What made you cut off a close friend?

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Money…he had no issue with me spending mine on him when we went out because he never had any but when he did have some money he wouldn’t reciprocate. Last straw was me having to pay for one of HIS potnas to get in the club one night. I was like “your boy don’t have $20 to get on the club and wants me to pay? Nah man I’m good.
 

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They were too emotional and mean to other people

I was a bad communicator and had too much ego too, so part of it falls on me
 

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Boy, y'all been THROUGH it!

Always been a Dolo introvert my whole life, so i ain't got them problems. Plus, I got hella brothers and cousins...

:yeshrug:
 

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Dude that is Kramer + George in one person.
My friends and I have known him for 20+ years. We've all grown up and he's still a retarded manchild, so I, personally, cut him off.

1) Lives with his mom at 35. Worked about 5-6 months since 2010.
2) Asks for a ride, never gives a ride (when he has a date, he "suddenly" has one)
3) Cheapskate, never pays for anything or the absolute minimum (when he has a date, he "suddenly" has money)
4) Bad hygiene: Crusty teeth, body odor you can smell from miles away, dandruff, sneezes into his hand.
5) Chews like sawmill, eats people's leftovers without asking them.
6) Never Hosts a meet, yet will always criticize the food.
7) Demands people give him access to games they're not using anymore
8) Always late by more than an hour.
9) Talks over people constantly, can't stop yammering, uses filler words non-fukking-stop.
10 ) Never buys anyone a birthday present, even if they got him ones multiple times.
11) Will bring a girl he met a week ago to a meeting and force us to get to know her, then lose her a week later. Once a month at least.

He's retarded/ severly ill I guess. I don't know why my friends still run with him.
 

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Writing a nikka rhymes and running his studio wasn’t enough… on top of my own life problems. I was giving my talents energy and ability on making another nikka dream come true while I was not progressing on my own in any aspect. Been a year and now I feel so free and so much more motivated to create
 

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It is why I can say that I don't have "close friends"; plenty of associates, colleagues, coworkers to which I have healthy relationships with tho.

Besides my 4th grade best friend/brother who both our mothers took care of each other, this is facts even for him. We don’t have anyone to say that’s our man’s man’s cause he’s dead.
 

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I've told this story before. But my homie that's like my brother, I was there the day before--- (was supposed to stay the night, but didn't for some unknown reason, i just didn't feel like staying the night and because of that his mom and stepdad dad went to the bars-- it was summer so when id stay the night we'd eat pizza or Chinese, wings, and watch movies, play video games and board games and swim all night long til like 6am, all of us, his mom, stepdad, lil brother and lil sisters) --his mom died, the day of and the day after.

He was there for me the day my mom died the days after and forever.

Anyway, we were roommates but we were both getting our separate places because we both had money and we were in our young 20s. This dude started dating this broad we knew from middle school. Long story short with her she got molested, moved away, came back years later, was a stripper, did coke and ate pills, 2 kids by two different dad's in different states and had no custody.

Anyway one night i come home my boy is drunk sitting on the kitchen floor back against the dishwasher and she's standing over him berating him "you're a piece of shyt! Your worthless, you'll never be anything" yadda yadda yadda.

I was about to beat her ass off rip but I just told her to get the fukk out. Next morning I tell him "i don't know what's going on but whatever it is it ain't cool and ain't right, no one in the world gets to talk to someone else like that especially her."
He's like "damn, it was that bad?" I was telling him he needs to respect himself. He was like "ok, alright, ok"

A week later look who's coming out of his room?
I bounced and he bounced, they moved in together. And we didn't talk after we gave the keys back. And i told everyone if he's going to allow that shyt to happen I'm not going to sit there and witness it, cause it ain't right.

They got married and have 2 if not 3 kids. Ones probably 10? I've never talked to my boy or seen him since.

I wish him well though.
 

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My other boy i knew since kindergarten, he was always a bigger kid, taller, more body mass. He wasn't fat just a big kid, like 99th% size wise for kids our age. Anyway i was always the more popular out of me and him but he was always plugged in, where i went he went people that were cool to me were cool to him. I played football, basketball for school and he did too. I even had to check a couple fools cause they'd try to go at him "that big mf" "look at his head" and id be like "nah that's the homie" and they'd be cool with him.

Around 10th grade fool quit sports, stopped showing up for school. Id even go to his house before school like "let's go". That worked a couple times, then it didn't. Told this fool to go to night school and even offered to do the work for him since all they did was give you all the assignments and the book, no tests nothing. He's like "nah, i gotta do this on my own".

Senior year graduation comes. He's going to our boys graduation at a different school but won't come to mine. "im supposed to be up there with you...." And i understood that. And im like "man....what the fukk happened?" And no lie he goes "YOU LEFT ME!!!!" "You were all cool and shyt, playing sports, and working, doing shyt after school (extra curriculars), girls and shyt you just left me behind!"

"How'd i leave you behind when I came to get your ass before school when I went to school? How'd i leave you behind when I told you to go to night school and get the packets so I could do the work and all you had to do was turn them shyts in and pass/graduate with a fukking D average? How did i leave you behind??"

He ain't have nothin to say.

We linked up years later and he's telling me "i always knew you'd make it...." fukk outta here.
 
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