I thought this until some of those same people fronted on me when it was time to help me, then the sadness came, and I realized I ain't doing shyt unless the person truly wants help, and show they aren't selfish. Unfortunately I've learned that isn't too many people.
A lot say they want help or guidance, but very few will actually listen, and the ones who don't, cry when shyt goes wrong, then say they had no help. Then you get sad because by then you became invested in that person to do well, but they were bullshyting you the whole time
I'm not doing that shyt again. I've since learned happiness comes with me doing what's right. The issue is that makes a lot of enemies, a lot of people are foul, they just do it with a smile. So far it looks like just getting money, and spending it on what you like, while helping some people without giving your heart is what brings happiness and peace. If you think people will bring you happiness from helping them, just give it time, and watch how much stress they bring, fukk up all the happiness you worked for.
If you need help from them, that alone will make you have a change of heart. You saw what it did to Tupac after he got locked up!