What made you cut off a close friend?

Pazzy

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Ive never cut anybody off. Just being real. Im autistic. :yeshrug: im not hard to find either. Many people misunderstand shyt anyway. They think that youre beefing with them because youre not talking or messaging them everyday as if they cant do that themselves with me. I got family members who i dont even talk to regularly like once in a blue moon as in once or twice a year and we're still good. People got huge egos and shyt at the end of the day where they want you to be the one to initate or be the first one to check in or check up.

Nothing stopping anybody from being active in my life. My apologies if ive isolated everyone with my loner attitude. Im too used to being alone where being around others make me nervous
 
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My other boy i knew since kindergarten, he was always a bigger kid, taller, more body mass. He wasn't fat just a big kid, like 99th% size wise for kids our age. Anyway i was always the more popular out of me and him but he was always plugged in, where i went he went people that were cool to me were cool to him. I played football, basketball for school and he did too. I even had to check a couple fools cause they'd try to go at him "that big mf" "look at his head" and id be like "nah that's the homie" and they'd be cool with him.

Around 10th grade fool quit sports, stopped showing up for school. Id even go to his house before school like "let's go". That worked a couple times, then it didn't. Told this fool to go to night school and even offered to do the work for him since all they did was give you all the assignments and the book, no tests nothing. He's like "nah, i gotta do this on my own".

Senior year graduation comes. He's going to our boys graduation at a different school but won't come to mine. "im supposed to be up there with you...." And i understood that. And im like "man....what the fukk happened?" And no lie he goes "YOU LEFT ME!!!!" "You were all cool and shyt, playing sports, and working, doing shyt after school (extra curriculars), girls and shyt you just left me behind!"

"How'd i leave you behind when I came to get your ass before school when I went to school? How'd i leave you behind when I told you to go to night school and get the packets so I could do the work and all you had to do was turn them shyts in and pass/graduate with a fukking D average? How did i leave you behind??"

He ain't have nothin to say.

We linked up years later and he's telling me "i always knew you'd make it...." fukk outta here.

Sounds like depression or something like that
 

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TL;DR : Racist CAC I used to hang with shown his true self and I had to cut him off for him being weird.

Had a white dude I used to hang with. Haven't seen him since high school, but I was also hanging with another high school friend and he was also hanging with him. He was :mjpls: at first and he'll talk some shyt, but Id call it out on him. We'd still talked about life and he seem like a chill dude, then he brings up his issues with his girlfriend at that time. Dude was OBSESSED with her. Reminds me when we talked in high school about this girl who he had lost his V-Card to just up and leaved him. He said she left for no reason.
Now with this girl, he'd talk shyt about her sometimes but always act like he was the best thing that came in her life and her family was trying to destroy it. We'd hang out alot of times when Im done work and we'll just drive around. He'd open up about his issues and I opened up my issues because I want to relate to what he's going through.
I figured that since we both have our issues we can learn from each other and take steps to help ourselves. He was cool at first, but then he'd talk shyt about my issues and say Im making excuses. He change the conversation just to talk about his girlfriend again. Months went by, they broke up. He's still saying the parents were manipulating her to break up with her.
He had a real fukked up relationship: She cheated on him with a drug dealer. He claimed that he'll let her fukk another man as long as she'll get it out of her system and marry him. He also begged her to separate from her family and live 100+ miles away from them. She said no and dude wanted some make up sex, now she's charging dude for Sexual Assault charges. He's been in and out of jail and been paying for lawyers and he wanted use me as an alibi because he's also suspected of stalking her after breaking up and she got a restraining order.
To end this story, one day we're just talking on the phone. He was being more weird because he kept saying random girls names out of no where. Dude was talking shyt to me again, so I joked about him having an a PTSD girlfriend named Amanda. Amanda was a name HE randomly brought up, not his Ex. He still believes I was talking bad about his issues. I wasn't and I was trying to say I was joking about something else. We kept fighting on the phone until we just gave up talking to each other. He wasn't going to change or understand where I was coming from. Dude was a racist and a manipulator. If he he did raped her, I hope he's under the jail.
 

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Had a best friend i knew since we were in diapers. We were born a month apart, and our parents were friends and lived close by each other. We been through all types of shyt. But as we got older he got way to into doing coke. I knew a fe oother people that did that shyt, i didnt fukk with it but it didnt bother me cause they only did it on occasion, but my boy needed to do it everyday. Tried to get him outta it, but there was no reasoning with him.

Had to cut him off. Didnt want nothing to do with it. Throught years later he start getting into more hardcore drugs , and a decade or so later, he died.not sure if it was a OD or something cut with fetinol.
 

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Sounds like depression or something like that
shyt i dont even know. I had to move a few times from elementary to high school. This fool lived in one house with both of his biological parent since birth. He's an only child. They didn't spoil him, but the didn't neglect him and he wasn't abused or nothing like that. Moms always cooked dinner and worked 40hrs. Dad was a vet on disability. Something was wrong because when he just decided to not go to school they didn't force him.

My parents would whooped my ass and dropped me off and picked me up daily if I tried that. They wouldn't have kicked me out, but they wouldn't have just let me not go to school. A few times I went over there i heard them talking to him and even i was like "I'm doing what I can".

I don't understand it at all. Everyone else pretty much moved once or twice if not more. Some of our friends only had one parent in the picture or 2 that weren't together. This fool had Sega when Sega was hot, had Sega channel too. Had ps1, ps2, N64. His dad bought an old 60s mustang and occasionally they'd work on it, his dad eventually got it working by himself. Ended up selling it cause he didn't graduate. If he was depressed i don't know about what, but that's life. You can seemingly have it all and be depressed.
 

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Most of my close friends are either still in the street or tried to hang on to those good nights of Perk popping too long and ended up with a H addiction. Really sad when I think about it.

I miss our wild days but as you get older you have to put down childish things
 

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He was a bully to his parents, wife and family members, and I saw elements of myself in him.
 

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When we would talk about things anytime I spoke about something I was having an issue with it seemed to me that she would revel in it......really perk up and make slick comments like it gave her joy that I was suffering........I was really taken aback because I was already doing her dumb ass a favor by not ghosting. I could have let it slide if she hadn't ruined her life with bad decisions and was continuing to do so........she really spazzed on me because I chastised her for even contemplating having another baby by a nikka she wasn't married to.........of course he gone agree to bust raw in you, its consequence free for him.........
 
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