To me:
Being a challenge (every chick couldn't have him. He wouldn't be on a forum like this saying he'd smash every chick posted, that's for one. )
Isn't an obvious womanizer (doesn't look at every other chick's ass or look them up and down, has some sort of control..not a simp for every pretty chick that he is around but has a genuine good heart toward everyone..but doesn't become a push over or easy target)
Mellow demeanor but not cowardly (I hate scary men). He can control rage/his temper.
Insightful.
A leader.
Funny.
Strong hands.
Nice lips/smile/mouth
Ambitious (if he doesn't have money, he has goals. not comfortable being stagnant. Not a shouldve wouldve couldve nikka. Has big dreams but will never try to go for them.)
Not manipulative/a user/leech.
Hygiene on point (smells good, takes showers because he wants to)
Nasty/kinky
Open minded
^ if he's not afraid to be a little strange/out of the box too.
Loyal/ trust worthy
Doesn't hang around a lot of guys, especially all the time.
Mysterious to most people (not easily accessible or exploiting all his past sexual escapades for validation)