What is with nikkas and this "persistence is key" mentality?

[Software]

groups of dudes out here gettin rejected by groups of women and they are clearly walking away saying "no thank you",and tryna leave the situation but they keep tryin??

there are billions of women on this planet but you wanna keep shooting your shot at a rim that dodges your ball?

If she clearly ain't interested in YOU (not just your attention) why waste your time?

 

[ba'al]

I thinking this thread is going to be about working or going into business for yourself having a persistence is key approach to your work ethnic. All these damn relationship threads in tlr who cares about these bytches, honestly especially if ya'll aint sweating shyt in the first place.

 

[Matt504]

I agree with the idea of persistence just not in this context. nikkas should apply this same energy to school, or creating businesses.

 

[Elim Garak]

It's honestly not that crazy people have been the rejected persistent and eventually married lol.

 

[Pimpdaddy]

@Typical Simp

 

[Software]

I agree with the idea of persistence just not in this context. nikkas should apply this same energy to school, or creating businesses.

That's true but ideally the strategy should change and be molded in subsequent attempts correct?
Isn't the famous definition of insanity performing the same action over and over expecting a different result?

 

[Matt504]

That's true but ideally the strategy should change and be molded in subsequent attempts correct?
Isn't the famous definition of insanity performing the same action over and over expecting a different result?

This is correct.

 

[Software]

This is correct.

But yet dudes still be following women from the bar or club spitting the same dusty ass shyt and lookin the same as in the place they just left and gettin the same answer . But these dudes truly believe this kind of persistence will pull these women smfh. This establishes an imbalanced power dynamic right off the bat. If she says yes after all that persistence you still a simp and we know how that simp shyt goes...

 

[Software]

It's honestly not that crazy people have been the rejected persistent and eventually married lol.

Yeah but if you asking a person to marry you, then should feel like you have an evenly balanced relationship before you ask.

Although I personally don't believe in marriage for love. That seems like the most reasonable and long lasting type of communion.

 

[Elim Garak]

Yeah but if you asking a person to marry you, then should feel like you have an evenly balanced relationship before you ask.

Im talking about when first getting to meet someone obviously lol.

 

[yardman]

To be fair there are a lot of dudes who do the 'persistency is key' thing and actually get the woman who they've been pouncing on for the longest. The thing is though often times they get her when she's burnt out later down the line when she's tired of getting her coochie beat up by the streets. That's basically what male friends are to a lot of females, they know dude wants to smash but there not ready to exchange promise rings with a googly eyed nikka yet.​

 

[Software]

Im talking about when first getting to meet someone obviously lol.

Yeah but the relationship won't be evenly balanced from the get go if you have to persistently bother a woman to even entertain the thought of going out with you.
Seems like a big waste of time to me.Why even attempt to get intimate with someone physically or emotionally who is not attracted to you either way?

 

[Speaking Womanese]

They do it because it’s worked in the past.

If you have to convince a woman to fwu she ain’t fukkin with you.

Chicks have told me they gave the dude their # because they were afraid he’d get aggressive with them if they didn’t.

 

[Elim Garak]

Yeah but the relationship won't be evenly balanced from the get go if you have to persistently bother a woman to even entertain the thought of going out with you.
Seems like a big waste of time to me.Why even attempt to get intimate with someone physically or emotionally who is not attracted to you either way?

Its not my thing so i cannot say why as far as it bring even that sounds like more of an opinion than fact im sure someone has had this experience on the site and can say what the relationship is really like.

 

[ThaBoyBam]

They do it because it’s worked in the past.

If you have to convince a woman to fwu she ain’t fukkin with you.

Chicks have told me they gave the dude their # because they were afraid he’d get aggressive with them if they didn’t.

Facts. Courtship is dead because of this tho. Being persistent is creepy as shyt. Why I tell young brehs don't court unless she fukks fast.