What made you cut off a close friend?

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I KEPT LOOKING AT THE FIRST SENTENCE, THE USERNAME, THEN THE LAST SENTENCE OVER AND OVER. SO CONFUSED.
 

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Jealousy. He’d always be making little slick comments everytime I accomplished something or pulled a chick under the guise of it being “just jokes”. All this while he was still living with his parents and struggling to find steady work.

I cut him off in 2010 and haven’t heard from him since. :manny:
 

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We were best friends for more than half our lives. When his mom passed away I sold some stuff just to help pay for her funeral. That’s how much I loved him, no @Pazzy. We worked together and I left to start my own business. Towards my last few days he tap danced for the boss acting like I was bugging when I said bro get out before these nikkas sell off. I was management and knew they were getting offers to be bought out and they were getting older but in his eyes I was a traitor to the company and didn’t want him to get promoted too. Long story short, I come to find out he was making jokes when I wasn’t around about me failing and going back to my old job. How I couldn’t make it work. It broke my heart but I never spoke with him again. Didn’t confront him because what was the purpose. I couldn’t be friends with someone who felt that way about me and what I was trying to create. He called me once and told me he had a kid but I basically didn’t say anything other than congrats and god bless the baby. Don’t wish him nothing bad but he can’t be around me.

Ps. I could have fukked 2 of his ex girls throughout our friendship but I ran and told him when they came on to me. He was my brother.
Did you notice any red flags with this guy
 

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Bad energy. Breh always had something random to complain about ranging from somewhat understandable to incredibly annoying. One day we was at work and the nikka threw a silent fit Kuz of sarcasm. I asked him to grab my soda out the fridge and said which one? I said the only soda in there, kuz it was the only soda in there. He go "man see..." And kept to himself the rest of the night like a broad

Then one day we were setting up a kickback and i was talking shyt pokin fun at everybody and this the only nikka that got in his feelings. They was telling bro to chill and in response he ended up saying something along the lines of "naw Kuz y'all know how he(me) is," which I later on realized he been talking bad about me whenever they linked up in my absence. I still gave no shyt and pulled up to the kickback.

The killer part is the nikka was still in his feels to the point he sat outside the whole time on the phone with his girl while we was inside drinking smoking eating and freestyling, then left to go see her without informing anyone including the person he brought with him. Had to take fam home but he only stayed a street over so no big deal.

That was the most bytchassness I've ever seen in my life. Didn't fukk with him for a couple years after that but all that died down to just a mutual respect
 

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Did you notice any red flags with this guy
Man only towards the end. We used to be close growing up. Talking about we put our money together just to be able to buy a sandwich type shyt. At the end is when I saw him throwing subs but I ain’t think much of it till two people that didn’t even know eachother told me he was talking all that.
 
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My ride or die potna who I traveled all over the country and out of the country with, dude just couldn’t stop smoking weed. That became his entire existence. We couldn’t make a move without this dude either having to smoke 1st or get smoke soon as we arrived. shyt got annoying. I remember once we was about to handle some biz and needed to get in a vip entrance and dude was like I gotta smoke before I go inside, we walk around the corner so he could blaze and by the time we got back shyt was locked up. Couldn’t get in the spot. That was one of the nails in the coffin.

Wish him the best but we was on 2 different paths.
 

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Dudes wedding. We were like twin brothers knew him back in NJ. I use to always save him from some shyt in local neighborhood.My pops warned me about him. I graduate from college 2013 dude gets quiet on me. His fam congratulating me etc. Hes nowhere to be found. 2 weeks later dude calls me up telling me hes married etc and im like :patrice: I go on social media and I see his wedding on some lavish shyt .Im like :wtf: Homie lives in VA im here in SC so not like I couldnt make it there. Some reason we patch it up,im still in shocked for years but I aint sweat it. Fast forward 2020 pandemic somehow someway we beefing. I had to remind this cat of how I had to save him from shyt etc. Then i ask him why aint you invite me and fam to the wedding he says "I figure you aint want to come".His aunt keeps trying to get us back as friends but its done. He still hanging with wrong crowd to this day. It is what it is :manny:
 

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One former friend from doing snake shyt. He messaged me a couple years later with a non-apology about him having a drug problem back then and how he was sober now and a changed man and this other bullshyt. Never responded :camby:

Couple other people I was cool with but when I talked to them I could tell they really weren't interested in what I had to say or having an actual conversation. They just wanna use you as a soundboard so they can spew a never-ending monologue at you. I dead people like that with the quickness.
 

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1. Attempts to devalue my accomplishments in life.

2. Insistence on positioning me as someone who should not be respected.

3. Perpetuating a narrative that I or my family has not worked hard in life.

4. Refusing to change course in your life towards productivity.

I'm not someone who has their degrees or awards up in their office or their home but don't get it twisted and try to devalue me to others or think that because I shrug my shoulder to some slights, that I will shrug my shoulders indefinitely.

I'd rather you not speak on me at all.

And as far as number 4....right around my late 20's I took a step back and stopped kicking it with A LOT of cats that I realized had the same opportunities I had in life, some of them the same or even better circumstances, and them same cats REFUSED to get their lives together.

I hear about them secondhand from others now. They still in the same spot.
 

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One was my neighbor, we were close friends for years, but in essence he was selfish and egotistic. The straw that broke the camels back was when he moved and didn't even tell me.

The second was my best friend for years, but he started hanging with some sheisty people and impressing them became more important to him then his old friends. At some point, he stopped speaking to me because I contradicted him in front of his new girlfriend. After a week he came back around and wanted to hang, but I just shrugged and closed the door.

The third was notorious for disappearing for years every time he had a new girlfriend. And he always picked the worst woman he could find :snoop: after he broke up with his last girlfriend (she cheated :francis:) I told him he was a bytch and if he did that shyt again, I would stop fukking with him. A couple of month later, he found a new girl and disappeared again :yeshrug: when he hit me up four years later, I send him this
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