I know a few. Some suck, some are cool. Some are desperate because they think at 35 they absolutely can’t have kids because thats what they’ve been told their whole lives so they keep making bad choices trying to rush. You just have to see where their head is at just like any woman, any woman that’s obsessed with having children you might want to avoid but if she says it’s important but she’s not desperate for it you should be fine. Some people just a take longer to get to where they wanna be in life, want to bring something into the relationship, it’s not always negative.
I wish more women knew that most women over 30 have perfectly healthy children. The chances of complications are still less than 30% like downs at 40 is still 1%, it might take longer but that’s not only on the woman 30+ y/o women typically have 30+ year old Partner’s & male fertility declines as well so if you’re a 35 y/o with a 40-45 year old husband/bf it will take longer to get pregnant because he’s not as fertile as well.