What´s Your Biggest Regret?

[DrBanneker]

No she doesn't and I looked her up. I think it's too late now. It's been 10 years. She's 26 I'm 27.

I HIGHLY doubt it is too late and if my experience is any guide, she would be thrilled to hear form you. Screw FB, look on LinkedIn for her name with an education at Howard. If she doesn't have kids she may be a single Black professional like lots of eligible sisters out there...dude you have NOTHING to lose by asking.

 

[Mastamimd]

Isolation with my own thoughts for too long and watching porn ever in my life. Tried to quit but as I'm trying I've seen some of the most dark and graphic shut I've ever seen in my life. Never thought I'd be this week of a human being. A mind reversal has happened to me and its the most fukked up thing a man can go through. I don't even know who the fukk I am anymore.

 

[CinnamonTequila]

Not doing more in high school & trying harder. Looking back, I should have been a cheerleader or something. I'm loud enough to be one, lol. I should have also retaken the ACT. Who knows where I would be had I done so. But such is life, I have to love the choices I made and build my future from what I've done. Maybe next lifetime I can do those things.

We all did/didn´t do stuff in highschool that now we wish we did different... I think this is a great attitude! Learn from our past and use it to make a better future! Hope everything turns out great!!

dont want to talk about it

It´s ok... As long as you learn from it and or try to make it up! Good luck!

 

[CinnamonTequila]

Isolation with my own thoughts for too long and watching porn ever in my life. Tried to quit but as I'm trying I've seen some of the most dark and graphic shut I've ever seen in my life. Never thought I'd be this week of a human being. A mind reversal has happened to me and its the most fukked up thing a man can go through. I don't even know who the fukk I am anymore.

I read once that admitting to ourselves that we have a problem is the first step on the process of fixing it... If you don´t feel good with something and can´t control it, get help... There´s nothing wrong with that.

 

[CinnamonTequila]

I HIGHLY doubt it is too late and if my experience is any guide, she would be thrilled to hear form you. Screw FB, look on LinkedIn for her name with an education at Howard. If she doesn't have kids she may be a single Black professional like lots of eligible sisters out there...dude you have NOTHING to lose by asking.

I am sooo happy to see that everybody is giving ideas and support!!! I was afraid at first that some people might change the thread into the same shyt that they have going on in most of the forums... Soo happy that a lot of you are really giving support to your brehs!

 

[KravenMorehead™]

Yeah

my condolences...

 

[Flykid567]

Honestly I'm 18 and I would do it ish differently. I graduated high school got my EMT and accomplished a lot but my biggest regret is not leaving basketball alone my senior year. That junk fd up my knees and gave me tendonitis that I'm desperatly now tryna get rid of

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

1. Not going into engineering.
2. Not taking college as serious as I should've.
3. Not pledging in college.

I think about this a lot too. I always wondered should I have pledged in college? Slight regret of mine too.

 

[Monte Cristo]

Spending so much time on the internet the last three or four years.

I've been isolated from interacting with others for a few years now. Coming online and seeing how racist/hateful a lot of people truly are behind closed doors has made me more jaded, paranoid and potentially schizophrenic than I should be. I might go crazy one day. I plan on severely limiting my internet intake starting this year though.

 

[CinnamonTequila]

Spending so much time on the internet the last three or four years.

I've been isolated from interacting with others for a few years now. Coming online and seeing how racist/hateful a lot of people truly are behind closed doors has made me more jaded, paranoid and potentially schizophrenic than I should be. I might go crazy one day. I plan on severely limiting my internet intake starting this year though.

Don´t let that happen Lol... People is not really that bad... Give it a shot and reduce your hours in front of the computer!

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

Yea she liked you breh, i got a similar situation if only i took the chance

That's what I wanted to believe, but I wasn't sure, so if a girl argues with you consistently she likes you doesn't she? I was always socially awkward so this was new to me.

 

[BeeCityRoller]

Not calling my grandma enough when she was still alive
Never breaking out of my shell in High School
Not reaching out to my youngest sister more often. Now she has her own issues that I can't really help her with

 

[Trapperman Dave]

That's what I wanted to believe, but I wasn't sure, so if a girl argues with you consistently she likes you doesn't she? I was always socially awkward so this was new to me.

Yea more times than not if a girl doesn't like you she'd have a bad attitude toward you, from your description it seems more playful stuff

 

[Trapperman Dave]

Spending so much time on the internet the last three or four years.

I've been isolated from interacting with others for a few years now. Coming online and seeing how racist/hateful a lot of people truly are behind closed doors has made me more jaded, paranoid and potentially schizophrenic than I should be. I might go crazy one day. I plan on severely limiting my internet intake starting this year though.

The coli needs you breh

 

[TheDarkskinnedDrake]

My biggest regret is staying in the military I could've got out and been somewhere getting family time. I don't let my wife know but leaving her and my little girl all the time kills me sure I love been able to provide for them but it gets hard at times.