What some single black women don't understand about black men

[Taadow]

I care to a certain degree....I need a woman who is ambitious and about that paper

That's great, mayne...I like a woman who is 'bout something and is a down to hustle for hers, also.

What i'm saying is - I don't care how she get hers as long as she's getting it. Meaning:
when I met a lady, I don't a give a good gottdamn where she went to school, what degree(s) she got,
or what sorority she's in...and this is often the first info they give you after their names.
That's not the chit that makes me wanna check for her.

LOL so you'd want some high school drop out raising your kids? Parents out here struggling with their kid's elementary school homework and think the shyt is going to get easier. Say what you want but education matters when it comes to child rearing. I guess if you're just dating it doesn't matter much.

I don't want any kids, so most of your post is irrelevant to me.
Even still, High School Drop Outs are still out here gettin' their chit together, and are also fine.
Like I said above...I don't care how she gets hers, as long as she's getting it.

 

[Ashley Banks]

You're pretty much saying that men are attracted to superficial things and women should just accept it but then chastise women for ALSO being attracted to superficial things when looking at men and they should change that.

Why should women be chastised fo finding superficial things attractive (flash, looks, etc) but told to just accept the fact that men find superficial things attractive?

and they wonder why women won't listen to them. He literally said the first thing he was attracted to was his gf's looks and said that men only care about looks then told women not to do that.

 

[Taadow]

I think men want women that are educated they just don't want the woman to be proud of her education. They don't want her to ever talk about her hard work because then she's "bragging" and the only importance she has to them is sex, food, and cleaning so who cares if she's smart.

Juice nobody said "they don't ever want her to talk about her hard work" or "who cares if she's smart".
Your subconscious mind dreamed these as tributary ideas.

We absolutely care if a woman is smart, but if we're real we understand that "educated" and "smart" don't
mean the same thing.

 

[twhatever]

I don't see why ppl make such a big deal of some young women chasing after bad boys.
Young men do the same.Describe normal,non Insta model women as "boring" or even go after bad girls as well.That's a young ppl thing.Not a woman thing.

 

[Blessings]

That's great, mayne...I like a woman who is 'bout something and is a down to hustle for hers, also.

What i'm saying is - I don't care how she get hers as long as she's getting it. Meaning:
when I met a lady, I don't a give a good gottdamn where she went to school, what degree(s) she got,
or what sorority she's in...and this is often the first info they give you after their names.
That's not the chit that makes me wanna check for her.




I don't want any kids, so most of your post is irrelevant to me.
Even still, High School Drop Outs are still out here gettin' their chit together, and are also fine.
Like I said above...I don't care how she gets hers, as long as she's getting it.

I feel you...

 

[Ooh Marty]

Something bright and summery.
Yellow lol, I think that's what I'm gonna do next.

I love the way it looks on brown feet.

Girl !

Light colors look beautiful on brown skin

I was thinking about white as well

 

[Rocket Scientist]

All that education and some of them still don't know how to cook

 

[Rawtid]

I don't want any kids, so most of your post is irrelevant to me.
Even still, High School Drop Outs are still out here gettin' their chit together, and are also fine.
Like I said above...I don't care how she gets hers, as long as she's getting it.

Good.

 

[www.THUG.com]

Every time a thread pop up condemning women and their dating choices, I can always tell that the breh is going off due to a recent rejection.

It'll be OK OP, girls come a dime a dozen.

 

[iBrowse]

I need to get a pedicure but I don't know which color I should get on my toes

I was thinking a nice pretty plum color

I'm thinking about shaving my hair down to a low ceasar from the fade I'm rocking .

I like low maintenance .

 

[Ooh Marty]

I'm thinking about shaving my hair down to a low ceasar from the fade I'm rocking .

I like low maintenance .

U should get that line cut into the side as well

 

[Rawtid]

I'm thinking about shaving my hair down to a low ceasar from the fade I'm rocking .

I like low maintenance .

Me too, except I don't have a fade, I'm just growing it out. Having a ceasar was awesome. I used to get my hair cut on Tuesdays, but my job has been on some fukk shyt the last few weeks so I've missed quite a few appointments. I'm so mad.

 

[KodeBlue]

I'll never understand what educational attainment has to do with finding a mate. People are posting their degrees on dating sites? Also, education as nothing to do with intelligence. Some of the dumbest women I know have advanced degrees.

As far as women dating bad boys, that's the stupidest shyt I ever heard. It's like you know what you're getting yourself into, but you want to proceed anyway, but blame the man for the outcome, then when you're ready to settle down, you want the new guy to "deal with" some shyt you knowingly got yourself into.

 

[Yesterday]

You're pretty much saying that men are attracted to superficial things and women should just accept it but then chastise women for ALSO being attracted to superficial things when looking at men and they should change that.

Why should women be chastised fo finding superficial things attractive (flash, looks, etc) but told to just accept the fact that men find superficial things attractive?

Because women need to accept that you can't have your cake and eat it too. Men admit that we want superficial things but that's generally where the buck ends. We generally aren't expecting women to provide anything beyond that.

But women claim they want stability and to be put on a pedestal, and they want a man who fulfill a superficial need. You either get one or the other. You don't see men out here looking for an Instagram model who happens to be a pharmacist. Or a professional chef who acts like a porn star.

Women need to decide what it is they value, and don't blame men because we can't measure up to this unrealistic standard of providing everything you want

 

[MoonGoddess]

Girl !

Light colors look beautiful on brown skin

I was thinking about white as well

I been thinking about that too but I wear a lot of closed shoes and notice the dye will come off on my polish.
I would love to do something crazy tho.