a stable isn't the thing to do, in fact, those who spend their time trying to have one never do. As much as we men like to think we're in control, the women choose at the end of the day. We just guide their choices in our favor. If you dont understand that, you weren't meant to.
Interesting. But in that case it still seems that they're choosing to be second, third, fourth and so on. Idk...I'm 25 but think like I'm :flabbynsick: because all of this sounds foreign to me. I like monogamy and don't like to share. :manny:
 

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Interesting. But in that case it still seems that they're choosing to be second, third, fourth and so on. Idk...I'm 25 but think like I'm :flabbynsick: because all of this sounds foreign to me. I like monogamy and don't like to share. :manny:

Until you have options my nikka :wow:
 

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This shyt is what I'm getting at. I kinda want to feel bad for people but then they're just too stupid to read the writing on the wall. Idk if it's ego or what but :camby: with me being a filler. My thing is that I don't do that shyt so I can justify it not happening to me but assuming that this thread isn't :duck: , then it's clear that I need to adjust to the norm.

shyt got me stressed now, gonna take my girl iPhone and give her that prepaid Motorola flip phone. :to:
:whoa::whoa::whoa: I don't have fillers in an actual relationship. I don't believe in that. Nothing wrong with being a decent person
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Stay a one woman man.
 

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Interesting. But in that case it still seems that they're choosing to be second, third, fourth and so on. Idk...I'm 25 but think like I'm :flabbynsick: because all of this sounds foreign to me. I like monogamy and don't like to share. :manny:
We all are responsible for our actions at the end of the day. The only stable that works is if they all know the deal. All that sneaking and alibi fabricating catches up eventually when you least expect it.
 
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