What´s Your Biggest Regret?

[CinnamonTequila]

Not telling my parents that our neighbor was threatening me and my sisters. I think my sister would still be alive if I said something.

This thread has taken a disheartening turn.

I know right??

 

[SemiEnlightenedBum]

nothing,yet everything..

 

[Mac Brown]

1. My aunt was dying of lung cancer. We live in the same city. I could skate to her house. My mom told me to go see her ASAP. I blew her off to make money. I wasn't busy. She died within hours of my mom calling me. I would have been the last person she saw before she died and she wouldn't have died alone.


2. My big brother bullied me all of my life. I grew up avoiding him. I was never home. I never tried to develop a relationship with him because he was so mean to me. Recently he was diagnosed with schizophrenia, depression, and admitted to being sexually abused as a child. His therapists told me he talks about how much he admires me.

3. The love of my life told me she was pregnant. She told me she'd only have kids for me because I want kids. When she told me I didn't speak, walked out of the room, and started drinking. I'm pretty sure I broke her heart in that moment. I told her I'd never hurt her. She miscarried and developed a drinking problem after that. We're not together anymore. I hated her for a year. I now see everything I did wrong. Wow! I fukked that up. And I'll never have a love like that again.

This is too much for me

 

[CinnaSlim]

Why the only black guy in NYC had to be picking up garbage with no teeth?

Isn't the point to get over your biggest regret? To have a clean slate?

I have no regrets because all my decisions led me to where I am today. I wouldn't be as close to my parents or as wise if I didn't make those mistakes. I made them because I thought it was the best decision at the time. Now I am better for it.

 

[CinnamonTequila]

Why the only black guy in NYC had to be picking up garbage with no teeth?

Isn't the point to get over your biggest regret? To have a clean slate?

I have no regrets because all my decisions led me to where I am today. I wouldn't be as close to my parents or as wise if I didn't make those mistakes. I made them because I thought it was the best decision at the time. Now I am better for it.

I gave you my first rep miss... I agree with you... As long as we learn from it and keep moving foward.

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

Man! You just made me feel bad about crying over my silly school situation...
I hope things get better...

Thanks, I hope everything works for you. School is transformative. Hang in there.

Fukk, breh.

We going to be alright.

Not telling my parents that our neighbor was threatening me and my sisters. I think my sister would still be alive if I said something.

Don't blame yourself. Guilt and depression can take you to some very dark places. Sometimes coming back is difficult. My heart goes out to you.

This is too much for me

We going to be alright fam. My mom tells me times are tough, but we're tougher. I just got a new job I wanted for years. I'm getting back in school. And girls like me because I got those sad eyes and I'm emotionally detached. Everything has an upside.

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

Loving her..
Moving back home but the circumstances and the outcome would have been worst if I chose to stay in the bay.
I'll make it back one day..

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

Loving her..
Moving back home but the circumstances and the outcome would have been worst if I chose to stay in the bay.
I'll make it back one day..

Bay Area girls are heart breakers. Everybody in The Bay has game. Sean Carter said it best, "ladies is pimps too...." Everytime I leave The Bay I long to come home and eat some hella good food truck dishes. 21st in Richmond has the best steak super burrito in the world. If you order in Spanish or roll through with a Latina with cakes, they'll hook it up. Hahaha, ask me how I know? Yeee!

 

[Mr. Negative]

being a "good" person and saving folks from drowning when they shoulda been swimming with the sharks like I was.

Nw what's left of me is at the bottom of the ocean and they're on dry land talking bout "He coulda been somebody "

 

[Shadow King]

I got a couple actually

Not applying myself to the Science & Math based curriculum in high school. Not that I was interested in those fields but I'd be in a totally different place had I gone to a 4 year college off the rip.

Not living with my father during high school.

Finding a talent (rap) and not having anywhere near the social ability to actually succeed as a rapper.

Staying in a rut summer before senior year therefore delaying my deflowering.

High school was extra shytty

 

[Rue]

Not living my life to the fullest, not taking risks.
Not spending more time with my friends before they died, having to rock up to their houses for their funeral

 

[Trapperman Dave]

I use to like a girl in high school. We use to argue all the time against each other ( in a competitive way). I'm not sure if a girl argues with you it means she likes you. Everybody said you guys were going to get married, but I never told her how I felt. I didn't know if she liked me or not, So I never told her. I ended up going to St John's and she left for Howard University. I really do miss her sometimes.

Yea she liked you breh, i got a similar situation if only i took the chance

 

[Trapperman Dave]

Man i really regret everything about me and don't really care about anything anymore

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

Not living my life to the fullest, not taking risks.
Not spending more time with my friends before they died, having to rock up to their houses for their funeral

It's never too late. It's scary to go after something that society has indoctrinated us to believe is impractical. Especially if you're over the age of 22. I know people who spend hundreds of thousands of dollars and a good decade building a safety net. Then they want to chase their dreams at 45 and it's difficult. The sooner you dive in the sooner you'll know whether you can swim. I'm 26 I almost gave up on my dreams. I'm glad I said YOLO (you only love once) and took that pay cut. I felt like I was living someone else's life. I think your friends could be motivation. Live for them. They deserve to see you win. If you're happy they're happy.

 

[Terrance Curtis Beasley]

Nothing fukk dat shyt