What is with nikkas and this "persistence is key" mentality?

[Software]

They do it because it’s worked in the past.

If you have to convince a woman to fwu she ain’t fukkin with you.

Chicks have told me they gave the dude their # because they were afraid he’d get aggressive with them if they didn’t.

Situations like this are an example. Are dudes really smashin or goin on real dates with women they have to pester to fukk with them? Are they really achieving their goals with the opposite sex? Or are their goals so low (get her number/ig) that they get stuck in this feedback loop due to positive reinforcement?

 

[Bumblebreh]

I agree with the idea of persistence just not in this context. nikkas should apply this same energy to school, or creating businesses.

But people do not have the patience to wait for the long term results. They instantly want the cars,women and money and they want the overnight success.It is fukked because in the media you see celebrities,youtubers and the instagram ballers living the "good life" and people want to emulate that exact lifestyle that is only lived by the 0.1 percent.

 

[Lady.Libra.]

Some dudes, with a certain mentality, don't see it as a waste of time...initially. A no becomes a challenge/mission to conquer. To turn a 'no' into a 'yes' oftentimes with not so good intentions/methods. It has happened countless times.

Depending on how jaded he is, she will pay for that no eventually - i.e. she rejected him in the front end , he gets to reject her on the back end.

(in context of the OP)
Then you have the man who been told no but don't get discouraged because it's worked many times for him to keep pursuing. People do what rewards them sometimes no matter how strange we think it is, i.e.
-That guy who steps to 5 chics in the club but the 6th one bit.

 

[Charlie Hustle]

Persistence is the key but you need to know where to use it to pick up women. I yield great results at the Plasma center or at the Greyhound bus stop.

 

[Speaking Womanese]

Facts. Courtship is dead because of this tho. Being persistent is creepy as shyt. Why I tell young brehs don't court unless she fukks fast.

Some dudes REFUSE to respect the curve.
They lack boundaries and have no shame in their game.

Situations like this are an example. Are dudes really smashin or goin on real dates with women they have to pester to fukk with them? Are they really achieving their goals with the opposite sex? Or are their goals so low (get her number/ig) that they get stuck in this feedback loop due to positive reinforcement?

It’s mainly men with trash self-esteem and low roster numbers who do shyt like this.

The mentality of a man who’s taking his lunch into work in Tupperware is different to the mentality of a man with a Amex.

Men who know they have or can get a more suitable woman will fallback the same time and say, “have a good day love” and walk away. The other type is either gonna beg until she relents or morph into a beast and start telling her she’s ugly and she ain’t all that anyway.

Relationships started on these foundations are usually beggar-royalty status and never last long. The beggar starts to resent how much they need the validation of the royalty and the royalty gets tired of feeling indebted to the beggar.

 

[ba'al]

I yield great results at the Plasma center or at the Greyhound bus stop.

 

[Larry Lambo]

I don't think you have to be "persistent". You can just put your bid in and let her move at her own pace.

If she realizes you are her best option, she'll holler back. If she sees something better, then you will be put on the backburner.

Maybe you can hit her up once in a while to see how she's doing but not on some "so when we linking up" tip.

 

[Roid Jones]

groups of dudes out here gettin rejected by groups of women and they are clearly walking away saying "no thank you",and tryna leave the situation but they keep tryin??

there are billions of women on this planet but you wanna keep shooting your shot at a rim that dodges your ball?

If she clearly ain't interested in YOU (not just your attention) why waste your time?

You are right but keep in mind how men are raised. From a young age men are told to never give up in anything, then factor in the disneyesque messages of romance that some women hold dear. I have literally been told by a girl that rejected me that had I pushed harder after the rejection she would have said yes. It's a mind state that needs to change

 

[kuts]

I thinking this thread is going to be about working or going into business for yourself having a persistence is key approach to your work ethnic. All these damn relationship threads in tlr who cares about these bytches, honestly especially if ya'll aint sweating shyt in the first place.

 

[big bun]

You can tell when a woman wants to be pursued...you can also tell when a woman does not want to be pursued. Up to you to know the difference.

 

[Flywin Lannister]

I thinking this thread is going to be about working or going into business for yourself having a persistence is key approach to your work ethnic. All these damn relationship threads in tlr who cares about these bytches, honestly especially if ya'll aint sweating shyt in the first place.

These dudes still don’t get that chasing money makes the puzzy chase you

If The Coli is supposed to be a black forum that represents us as nikkaz.. an outsider visiting would think we’re all lonely simps.

All these damn chick threads.

I also thought this was about hustling and money.

Fukk this thread @The_Computer: you write “they” like this ain’t about you!

 

[Ziggiy]

That's basically what male friends are to a lot of females, they know dude wants to smash but there not ready to exchange promise rings with a googly eyed nikka yet.​

 

[Phitz]

To be fair there are a lot of dudes who do the 'persistency is key' thing and actually get the woman who they've been pouncing on for the longest. The thing is though often times they get her when she's burnt out later down the line when she's tired of getting her coochie beat up by the streets. That's basically what male friends are to a lot of females, they know dude wants to smash but there not ready to exchange promise rings with a googly eyed nikka yet.​

Not always the case, sometimes he has smashed early on and several times, but SHE is the one who doesnt want to be serious

 

[Software]

These dudes still don’t get that chasing money makes the puzzy chase you

If The Coli is supposed to be a black forum that represents us as nikkaz.. an outsider visiting would think we’re all lonely simps.

All these damn chick threads.

I also thought this was about hustling and money.

Fukk this thread @The_Computer: you write “they” like this ain’t about you!

Damn thought I had you on ignore

it's funny how you always post on here like you're better than everyone else on this site and talk shyt about its users yet you post on the same site in these same threads.

Riddle me this:
Why would I make a thread talkin shyt about myself? Why would I care to lie to nikkas on the internet I dont even know?

 

[The Radiant One]

It's honestly not that crazy people have been the rejected persistent and eventually married lol.

Then get cheated or divorced later. Lol at expecting a woman to stay faithful to you after you "tired" her out.