What is it with women and the fact that they can't live without being flaky?

[SouthernBelle]

man all this chicks aint flakey with dudes they really like stuff is false....the flakiness has nothing to do with interest, and everything to do with a womans desire for variety, thats all it is....this is why a woman can be down for you, but at the same time drool over another dude while in a committed relationship


yea I know guys are capable of it, and its natural, but most men, and speaking for myself, I have too much respect to drool over another woman, if I got a main with me...and even if she not around, I respect our bond that much to not disrespect HER desirablilty by giving my "lust" to another woman....

women arent thinking in depth like that when it comes to situations like that, and it brings tension.

I dont think flakiness is just about canceling dates, its also about mentality.....if you arent valued, it will show in her actions no matter how much she's supposedly into you.

Are you implying that you have side women as well (that is what main typically means)?

 

[Art Barr]

So it's okay when y'all do it? And are we talking about dating?

only bytchass nikkaz with cheater swag are flaky.
flaky is a feminine quality real nikkaz do not have.

being flaky is a byprofuct of a thirsty fake ass oppurtunist.
who trying to roster build and not real enough to say what the real deal is, from jump.



art barr

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

only bytchass nikkaz with cheater swag are flaky.
flaky is a feminine quality real nikkaz do not have.


art barr

 

[Art Barr]

So flaky to you guys means having sex with different people? That's different.

no flaky, is just another word for being phoney as fukk.
i do not do phoney or flaky.

art barr

 

[Art Barr]

truth be told, everyone's flakey to a degree. i know i can be. it's a matter of timing really. especially when it come to talking to someone of the opposite sex. plus i've got a good memory of when people seem to be flakey towards me. it's kind of similar to eating a piece of food. you remember what that last meal tasted like, whether it had too much salt, too spicy, overcooked, undercooked, etc. women always leave me with a particular flavor in my mouth. and, sometimes, they leave you with a bad flavor if they're flakey or non-responsive. so, my vindictive nature (granted, i give people the benefit of the doubt often too) enables me to return the same attitude towards them that they've given towards me. the only women i actually want to deal with are women who recognize that about me (and themselves) and that are willing to roll with it. if they're willing to deal with that, they've got the balls to recognize when they've done something wrong (in my humble opinion) and they're willing to redeem themselves. it shows they value you or that you have some type of worth versus the average person. the only difference is i'm not the type to start off doing that. if a woman is honestly giving me the time of day, i respond. frankly, i think women are sometimes more responsible for the first blood drawn because they have to be more on their toes for potential vultures...

but, i have to say, that's one vice i possess and one that i actively use with women

spoken like a true nikka,...
who uses pillow talk, cheater swag, and girlfriend action game.
then when confronted he flakes,...
then acts like he never faked a nut for a relationship woth said female.

you admitted flaky and trying to build up a work like you not while sayjng you are.

you forgot,...it is real nikkaz on this forum.
who see and know what the real deal is.

you be on some play gf action game with women in no.
on that baby bay baby shyt,..get them all feeling they gon be ya lady.
then you dip to ya other roster.
evident by you alluding to you going out, or meeting up for dates or planned outings.
when it is obvious that is not your committed.
when you only supposed to use committed g, for the woman you really committed to.

when you could just be a real nikka and go smash, and not do any misleading gf built game shyt.



art barr

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

spoken like a true nikka,...
who uses pillow talk, cheater swag, and girlfriend action game.
then when confronted he flakes,...
then acts like he never faked a nut for a relationship woth said female.

you admitted flaky and trying to build up a work like you not while sayjng you are.

you forgot,...it is real nikkaz on this forum.
who see and know what the real deal is.

you be on some gf play gsme with women in no.
on that baby bay baby shyt,..get them all feeling they gon be ya lady.
then you dip to ya other roster.

when you could just be a real nikka and go smash, and not do any misleading gf built game shyt.



art barr

nikka, what the fukk did you just say?

 

[Art Barr]

man all this chicks aint flakey with dudes they really like stuff is false....the flakiness has nothing to do with interest, and everything to do with a womans desire for variety, thats all it is....this is why a woman can be down for you, but at the same time drool over another dude while in a committed relationship


yea I know guys are capable of it, and its natural, but most men, and speaking for myself, I have too much respect to drool over another woman, if I got a main with me...and even if she not around, I respect our bond that much to not disrespect HER desirablilty by giving my "lust" to another woman....

women arent thinking in depth like that when it comes to situations like that, and it brings tension.

I dont think flakiness is just about canceling dates, its also about mentality.....if you arent valued, it will show in her actions no matter how much she's supposedly into you.

dawg,...what are you a child.

being flaky has nuffin to do with still having attraction to someone else physically.
when in an committed relationship.
it is natural for you to see other females you like.
plus for her to see other nikkaz, she still likes.
just in committal situations you are not supposed to act on it.

as a matter of fact a healthy committed relationahip is built on both parners knowing what types each other are attracted to.

it is what makes the deray like game of;

there go ya boy,..
or her, being like:
there go ya girl/yo bytch..
hilarious fun in a relationship.
then you and her go strip and bust the buttons off of each others clothes afterwards.

you sound like you on lil nikka swag. still scared to look at other females when you with ya girl.
plus you and the girls you date still on that baby ass shyt,..
of why you looking at her!!


fukk outta here, with that baby shyt.



art barr

 

[Shameonyou]

Are you implying that you have side women as well (that is what main typically means)?

nope, main is literally monogamous commitment...I was just using figure of speech to label having a s/o.

