What should men who have 1 or no girlfriend through their 20s do when women

[dora_da_destroyer]

um.....how can I word this.

Will basically have a gutteral, raw attraction to a man if she believes he has several women. Say you have man A & man B, both equally attractive, same money, everything. Man A has a reputation and man B is seemingly not attached to anyone. Don't say its not true because ANY man who's lived long enough will tell you it is. (also I know its not all women, but it is a majority)


I may have worded this wrong (I'm kinda busy at the moment)

sounds like some tv stereotype. i'm not gonna be more attracted to a dude who has a "rep" or several women...

in regards to this thread, well yea, not having had at least one real relationship by your late 20's is on the verge of questionable IMO outside of certain extenuating circumstances. wanting someone to have had experience in a RELATIONSHIP is not the same as wanting a man who has slayed/dated/strung along multiple women.

 

[kenreid0726eabos]

Ask you questions on what was your longest relationship was & when the last time you have sex.

I know some people who was unable to date not because of their looks but the women they liked didn't want them

(This not me im talking about, just a thought
that popped in my head)

Lust is my hindrance in my life women are beautiful human beings in life I am a 22 almost 23 year old virgin yes

 

[Jay Kast]

Do NOT lie. Always tell the truth or do not give an answer. Lying says something about your character and if you're okay with lying- how can you reasonably expect someone else to be honest with you?

If she ask you if you've been in a relationship and you never have?

"It ain't easy finding someone with a good head on their shoulders - I guess it takes someone very special for me to take it that far"

*cue eye contact and quick smile*

Sex partners?

"I've learned that a man that talks or brags about his former lovers or exes ain't the type of man that's worth the attention. If we ever reach that point, and I hope we do *laugh*, at least you know I'll never be the one you gotta worry about"

Easy.

You told the truth- and avoided the question.

 

[Nymbus]

The truth ,trying to impress others hasn't gotten me nothing...but then they think I'm lying

 

[4-Rin]

Do NOT lie. Always tell the truth or do not give an answer. Lying says something about your character and if you're okay with lying- how can you reasonably expect someone else to be honest with you?

If she ask you if you've been in a relationship and you never have?

"It ain't easy finding someone with a good head on their shoulders - I guess it takes someone very special for me to take it that far"

*cue eye contact and quick smile*

Sex partners?

"I've learned that a man that talks or brags about his former lovers or exes ain't the type of man that's worth the attention. If we ever reach that point, and I hope we do *laugh*, at least you know I'll never be the one you gotta worry about"

Easy.

You told the truth- and avoided the question.

This breh gets it

 

[Weaver31]

I don't think u should lie....but women an people will wonder whats up with u if u don't have a girl or wife by a certain age. It just don't come off as normal.

 

[Weaver31]

I don't think u should lie....but women an people will wonder whats up with u if u don't have a girl or wife by a certain age. It just don't come off as normal.

 

[7th Letter Specialist]

Just tell the truth. Worst thing you can do is lie on your dink. If Ol gurl ain't feelin it, then KIM

 

[MikeyC]

Ask you questions on what was your longest relationship was & when the last time you have sex.

I know some people who was unable to date not because of their looks but the women they liked didn't want them

(This not me im talking about, just a thought
that popped in my head)

:suuure:

 

[mr. smoke weed]

Ask you questions on what was your longest relationship was & when the last time you have sex.

I know some people who was unable to date not because of their looks but the women they liked didn't want them

(This not me im talking about, just a thought
that popped in my head)

you lie what else would you do?!?!?! Are you a virgin?

 

[mr. smoke weed]

at this terrible advice y'all are giving.

If you're going to smooth talk a woman into sex, you need to have pretty good game or confidence or whatever. OP is clearly young or hasn't had sex before/in a very long time, he won't be able to smooth talk a woman. Especially with those questions.

 

[BrehWyatt]

Tell the truth.

 

[NSSVO]

I've had 3, ill tell her about 2, and only 1 ended peacefully

 

[LostInAdream]

Tell the truth. She’ll appreciate the honesty regarding the relationship history. Regarding the last time you had sex, I think that’s very personal. I would ask her to see what she says and so oh me too and laugh.

 

[HabitualChiller]

Lie, or she will start wondering why other women didnt want you, start thinking somethings wrong with you and get turned off.

It boils down to social proof. if your a virgin past a certain age lie about that too.

Should I lie at 19?