What is your biggest insecurity?

[Vandelay]

Fear of failure?

More or less. I pride myself on being able to be a thinking, doing, logical human being yet throughout my life even at 34...I do a lot of boneheaded shyt uncharacteristic of someone my age and in my space in life.

In fact, boneheaded doesn't begin to describe it.

 

[⠀X ⠀]

My ness

My ability to speak clearly and effectively, especially in front of large groups.

 

[African_brehda]

Naaah breh, he was in a thread talking about watching a certain boxing match live in '74

 

[poppastoppa]

Reverting back to the person I worked hard to overcome.

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

My biggest...taking a human life.


In all the fights I've been in...all the hunts I've gone on...all the retribution I've doled out...I've never been able to seriously consider taking a human life.
Injure...yes.
Cripple...yes.
Maim....yes.
Trophy...yes.
Kill...no.

Something about seeing or knowing that the breath of life has gone out of another person because of me...scares me to no end.

 

[Ashley Banks]

I don’t like my thighs. No matter how much weight I lose, it’s like they stay the same size.

 

[the cac mamba]

i wouldnt say no to another inch

 

[Ugo Ogugwa]

I was thinking we could make a thread about insecurities and see how really common most people's are and that you are not alone.

Everybody is uncomfortable with something about themselves and what better way to feel better than to share with stranger on the internet

Mine is that I have mild gynecomastia (medical speak for man boobs) it's not crazy but noticeable when I wear tighter shirts but pretty helpful to my health since it gives me reason to hit the gym and keep from making them larger.

Everyone gets them and They are supposed to go away in puberty but unfortunately some men keep them for some reason or another. Makes me hesitant to take my shirt off in public even though I'm in really good shape and normally no one comments on them

wbu guys?

I'm preparing for reading 50 posts about hairlines

Listen to Donald Sterling by UgoOgugwa #np on #SoundCloud

 

[TheDarkCloud]

Wish I was taller

 

[AyBrehHam Linkin]

I'mma cold, unemotional, introverted, rather be alone ass person under my funny exterior


tbh that's not an insecurity i love it


I guess it being hard for me to commit to someone, i can cut people off so easily n just be bored with them no matter how they treat a nikka.

 

[ManfromNYCest.1900s]

I would say my monstrous nose. Even though in my life I've had the baddest girls show me love it still bothers me. And the biggest one is my skin. I have oily skin in all weather conditions: hot, cold, humid, freezing etc. When it gets oily it looks like I have on makeup and for that reason people stare and scrunch up their face. Also I have skin discoloration.I spoke to a doctor that prescribed a cream and used it, it didn't work at first. He gave me a stronger dosage and it worked but I put it all on my face and not just the specific spots that was discolored. As a result it made my skin lighter but not on no Sammy Sosa/ Vybz Cartel type ish. I stop using the cream and my skin went back to the same tone it was when I was younger before it became discolored. Only thing is I took an ID picture for college and the picture on the computer looks crazy. I feel like professors/ staff mistreat me for it especially this last Spanish professor I had. I could have sworn he should the class the ID picture when I walked out but who know. He was super mean to me and mean only. Another thing I am insecure is when people just stare at me, crunch their face, single me out, and criminalize me for my appearance. People around me like friends notice it and it befuddles them like crazy. LOL

 

[AuntAnniesPretzels]

I have a lot but the one that will probably always be there is my lack of family life. I have no ultra dramatic stories. My family is just a collection of awkward, prickly and unlikable individuals who just don’t fukk with each other. I have a lot of resentment towards a lot of people so Mother’s Day, Father’s Day and all holidays are a real sore spot for me. Anytime someone brags about how close they are to their parents or family in general, it’s a real sore spot for me

I'mma cold, unemotional, introverted, rather be alone ass person under my funny exterior


tbh that's not an insecurity i love it


I guess it being hard for me to commit to someone, i can cut people off so easily n just be bored with them no matter how they treat a nikka.

Teach the rest of us how to be as cool as you

 

[Obreh Winfrey]

i wouldnt say no to another inch

Boy it's rough out there for #SmallMeatGang ain't it...


I'm pretty insecure about my weight. Been big for way too long and I get mad that I don't see instant results and eventually just say fukk it. I want to punch skinny people in the throat when they say they're getting fat . Like mfer you're a good shyt away from being anorexic, fukk is you talmbout ?

 

[AyBrehHam Linkin]

I have a lot but the one that will probably always be there is my lack of family life. I have no ultra dramatic stories. My family is just a collection of awkward, prickly and unlikable individuals who just don’t fukk with each other. I have a lot of resentment towards a lot of people so Mother’s Day, Father’s Day and all holidays are a real sore spot for me. Anytime someone brags about how close they are to their parents or family in general, it’s a real sore spot for me


Teach the rest of us how to be as cool as you

cant be taught, you either got it or you dont.

 

[the cac mamba]

I'm pretty insecure about my weight. Been big for way too long and I get mad that I don't see instant results and eventually just say fukk it. I want to punch skinny people in the throat when they say they're getting fat . Like mfer you're a good shyt away from being anorexic, fukk is you talmbout ?

seriously i know motherfukkers who couldnt gain weight if they tried , meanwhile my metabolism is pure garbage ive had 20 pounds i coulda lost for like 10 years