 

[Shameonyou]

dawg,...what are you a child.

being flaky has nuffin to do with still having attraction to someone else physically.
when in an committed relationship.
it is natural for you to see other females you like.
plus for her to see other nikkaz, she still likes.
just in committal situations you are not supposed to act on it.

as a matter of fact a healthy committed relationahip is built on both parners knowing what types each other are attracted to.

it is what makes the deray like game of;

there go ya boy,..
or her, being like:
there go ya girl/yo bytch..
hilarious fun in a relationship.
then you and her go strip and bust the buttons off of each others clothes afterwards.

you sound like you on lil nikka swag. still scared to look at other females when you with ya girl.
plus you and the girls you date still on that baby ass shyt,..
of why you looking at her!!


fukk outta here, with that baby shyt.



art barr

aint nothing baby in exercising self control

 

[Art Barr]

nikka, what the fukk did you just say?

you can play dumb all you want.
yet you know, i am talking about you using flaky as a mechanism to hide your fake a relationship for a nut cheater swag.

black females do not date.
any black female dating is a golddigg'n roster builder.
black females if they really like you and want you as a bf.

are on bitness from the very jump.
to see what is to it and will overwhelm you with the real to show they are capable of being your real wifey off top.

any black chick you gotta go out with on a date.
is not on shyt, for real with you.

she using you as a simp for a meal.
then getting dropped off with the nikka she fukking in transit to her crib or outside waiting on you to drop her off.

black women asking or trying to get taken out is redflag no-no territory.

we are black,...white people date.

real black women get a mate first.
the ones seeking a date first are goldddiggers and roster builders and do not view you as a man.
they view you as an oppurtunity to get shyt off of.
or simple or a simp.

blackwomen who are interested be on straight bitness immestediately.

if, blackwomen act flaky,....they really not feeling you like that.
so if they fukk with you,..it is to take advantage of sumfin that is not in your genuine interest.

plus far from what your intentions are, ultimately.


art barr

 

[Art Barr]

aint nothing baby in exercising self control

nikka you simp'n out to a woman who threw her physical low self esteem issues out on to you.
i wish a chick would pull some baby shyt, on a nikka like how you talking.

if i see another woman who is attractive, i will look and said woman with me.

is supposed to be woman enough to be like she is attractive.
find out what i found attractive about said woman and then outdo that bytch.

she not supposed to sitting around like some punk bytch boo-hoo'n...
talembout my bf got a wandering eye.
she supposed to be like,..oh this nikka watching a ciara video.

bet,..lemme show this nikka my shyt!


art barr

can't stand no weak low self esteem punk bytch!
i need a miss smith, cot dammit!!

 

[Art Barr]

Also if a woman is being flaky, she probably isn't into you. That doesn't mean she is going to die a lonely hag. Just stop contacting her.

this is the real,..one shot kill!!


art barr

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

you can play dumb all you want.
yet you know, i am talking about you using flaky as a mechanism to hide your fake a relationship for a nut cheater swag.

black females do not date.
any black female dating is a golddigg'n roster builder.
black females if they really like you and want you as a bf.

are on bitness from the very jump.
to see what is to it and will overwhelm you with the real to show they are capable of being your real wifey off top.

any black chick you gotta go out with on a date.
is not on shyt, for real with you.

she using you as a simp for a meal.
then getting dropped off with the nikka she fukking in transit to her crib or outside waiting on you to drop her off.

black women asking or trying to get taken out is redflag no-no territory.

we are black,...white people date.

real black women get a mate first.
the ones seeking a date first are goldddiggers and roster builders and do not view you as a man.
they view you as an oppurtunity to get shyt off of.
or simple or a simp.

blackwomen who are interested be on straight bitness immestediately.

if, blackwomen act flaky,....they really not feeling you like that.
so if they fukk with you,..it is to take advantage of sumfin that is not in your genuine interest.

plus far from what your intentions are, ultimately.


art barr

Spoiler

 

[Art Barr]

Spoiler

fake ass flaky use of smilies speaks volumes.....

nobody is that busy they can act flaky, period.

i been in corporate america, i been a high draw on the road on tour.
so i know nobody is that busy.
i been on tour/corporate with the other male or female artist/professionals watching them use that wack flaky..
cheater swag built game talembout i'm busy, i can't answer the phone.
all cause they had weak ass game, cheater swag, roster build and horde p*ssy on some simp fake shyt.
that i'm busy, maybe they will come around shyt not fooling nobody.
if you lying and cheat on a committal or wife you sleep next to as your potential live in or live in.

you not to be trusted.
as you think everybody is as cake as your esso.
when nobody is fooled by thst baby ass bullshyt but you and yo bytch.

i ain't yo bytch,..b!
you can't even come around me with that goof ass game!
i don't tolerate it in my personal interaction, life or presence.

be real,.....



art barr

imma real nikka,....

 

[Art Barr]

Damn, it must suck to be an ugly and/or fat chick. You're stuck with a shytty team for everything.

dawg,...
in chicago,..
fat women kill the game.

it just matters what the landscape is.
fat women and fat men,...
always have the best mates.

at least in chicago, that is what i noticed.

fat lesbians in the chi will have you hatin from the sidelines their women are so fiyoine.

shyt is the uberverse in the chi!
in general, fat gets all the play in the chi.

art barr