Edit to make it more clear.
Close friend from childhood that would come through with another friend to kick it and catch up everytime i came home.
He got robbed by his homies and i guess that messed with him mentally in some way that he would see everyone that was close to him as a enemy. so he would go off the grid for months and then come back like nothing happened. Last year the other friend of mine got married ,invited both of us but i couldnt make it because of a tdy. I get a call the night of the wedding from him talking about “i just want to die” i tried to get him to explain what happened and he being doggy , just repeats himself over and over and eventually hangs up.
I call our homie whos getting married and basically after the ceremony was over he started a scene at the table with my homies dad after the dad complimented him and he took it the wrong way. After that i reach out to homie and he wouldnt respond, went off the grid the beginning of the year. Came back and said he was good so okay cool, i just text him and check on him to make sure he straight . He said he got a job at the post office and i thought he’d be alright from there but it happened again.
I showed nothing but kindness and concern to him and his issues. Text me outta nowhere 2 weeks ago saying he wants to fight me and our other friend . I cant do it anymore. I cant help if you dont want to help yourself.