What Is The Motivation To A Married Man Having A 'Mistress' ?!

[2manyFCKNrappers]

If you think about it, it probably is a form of self control. A hooker and a man with lots of money because anything goes and a real hooker is going to try to get and blow as much money as possible. Plus dudes have multiple hookers/escorts they call on which is also very expensive overnight. A guy in his tax bracket is paying for a top dollar escort that probably range 3k a night or more. Also when you have a side piece that's apart of your daily life there's a sense of loyalty and protection. She is paid well to keep his secrets and lay low and be cool. He has a lot to lose so having a "girlfriend" on the side vs multiple random unknown women is better for him. He can monitor her and control her which you can't really do with a hooker because you're not in control of that part of the game. He's just. Customer. Instead he just invests in secure, stable p*ssy isn't a total liability.

 

[360dagod]

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I won't neg u for being real. I think the only issue a lot of women have is that we're frustrated that men don't understand that we get the same urges.

Do ya'll really think we wouldn't enjoy new dyck every now and again? Even just new interaction with other males. You all always talk about how we get lazy but what about how ya'll stop putting in effort as soon as you get with us. Flowers stop coming. Romance is nil. But u expect us to get magically wet as soon as u wanna get on top of us and give us the same stroke game we been getting since this started.

But we're socialized to stick it out, so when our partners don't, it's like what was the point? It's not even a tit for tat, but some dudes will literally only put effort into new chicks they get with while taking their main chick for granted.

I'm sure men will always have a wandering eye. That's normal. But realize that women do too and if we're curving tons of other dudes to work on it with u, it's not unreasonable to expect reciprocity.

Because honestly, without social restrictions I think women would be even worse than men when it comes to the wandering eye bit...

This i agree with..I dont think thats right at all...

And the second part is harsh reality....those social restrictions do loosen up when they become single mothers tho

 

[AITheAnswerAI]

Because people wanna have their cake and eat it too.

It's like women wanting equal rights but still wanting that gender double standard that prevents them from getting punched or held accountable for anything.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

...Maybe his wife threatening him with divorce had alot to do with it..

Plenty of rich/wealthy men from politicians etc have escorts on standby...Thats hobbying...because they pay their wages and bounce

A man who pays for a condo and provides a whip for years WITH 1 FEMALE isnt hobbying...There are feelings there at some level...she prolly cooked the nikka food and all kinds of other shyt...That goes beyond what your implying..

Hun if you love someone who don't leave them high and dry. Dude was planning his escape years before which is why he just paid the down payment and did the payments but kept the car in her name. You don't think a man who can buy you a condo can just buy the car out right. If he loved her he wouldn't leave her homeless and begging people to take a car off her hands. There are ways to do things that aren't heartless. Come on now. Dude could have just lied replaced her with a new side-piece. Some people just have bread to blow. Drake buys chicks cars and all kinds of shyt and then replaces them next week. You guys are thinking with your own pockets.

You all are also down playing the intelligence of these dudes. They be having budgets and game plans. Many dudes didn't get bread by being dumb.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Niggãs rich he probably brought his first wife too

 

[Denzel_Saucegton]

You do what you want when you poppin...

 

[Depreciating Asset]

Wife has gotten boring and annoying, no longer looks at them like a "man" and strokes their ego. Everything becomes routine. Which is okay/good, it's stable and the best way to raise a family, but it's boring.

Mistress treats them like gold falls out their ass and is making sure that all your needs, physical and emotional are being met. Especially for rich nikkas, because the wife knows that she's entitled to your cake and time. The mistress understands that she has to compete with your wife and possibly other women for your time and money.

Never cheated in a relationship, but could definitely understand the draw of a mistress.
Basically, have your cake and eat it too, both men and women are guilty of it.

This. And it is fun to fall in love again or at least pretend that you are.

 

[Reactor1804]

Probably the mistress is filling some kind of void in that man's life. The idea of a spouse, 2.5 kids, and a white picket fence is merely a fairy tale for most men. The excitement of going against society's norm, perhaps. Being Haitian descent, having a mistress and even separate families is nothing foreign.

 

[Youseenmywork]

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I won't neg u for being real. I think the only issue a lot of women have is that we're frustrated that men don't understand that we get the same urges.

Do ya'll really think we wouldn't enjoy new dyck every now and again? Even just new interaction with other males. You all always talk about how we get lazy but what about how ya'll stop putting in effort as soon as you get with us. Flowers stop coming. Romance is nil. But u expect us to get magically wet as soon as u wanna get on top of us and give us the same stroke game we been getting since this started.

But we're socialized to stick it out, so when our partners don't, it's like what was the point? It's not even a tit for tat, but some dudes will literally only put effort into new chicks they get with while taking their main chick for granted.

I'm sure men will always have a wandering eye. That's normal. But realize that women do too and if we're curving tons of other dudes to work on it with u, it's not unreasonable to expect reciprocity.

Because honestly, without social restrictions I think women would be even worse than men when it comes to the wandering eye bit...

This is my biggest problem with women. Women evolutionary purpose is to marry one guy and have his kids. Mens evolutionary purpose is to have 20 of you if your beautiful (i dont know what what you look like). Women are born with all the eggs that you guys are ever going to have. Men have billions of sprem. If i sleep with 9 beautiful women in a week it took a SKILL LEVEL to get those 9 . You as a women can sleep with 50 guys in a month cause its easier for you to a sex. With men everything WE do is work. This also why women arent happy cause men have to dance to get women but women dont have to dance to get us. Men HAVE to have something external about them women just have to be attractive and have a good attitude. You yourself could be a receptionist at a hotel and get action ....as a man it just dosent work this way. Your not finna be pulling some of the best looking woman as a male hotel receptionist. Men for the most part have to make life changing moves to get the women we want women dont. Women can just show up and breath at the club. No women wants 50 men in and out of her body any that say that is lying. Most women that try to move like a man is unhappy because there is no satisfaction to how women get dikk. Women dont have the skill to keep a man....women have to be taught how to keep a man but majority of women dont even wanna learn. You would rather learn it from your dumb friends. If women didnt have the looks or a vagina how else would you keep a guy ?

women are on a time frame men are not. I know 60yr old men that have 3 and 4 yr old kids. Women really arent suppose to have kids after 35. Women dont like being the fukk-E women get fukked men dont get fukked. Women cant out filth a man in the bed room ...but thats another topic for another time.

 

[Keep_It_Hip_Hop_Fam]

People must understand nature and why there's an inherent need for a man to have sex with another (other) woman (women) other than his wife.

Polygamy should be legalized

You're going against basic human nature being monogamous.

 

[NinoBrown]

Ego and opportunity, but mostly because the Wives become lazy, entitled, and withold intimacy.

 

[Elvira Sol]

IF and I say IF you really got a good woman stay strong breh

Its all fun and games until one of these whores get upset and try to humiliate your wife/children and expose you because they get envious of you having a REAL family. They want to break up your home especially if you're happy .

Happened to one of my homies he was a good dude just got caught up but the "sidechick" showed up at his kids birthday party and exposed their relationship in front of everyone. shyt was a mess needless to say his wife ended up having a nervous breakdown had to go the hospital, his kid was all upset, and my homie was .

Are they still together?