What is your 30's like?

[MikelArteta]

Turned 30 this year.

New job, traveling every few months , back in the church and a new girl .

Life ain't routine minus work. Few gray strands.

I like being thirty I'm probably the smartest, wisest I've ever been

 

[Malta]

So is this how it's supposed to be or did we all somehow fukk up along the way?

If you're not rich that's basically how it's supposed to be for the masses.

Everyone fukked up and nobody fukked up, it's the great paradox cause the system is working just fine.

 

[Bless't]

Definitely better than my 20's.

Though, I had more fun with simpler things I think. My friends and I scraping together dough to get some trees. Or 211's. Or food for that matter.

Then those days you do have money, you and a few friends get some heineken's, chinese food, burn some L's and play madden or halo all night.

Being excited to get a girls number.

 

[homiedontplaydat]

You work and come home tired to deal with your spouse and your kids.

Driving them to their sporting events or concert practices and shyt.

Your girl develops an unhealthy love of wine, as if it's not the same as a guy chugging a six pack just because her glass has a stem on it.

You use your kids as an excuse to not see friends or family.

Your social media feed is nothing but baby pictures and "inspirational quotes" that subtly tell the world all the bullshyt you're dealing with (if you can read between the lines)

Bills.
Bills.
Bills.

Your girl watches HGTV for fukkin hours on end and now you gotta buy sand paper and paint the new antique accent chair she bought.

Bills.
Bills.
Bills.

You view the youthful idealism of your 20s as misguided and you get a bit jaded/annoyed with young people.

But look at the bright side, you just dropped some epic shyt talking in your fantasy league and your girl gives you the p*ssy 4 times a week.

 

[The Bilingual Gringo]

You work and come home tired to deal with your spouse and your kids.

Driving them to their sporting events or concert practices and shyt.

Your girl develops an unhealthy love of wine, as if it's not the same as a guy chugging a six pack just because her glass has a stem on it.

You use your kids as an excuse to not see friends or family.

Your social media feed is nothing but baby pictures and "inspirational quotes" that subtly tell the world all the bullshyt you're dealing with (if you can read between the lines)

Bills.
Bills.
Bills.

Your girl watches HGTV for fukkin hours on end and now you gotta buy sand paper and paint the new antique accent chair she bought.

Bills.
Bills.
Bills.

You view the youthful idealism of your 20s as misguided and you get a bit jaded/annoyed with young people.

But look at the bright side, you just dropped some epic shyt talking in your fantasy league and your girl gives you the p*ssy 4 times a week.

 

[BodeineBrazy]

I can relate. I turned 30 this year. I'm the youngest nikka in my crew. So I was the last to touch 30. I was tripping off of it. But I like it now.

It's really what u make it. Everyone's life is dictated by the pace they set and the reality they choose to live in. For me, I never had more clarity, purpose and energy, coupled with wisdom. It's like turnaround Jumper era Jordan. You see the floor better... Your body still can do some flashy shyt, but u more efficient with your choices.

I was smart, never had kids, never got bogged down with to much responsibility. My main thing has always been the long term. Just how my mind was set up from young. Never rush to be an "adult".

All my exes and older friends, they rushed into the "adult checklist". And now they bored and miserable and "living through they kids". Obvious cover up for losers lol.

Manhood is more of a spiritual journey than a cosmetic one. Don't fall into the benchmarks society sets for u. Define your shyt based off of your instincts. God Speed...

 

[Tommy Fits]

All that shyt that was fun in your 20's annoys you now. Going out drinking? fukk that, i can drink at home. If you have kids, you have a legit excuse not to free with your loser friends. You really stop caring what people think of you, I fart in public all the time now and I don't give a shyt, stare at girls at the gym, why yes I am fantasizing about what that thang smell like and yes that is an erection in my pants. If you take care of your body you can laugh at all your peers getting flabby and sick. Besides the my flabby and sick bald spot, getting old is awesome.

 

[Chef]

I turned 27 this month and all my older friends and family members keep drilling this "Once you hit 30, the fun ends". I've experienced very shytty things in my 20's that changed my outlook of life now. Why are people so caught up on being 30?

 

[Captain]

this statement: stare at the same forehead for 50-60 years

 

[Doobie Doo]

Man, if I get to my 30s,(10 years away) I dont want to live like @Raul mentioned.

I want my future 30s to be like my early 20s now, but with WAY more money , stability. I wont work a boring dreadful 9-5 with wife and kids, and will date easily 18 yo.

30s should be the prime of a man's life. Not a life full of routine, cynicism, regrets and boring ass wife and kids and life and bills. Tho I know I will have to make new friends. My cousins are 35 and they have zero social life because of their kids, and their friends also have kids or are busy as fukk with their work/relationship.

You have to set your life up in your 20's to prosper in your 30s. I'm 34 with a mostly carefree life however I set myself up in my 20's to experience by doing a few things. FIRST was condoms cuz best believe I am 34 year old CHILDLESS black male and one of the few of my friends in that position.

Kept my debts low in my 20's by always maintaining a job and paying bills (even if the job is shyt).

And finally getting away from self destructive people (My friends who were heavy drug users/alcoholics and in and out jail or unemployed and moochers)

Probably the only thing that needs work is my physical frame cuz make no mistake I'm fat. But I was fat in my 20's so that's a ME problem and something dealing with age.

 

[realn!ggatime]

1.dnt get married my n!gga 2.save up as much money as u can 3.avoid debt 4.have fun

 

[Bigtymer301]

Im 31 and coming from a single man here are pro's and con's

-You don't have to share with anyone (if your single,if you got a gf don't let her move in it can cause stress)
-Bills,Bills and Bills (You rather work and make $ then not to work at all)
-Only kid in your life is your God-Child,niece or nephew.
-You can date who you want,when you want.
--You should be established in your career if not,you can hop around as long as you have no wife or kids
-You can be older and still look younger if you eat right,exercise
-That woman that rejected you in your 20's,would gladly date you now
-You can take a trip anywhere.Travel breh
-You should be financially smarter. Don't go out buy 10 pairs of Jordans when your rent is due
-When you play basketball wit hthe young ones your jumper comes in handy.All that cutting and crossing over will hurt your aching knees

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Spoiler

Work on your jumper young brehs!!

 

[Hijo de luna]

Stay fit, don't have kids, don't rack up debt, don't commit to anything or anyone in your 20's and your 30's will be the shyt.