What makes a man attractive to women?

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To me:

Being a challenge (every chick couldn't have him. He wouldn't be on a forum like this saying he'd smash every chick posted, that's for one. )
Isn't an obvious womanizer (doesn't look at every other chick's ass or look them up and down, has some sort of control..not a simp for every pretty chick that he is around but has a genuine good heart toward everyone..but doesn't become a push over or easy target)
Mellow demeanor but not cowardly (I hate scary men). He can control rage/his temper.
Insightful.
A leader.
Funny.
Strong hands.
Nice lips/smile/mouth
Ambitious (if he doesn't have money, he has goals. not comfortable being stagnant. Not a shouldve wouldve couldve nikka. Has big dreams but will never try to go for them.)
Not manipulative/a user/leech.
Hygiene on point (smells good, takes showers because he wants to)
Nasty/kinky
Open minded
^ if he's not afraid to be a little strange/out of the box too.
Loyal/ trust worthy
Doesn't hang around a lot of guys, especially all the time.
Mysterious to most people (not easily accessible or exploiting all his past sexual escapades for validation)
 
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I don't know.. The guy I'm seeing is funny, cute, sweet and considerate, supportive of me and my goals and understanding, doesn't make me feel like a sexual object, shows vulnerability and is himself. doesn't hide his issues. He's honest about his feelings and what's currently going on in his life. Hes not perfect and has issues such as really bad anxiety, insecurity and struggles with depression as I do and that's completely fine with me as we are both are understanding about that on the giving and receiving end of that. We uplift and support eachother. Even when both of us are struggling. Seeing someone with mental illness even though you have it yourself is s really humbling yet rewarding thing and experience and it challenges me to be humble and think outself my self and care about someone other than myself instead of wah me all the time. I like that as a lot as I can be a self centered person at time. Men who make you want to be your best possible self without not making you feel good enough is attractive.

Sorry if that isn't exactly a list but those are some things I like about a man in seeing I find attractive so whatever

Now what exactly are you contributing to make him stick around, having just a pretty face can only go so far :comeon:
 

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I think people need to be more honest with each other & what they're about. Even if you don't agree on certain things at least the respect will more than likely be there. For myself I'm an even level guy that's pretty up front & I just try to be myself. That approach has pretty much worked for me & females usually respect that.


No such thing as honesty, its "don't ask, don't tell" used these days.
 

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be clean...smell nice...talk less than the woman...women have been allowed this notion that men are there to "entertain" them

also understand that women are fickle....remain a gentleman but be prepared to cut the interaction short if it feels stiff
 

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be clean...smell nice...talk less than the woman...women have been allowed this notion that men are there to "entertain" them

also understand that women are fickle....remain a gentleman but be prepared to cut the interaction short if it feels stiff
 

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I don't know.. The guy I'm seeing is funny, cute, sweet and considerate, supportive of me and my goals and understanding, doesn't make me feel like a sexual object, shows vulnerability and is himself. doesn't hide his issues. He's honest about his feelings and what's currently going on in his life. Hes not perfect and has issues such as really bad anxiety, insecurity and struggles with depression as I do and that's completely fine with me as we are both are understanding about that on the giving and receiving end of that. We uplift and support eachother. Even when both of us are struggling. Seeing someone with mental illness even though you have it yourself is s really humbling yet rewarding thing and experience and it challenges me to be humble and think outself my self and care about someone other than myself instead of wah me all the time. I like that as a lot as I can be a self centered person at time. Men who make you want to be your best possible self without not making you feel good enough is attractive.

Sorry if that isn't exactly a list but those are some things I like about a man in seeing I find attractive so whatever
other words, hes a simp and a beta
 

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It's in the way he carries himself. The men I'm usually attracted to are geeky, modest, funny and aren't overly concerned with how they look. After that I try to see he has good character.
 

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Yeah he's a simp for wanting to be with someone who's understanding, loyal and caring. Some of y'all are some real losers
:mjlol: 2 depressed people....go make some sad babies together .......
 

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Sorry...didn't feel like watching the video but the way a man carries himself is everything.

If he carries his self with style, charisma, he's clean, well groomed, and cares about how he presents himself to the world then chances are everything else is on point too.

I hear this a lot.. Sometimes I throw out the "Why me?" and get

"Just the way you carry yourself. :noah:
 
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