I get what you mean, but the way you state things isn't that of "I don't rock with it" but moreso "Ew, gay nikkas" like it is almost
a slight to you. No gay man is gonna talk about getting it up the ass , least not in jest, but only if he feels comfortable with the relationship like that.
You can't bring up the mannerisms and lifestyle choice and drugs in the same breath. The only choice they make are to follow what they
feel, same as we do. Just if you are gonna base your relationship on what kinda sex you can talk about, which is what your last message said, then
that is a small part of what a friendship is. Again, you don't have to like or even try to understand where they come from, but you definitely can't fault
someone for living who they feel they are, much less bring up drugs like it is on the same level.
I have, on the other hand, rejected friends for drugs, for thuggery, for bigotry, etc. Never in my wildest dreams did I say "I can't talk about women, so dead that."

I'm not coming at you, I respect your opinion. shyt just didn't sound very thought out. It's cool.