What kind of parenting is this?

[Rawtid]

I was threatening the same way.

My said she would kill me in Jr high if I bring home another bad report card.


As an adult I wonder why since she had no plans on paying for my college education. So why did she care what grades I made in school.

Because you have zero other responsibilities. The least you can do is get good grades.

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

My comment had nothing to do with anything you said. If it did I would have tagged or quoted you. Calm down

I wasn't talking to you breh

I was using your comment as a reference to make a point to the other dude. I told him that my comment was in response to yours.

You got nothing to do with it. My bad if it wasn't clear.

 

[Low End Derrick]

disgustya

fellas, please be mindful of who you're nutting in

 

[Methodical]

The video is removed. Can anyone re-up?

 

[Rell Lauren]

The video is removed. Can anyone re-up?

They're pulling them quickly.

 

[Gold]

No video, negged

 

[Methodical]

They're pulling them quickly.

Is that really bad or what?

 

[Rell Lauren]

Is that really bad or what?

It's bad. She beat him as if he was a guy in the street. I couldn't watch it with the sound.

 

[True Blue Moon]

look at you trying to normalize and rationalize abuse cause you were humiliated publically, too. sigh.

lemme guess after you were hit and emotionally abused you were told they did it cause they love you huh?

this shyt is not ok. that child is fukking 5 years old. and she treating him like he’s nothing to her. if she can do this shyt in public with no shame, i can only imagine what she does in private.

she’s a trash mother. period.

The bolded is the main part. She took it waaay past simply enforcing a boundary.

If my wife oversteps a boundary of mine in the form of a typical relationship argument, people would say I’m overreacting if I spazzed the fukk out instead of just firmly saying that’s not cool and I won’t put up with it.

So why should we have some decorum with each other as adults, yet think it’s cool to spaz on a kid who is helpless and ignorant about the world?

 

[True Blue Moon]

Oh for sure big bro and me been around the block. He's on his second field trip. I've been overnight but never longer than that.

But I didn't start with the extra-curricular activities until I got my first Pell Grant. I was a lame musty football playing kid until I tore my hamstring in 11th grade and starting caring about my appearance in the 12th. I never took anything into mama's house besides the occasional bag of smoke.

My little sister and brother were raised completely in a middle class environment. My sister doesn't remember ever being poor and my little brother has never actually been poor. Mom and Pops will close in on 270k combined this year.

Little brother does have our temper though. But he didn't get hit ever really. That broke the Nature vs. Nurture argument for me. I used to think it was the neighborhood that made us rowdy but now I know we would have been rowdy anywhere.

But the rules are different. His idea of trouble is using a laser pointer to distract the teacher. Ours was busting the Principal's windshield out with a brick


Our consequences from ma mirrored the consequence from society. I got hit, he got a talking to





Lmao your soft ass wouldn't even be able to lift your hand to swing before you had a reverse nike check permanently imprinted across your forehead

Your mama prolly made you face the wall and stand still

And your soft ass prolly stood there too with that mad was face like

"Next time I'm gonna!....I'm gonna!...I'm gonna run away from home!!" ass nikka

I swear I’m not trying to derail the thread, but breh are you saying you suffered a career ending hamstring injury

 

[True Blue Moon]

this is toxic masculinity....

trying to discipline in a "masculine" nature when you don't understand the nuances

in turn... lil bro is learning this behavior and will display it when he gets older...

then they will say black men have violent tempers and toxic behavior

That too. She’s clearly trying to discipline him in a masculine way but doesn’t have the grounded energy to pull it off.

 

[True Blue Moon]

Found it on Twitter and it’s a longer version:

 

[True Blue Moon]

And she kept looking at the camera every few seconds

Man, fukk that. If you’re about your business you don’t need to prove to the world that you handle business.

 

[Lady.Libra.]

The kind the gets you residency at Shady Pines Nursing Home.

 

[reasonable_doubter]

The bolded is the main part. She took it waaay past simply enforcing a boundary.

If my wife oversteps a boundary of mine in the form of a typical relationship argument, people would say I’m overreacting if I spazzed the fukk out instead of just firmly saying that’s not cool and I won’t put up with it.

So why should we have some decorum with each other as adults, yet think it’s cool to spaz on a kid who is helpless and ignorant about the world?

stop beating around the bush breh..... most black mothers dont care for their sons (unless they're mixed) and we have every piece of data that proves it....

disgustya

fellas, please be mindful of who you're nutting in

so its the man's fault? are you kidding me